i assume that there is then a relationship between time and space then.
so if you were going at .999 the speed of light would your time be .001 of normal?
Yes, there most certainly is a relationship between time and space - this is the heart of Special Relativity. However, the relationship is based upon hyperbolic geometry, so at .999c, your time would be the square root of (1 - .999^2) as a fraction of normal, so about .045
At .5c, your 4-velocity would be projected .86 into time and .86 into space. But an observer would simply see you travelling at .5c - if he looked closely, he would see your time having slowed, by watching your watch tick, or your heart beat. He would also see your length contracted in the direction of travel. Both of these are the result of the above space and time projections.
There is no way to travel such that you age the same as the person who stays behind. The longest path through space-time is that that experiences no acceleration. Any acceleration will always shorten the path, and hence reduce your age between two events.
in the future there could be "time jumpers" that do what they can to learn as much as possible while the world ages behind them. crazy!
Yes, it is very tempting to jump through time to see what happens - I'd certainly be tempted, though given the current state of our space-faring technology, I don't hold much hope for a near-c spacecraft in my lifetime! Alternatively, you can get the same effect by hanging around a black hole. Sadly, to 'hang' around a black hole requires propulsion systems that could easily take you to near-c.