For example, we have several members who cry foul every time someone disagrees with them, a few that are constantly impugning the motives of other posters and some that simply will not follow the rules nohow.
I do agree that if a system were to be in place it should be made clear that the notification should be for real cases, and not simply "tattling" to get someone in trouble.
The idea would be if a poster is genuinely not contributing to discussions and making life generally unpleasant by breaking certain forum guidelines, a person can get a message to an admin on what the violations are (more than once, because everyone can slip up once in a while) and which posts they can be seen in.
The other person who replied to your post had an interesting suggestion of limiting posters to a couple uses, and if they are seen to be frivolous, then losing the privilege. I was thinking they themselves could be suspended, but losing the privilege of notification could be equally effective, without going through the trouble of altering their posting status. The "Boy who Cried Wolf" penalty.
Disagreement should not be considered a problem, and make it clear that it must be factual (evident) breach of the forum guidelines. I am not suggesting this turn into a giant game of getting people suspended, or introducing a measure of paranoia to keep people in line.
As far as people not following the rules, then I think they ought to be limited to the nonserious areas, until they can show improvement. I think there is a point a poster can reach where they are simply detracting from conversations, and that becomes their modus operandi.
holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)