Where they are advised that it is morally and socially acceptable to abstain as an aid against peer pressure etc (overt and otherwise).
Its not peer presure per se, its gen pressure their sexual organs are starting to or have developed and their hormones are dictating to them have sex, to abstain is fighting your own nature in a sense.
Im not saying its bad to abstain it is one option one can take but it is the hardest option.
Edit: abstaining to me is saying no im not going to have sex with you because im too young, bla bla bla. Not im not going to have sex with you because i dont have a shot, i have not got a clue how to get in your pants, there hasto be some sex on the table for you to abstain from it otherwise its like a poor man who does not have any food saying im on a diet, he is not he is starving.
As for not having sex before marriage i find it silly what if on your honeymoon you find out that your life partner isnt worth a dam in bed.
Edit: i rather go with a social norm from an African tribe where if the husband finds out that his wife is a virgin he demands a larger dowry from the womans father because he hasto teach her everything.
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