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anastasia
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Message 78 of 170 (415252)
08-08-2007 11:25 PM
Reply to: Message 62 by Straggler
08-08-2007 7:18 PM


Re: Why is Bestiality Disgusting?
Straggler writes:
As I have explained a few time I am finding it hard to reconcile my feelings about the subject with my rational conclusions.
That's a good clue about morality. Some things you just feel in your gut. It might be instinct, it may be the voice of God or conscience, who knows.
I don't believe bestiality is appropriate behaviour for any self-respecting or kind person. End of story. ana is being stubborn this time.

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anastasia
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From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 83 of 170 (415270)
08-09-2007 2:38 AM
Reply to: Message 82 by Archer Opteryx
08-09-2007 12:25 AM


Re: What could be more rational?
Excellent! Bravo!
Great post, Archer.
It is a very thin line indeed.
On many occasions, I have been fooled by appearances. If your Bob had worn clean underwear to work, on the outside albeit, he may have done so with the intent of making a statement. People do things like that at parties, or in bands, or in protest of 'normalcy'. If you are prejudice, you may miss the point, and skip the lesson.
Prejudice can be a dangerous thing. Complacency is just as bad. I have learned great things from the homeless, from the drunken old timers, from the begrudged wives and mothers. I have felt great kinship with their humanity, but sure knowledge that I must not become comfortable in their shoes.
Look at public nudity: immoral by Christain standards and generally illegal in the US. I am not repulsed in the least by display of nudity in other cultures. In my culture however, it is such an unusual thing, a thing that relativists don't go about doing, which atheists don't go about doing, which any 'normal' person doesn't go about doing, that it is foolish not to question a person's motives or, ultimately, their sanity. If a person is completely oblivious to their surrounding 'norm', it speaks of a bigger problem.
It is true that we may find no rational basis for despising a behaviour. It is true that sometimes genius behaves in irrational ways...er, non standard ways. The artist can see through the convention at times, and be called an eccentric. The serial killer may do the same, and be called insane. Very often it is not ultimately about morality, but social etiquette, and to wantonly disobey etiquette is to walk a very thin line.
Your post was way too good for my petty remarks. I can only say that I firmly believe that committed man and woman were intended to have sexual relations, and this is the only rationale I need have in the matter. It is of no consequence whether man or woman or chicken gets hurt, ill, or annoyed. It is of no consequence whether or not society deems bestiality acceptable. It is better to examine what we believe than to spend time rationalizing what we don't understand. IOW I should question whether my belief in consentual, procreative relations is 'right' and reasonable, and only then hold another behaviour up to that standard. If the standard is flawed, the conclusions will be flawed. I believe the standard for morality as we know it IS flawed, but that is another subject.

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anastasia
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From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 91 of 170 (415322)
08-09-2007 1:52 PM
Reply to: Message 87 by Stile
08-09-2007 10:15 AM


Re: Equal Treatment
Stile writes:
I agree. I got a little carried away with my terminology. Although, if you read the whole post, I wasn't trying to imply that the two are exactly the same. I just mean they should be treated equally in terms of responibility, safety concerns and respect.
Well, there is another clue. An animal lower on the food chain should not be used for mating purposes, unless humans have some weird unstinct to play act before they consume their prey. I don't see that we do.

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anastasia
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Message 95 of 170 (415338)
08-09-2007 2:48 PM
Reply to: Message 92 by Stile
08-09-2007 2:09 PM


Re: What's the objection?
Stile writes:
Again, I just see this reason as "having sex with an animal and then eating it later is weird... ew." In which case, I don't see it as much of a reason to take seriously.
It's weird, and I told you I will stubborn this one out. Since I am convinced that sexual pleasure is only an impetus for procreation, and that it should not be an end in itself, I have no problem justifying the weirdness on a rational basis.
Edited by anastasia, : No reason given.

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anastasia
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Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 106 of 170 (415482)
08-10-2007 11:25 AM
Reply to: Message 97 by Taz
08-09-2007 3:13 PM


Re: What's the objection?
Taz writes:
Throwing out anything that you can cook up to support what you already admitted is something you're going to be stubborn about no matter what isn't going to be helpful, especially your cause on the matter.
Taz, sometimes it is good to look at things rationally. Is there any rational reason to have sex with animals? Is there any really good empirical way to prove that it is a licit behaviour for humans?
For the record, I thought Archer had a good point in general, but I also pointed out what you did about sanity. Read the whole thing.
Edited by anastasia, : No reason given.

