Humans, male and female, are not neotenous. We have numerous paedomorphic traits (acquired at different points in our evolution) but the relative paedomorphy of traits reflects differing selective pressures through human evolution not a neotony event.
This is a fine distinction; and I'm not convinced by your selectionism. It is at least plausible that (hormonal?) changes favored because they produced one selectively advantageous pedomorphic trait could as a side-effect have induced another which was neutral or even somewhat disadvantageous.