jar writes:
"huh"? ...yada yada yada
Jon writes:
I think what Phat might have meant is someone who 'needs' the money...
That is indeed what I meant.
quote:
Lottery ticket-holders in Kansas, Illinois and Maryland each selected the winning numbers and will split a $640 million jackpot that was believed to be the world's largest such prize, a lottery official said Saturday.
Now that I am again disappointed by the reality that is gambling, I feel strongly that I have to make a decision about quitting all gambling. I have done this many times before, usually for no longer than a week or two, and in fact the longest I have ever gone without gambling was 2 months...which happened roughly three years ago. I even had another topic here at EvC called
The Philosophy Behind The Twelve Steps which I attempted. Back then, Crashfrog mentioned an alternative...
Crashfrog writes:
I don't think it would be anything so glib as a bunch of steps, but why don't you look up Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, as mentioned in my link, and we can discuss it as an alternative to woo?
At that time, I was reluctant to consider any other alternative therapy...I had already been brainwashed by the 12 step people..they even had a Christian version known as Celebrate Recovery, a brainchild of Pastor Rick Warren.
Muchy more recently, (last week) I was given a book called
Rational Recovery:The New Cure for Substance Addiction
I have started reading it, and as of this moment have already decided that I want to quit gambling. I went through a bankruptcy, numerous losses of money approaching $100.00 a week for 5 years, and now...as we speak...I find that I need to ask a rent advance from my room mate. The shame is a good sign, according to the author...one needs to start by
feeling their addiction. The only step required is to decide that one wants to quit....
now and not sometime in the future.