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anastasia
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Message 107 of 170 (415484)
08-10-2007 11:37 AM
Reply to: Message 98 by Stile
08-09-2007 3:18 PM


Re: A rational statement, but made off an irrational basis
Stile writes:
What I have a problem with is anastasia saying bestiality is wrong for anyone else, and her only basis for saying so is "it's wrong for anastasia".
If you aren't trying to say that bestiality is wrong for others. Than we really have nothing to discuss. If you do say that... what gives you the right to tell other people how to live their lives where no one else is affected? You know you don't have the right to tell me if I can wear green shoes or blue shoes. So why do you think you have the right to tell me I can't have sex with a cow? In both scenarios, no other people are affected.
Stile, I don't think everyone must follow my personal standards, but all of us have a double standard. We have laws which say yes, all of us need to follow certain standards, but then we pick and choose which standards they will be.
I could have a rational basis for telling you what to wear, and I DO have a rational basis for what I believe about bestiality. I can't control you, of course, but instead of telling me nothing is wrong with bestiality, give me a reason why it is useful.

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anastasia
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From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 121 of 170 (415721)
08-11-2007 6:04 PM
Reply to: Message 118 by Straggler
08-11-2007 12:06 PM


Re: Bestiality IS Rationally Immoral - Conclusion
Straggler writes:
For this argument to be wrong I think someone would have to demonstrate why it is rationally acceptable to disregard notions of harm and consent on animals whilst maintaining them in cases of humans incapable of consciousness.
Call me old fashioned, but I think there is nothing wrong with using an animal for food, even thought it is sad on the mass market level. It is immoral to treat an animal inhumanely, however. I think that it borders on the inhumane to impose sex upon animals.
More importantly, it appears everyone has strayed away from the idea that it is possible to treat ourselves inhumanely. Morality is not simply or only about what we do to others, although in modern culture it is usually portrayed that way. More so, morality is about what we consider to be good for US. Surely we can say that any form of sexual gratification that we enjoy is good for us, but what does it say about our dignity? What does it say about our level of respect for our own bodie?

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anastasia
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Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 122 of 170 (415724)
08-11-2007 6:14 PM
Reply to: Message 109 by Stile
08-10-2007 12:14 PM


Re: A rational statement, but made off an irrational basis
Stile, you must understand that 'some people like to have sex with animals', and 'some people think it is not becoming to human dignity' are not arguments that go any way towards 'is this action moral or immoral'?
If your greatest standard is that we do no harm to others, then for you it is moral.
For me it is immoral.
But, I'm not even saying it's "useful". I'm saying it's "not wrong". So, if you're actually saying it is wrong, why do you say that?
I already told you. Humans are meant to have sex with humans.
Now, get busy and tell me you have some way of knowing I am wrong. If you can't prove that we should have sex with animals, I can feel free to believe that we should not. I can be free to believe that since others are also human, they should not have sex with animals either. I can't stop them, but I have no problem saying it is wrong, any more than you have saying it is right.
That's the problem with relativity. No one knows who is right or wrong, but they want to act like they do.

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anastasia
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Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
Joined: 11-05-2006


Message 128 of 170 (37161)
04-16-2003 6:36 PM
Reply to: Message 124 by Straggler
08-11-2007 7:08 PM


Re: Bestiality IS Rationally Immoral - Conclusion
Straggler writes:
I accept your argument re personal dignity but presumably (honest I would not know. Really. Honestly. Truly. Please believe me ) real bestialists would not consider themselves persoanlly compromised in this way. AND if they did they would no doubt blame a prejuduced society rather than themselves!!!
This reply is towards both of your posts.
You may notice that all of these threads are the same discussion over and again. The relative/absolute threads are the same as the homosexuality threads, are the same as the bestiality threads. It is such simple stuff.
Lesson 1. You can't judge a fellow human's morality. He or she may honestly believe they are doing nothing wrong.
Lesson 2. Believing something is harmless does not mean it is harmless. It does mean the person is guiltless of intentional harmful motive.
Lesson 3. Absolutism does not mean doing the same darn thing in every situation.
Here is an example, likewise far-fetched as an analogy.
Pesticides can not be consumed by humans. If a 3 year old dumps a pesticide in mama's lemonade, he is blameless, but mama gets ill or dies. If mama dumps a pesticide in the child's milk, she is evil, and child gets ill or dies. IOW, same cause, same result, different verdict. Is poisoning someone moral? No. Relativism say 'yes' it may be moral in some places and some cultures and times. Absolutism says it is always immoral, always will be, always was. Neither absolutism nor relativism deal with guilt for a crime committed, but strictly with the definition of 'crime'. No one seems to be getting that concept.

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anastasia
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Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
Joined: 11-05-2006


Message 139 of 170 (416094)
08-13-2007 8:16 PM
Reply to: Message 135 by Stile
08-13-2007 9:28 AM


Re: A walk in the park
Stile writes:
You A -> "Meh, I wish he wouldn't do that, that's so wrong, let's continue our walk."
So you want me to feel about the same way I would if I saw a couple slobbering all over each other at a bar, or a guy mooning me, or someone's underwear left in a pubic restroom?
We can be disgusted at many things and look the other way. We can't look the other way when something really wrong is happening. You are not being sensible here. You are using your opinion that nothing very strange or wrong is going on, and judging my hypothetical reaction based on that.
I'm no longer discussing if it's simply "right" or "wrong". That, really, doesn't mean very much. What I'm discussing is whether or not we should stop others from engaging in bestiality.
Yes, I know. You are concluding that bestiality is distasteful to you, but ok in general.
I really have no problems with differing opinions. In fact, I believe that different opionions is exactly why life is so amazing. The only thing I have a problem with is when people try to force their views on others simply to restrict another's freedom.
Since you have dicided that bestiality is not wrong, you feel that you should force this view on others.

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anastasia
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Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 144 of 170 (416366)
08-15-2007 12:48 PM
Reply to: Message 140 by Taz
08-14-2007 1:15 AM


Re: A walk in the park
Tazmanian Devil writes:
Nope, not what he was saying at all. He's just trying to prevent you from forcing your view on others. Other than that, you can consider it as wrong as you want to.
What if someone were to forcibly prevent me from forcing my views on others?
You don't see that making something a 'freedom' is legitimizing it?

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anastasia
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From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 145 of 170 (416367)
08-15-2007 12:51 PM
Reply to: Message 142 by Stile
08-14-2007 9:45 AM


Re: Wrong motives
Stile writes:
I am judging your hypothetical reaction. But on the basis that you shouldn't be allowed to restrict anyone's freedoms. Not on the basis that I think bestiality should be okay.
Sure. I guarantee you that if you passed a house where a man was raping a woman, you would not care about freedoms, because you have determined that act to be wrong. This is not an attempt to trip you up or talk in circles, it is a plain fact that whether or not ana finds something wrong doesn't matter one bit when society makes it's determination.

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anastasia
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From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 147 of 170 (416406)
08-15-2007 4:53 PM
Reply to: Message 146 by Stile
08-15-2007 4:41 PM


Re: Wrong motives, again
Stile writes:
In terms of obliterating other people's freedom's, your decision to stop Bob from engaging in bestiality is equal to this man's decision to rape that woman. I will stop the man from raping the woman's freedom. And I will equally stop you from raping Bob's freedom.
In turn, raping my freedom, and thus illustrating that freedom is not the real objective. I am only free to do what you think is ok. We all suffer from that.

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anastasia
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From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 164 of 170 (416540)
08-16-2007 2:41 PM
Reply to: Message 163 by Stile
08-15-2007 9:36 PM


Re: You are correct. Any better idea?
Stile writes:
Do you agree that some freedoms must be restricted? I mean, if not, I'm free to steal your kids, right? So I'm going to assume you don't believe this ridiculous position that your quote implies.
We all buy into it to some extent. Obviously, freedom has not always been taken for granted, but we are only free to do those things which society says are acceptable. We were 'free' to capture and control people for 1000's of years. Anyone can see that conplete freedom is not possible, and therefore freedom itself is not the greatest goal of morality. The greatest goal is in determining which actions we should be free to choose. If you use 'freedom' as both the ideal and the rational measuring stick, you get into these kinds of messes where you know you are contradicting yourself.
Do you propose that certain people's freedoms to life and happiness shouldn't be as important as others? Because your quote certainly strongly implies that you do. How do you decide who's subective view is better than anothers? Do you just selfishly decide that your subjective view should be taken over everyone elses? How do you rationally defend that?
I have no idea how my quote says this. It is you who is putting limits on my freedoms, in a purely hypothetical situation.
I am not sure why you are mentioning the right to life. I certainly believe that everyone is 'endowed' with the right to the pursuit of happiness, but for the reasons already stated, no one has the right to pursue the 'wrong' kind of happiness. If your goal can be met by robbing rich widows, knocking off your benefactor, cheating on your spouse, OR having sex with beasts, that kind of happiness is not licit.
Since you keep repeating yourself in ever regressing circles, I will ask you one more time to step out of your little box and realize that life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness CAN NOT determine in totality which actions are legal, licit, moral, etc.
You can rationally defend that "what anastasia says" should be taken as morally right. But, well, you're pretty much forced to throw out any notion of human equality or fairness. Personally, I find such ideals to be very important.
You can keep trading in 'what ana says' for 'what Stile says' but you are meeting the same blockade every time. It's not about what anybody says, it is about what makes sense, and again, you have not been able to show me any reason why bestiality should be practiced by humans. The least you could do is show me some web link with our closest counterparts in the animal kingdom doing it.

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