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ringo
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Message 811 of 1234 (743017)
11-26-2014 11:25 AM
Reply to: Message 808 by dronestar
11-26-2014 11:13 AM


dronester writes:
ringo writes:
Of course the question here is whether circumcision constitutes "harm". So where do you draw the line?
I and others have already specified many times: we think removing the clitoris is not merely circumcision, but rather mutilation. Removal of the entire penis would also be mutilation, not circumcision.
I don't think I've said that circumcision, no matter how extreme, is not mutilation. I've said it's not necessarily abuse.
And you're still not answering the question: Where do you draw the line? What level of "alteration" less than FGM would be acceptable to you?

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ringo
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From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 812 of 1234 (743019)
11-26-2014 11:29 AM
Reply to: Message 809 by Tangle
11-26-2014 11:17 AM


Tangle writes:
As you well know, I do not want them to do either. And I am not forcing them to do either. If they choose to do either they will break the law and risk jail.
You're forcing them to choose between the law and their religion/culture. You're forcing them to choose between prison and social rejection. As I often tell Phat, it isn't much of a choice.

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dronestar
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Message 813 of 1234 (743020)
11-26-2014 11:33 AM
Reply to: Message 805 by ringo
11-26-2014 10:51 AM


RingO writes:
You can be as arrogant as you like and insist that you know they have been brainwashed and that they don't really, really, really want it.
Yes, a million social services providers are completely arrogant because they insist that they know and decide what is harmful to a child, and will remove that child from the parents if a threshold is reached.
And with that, I can concur of your judgement unto me, . . . if requesting/demanding safe health and safe environments for children makes me arrogant, . . . then arrogant be I.

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ringo
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From: frozen wasteland
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Message 814 of 1234 (743023)
11-26-2014 11:38 AM
Reply to: Message 810 by dronestar
11-26-2014 11:22 AM


Re: multi is key word
dronester writes:
ringo writes:
Your question was, "Do you want it to stop IMMEDIATELY?"
No, for the third time, my simple question is:
quote:
Is there any CULTURAL practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped immediately in your culture?
Maybe English isn't your first language. What do you think is the difference between those two questions?
I have said more than once that there is nothing, whether a cultural practice or anything else - NOTHING - that is impossible that I want to do. Stopping things immediately is impossible. Therefore, the set of things that I want to stop immediately is empty.
dronester writes:
On what basis do you believe the removal of the clitoris is less harmful than gambling?
I said "on the whole" - i.e. the whole of society. If a handful of women lose their clitoris, you won't even notice unless you're peeking under their skirts. But we have stories in the newspapers every day about people wholes lives and whose families' lives were ruined by gambling.
So gambling is a problem in our society. I would like to see it diminished, though I'm not optimistic that it will be. And I'm certainly not idiotic enough to think it can be stopped, either immediately or eventually.

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ringo
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Message 815 of 1234 (743026)
11-26-2014 11:42 AM
Reply to: Message 813 by dronestar
11-26-2014 11:33 AM


dronester writes:
ringo writes:
You can be as arrogant as you like and insist that you know they have been brainwashed and that they don't really, really, really want it.
. . . if requesting/demanding safe health and safe environments for children makes me arrogant, . . . then arrogant be I.
Read what I wrote again. The word "they" refers to the ones who have (supposedly) been brainwashed - i.e. the women who have been circumcised and who want their daughters to be circumcised. You're arrogant for thinking that you know their minds better than they do.

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dronestar
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Message 816 of 1234 (743031)
11-26-2014 11:51 AM
Reply to: Message 811 by ringo
11-26-2014 11:25 AM


RingO writes:
I don't think I've said that circumcision, no matter how extreme, is not mutilation. I've said it's not necessarily abuse.
Remember when I warned you against be weaselly? Don't make me go all schoolmarm on ya.
RingO writes:
What level of "alteration" less than FGM would be acceptable to you?
Sheesh, I thought I have been abundantly clear.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 439 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 817 of 1234 (743036)
11-26-2014 11:59 AM
Reply to: Message 816 by dronestar
11-26-2014 11:51 AM


dronester writes:
Don't make me go all schoolmarm on ya.
By all means go all schoolmarm on me. Point out where I said that circumcision is not mutilation. It may be a typo or it may be your characteristic illiteracy.
dronester writes:
ringo writes:
What level of "alteration" less than FGM would be acceptable to you?
Sheesh, I thought I have been abundantly clear.
No, as far as I can tell you've been completely silent. Give us an example of what would be acceptable to you.

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dronestar
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From: usa
Joined: 11-19-2008
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Message 818 of 1234 (743037)
11-26-2014 11:59 AM
Reply to: Message 815 by ringo
11-26-2014 11:42 AM


RingO writes:
You're arrogant for thinking that you know their minds better than they do.
Yes, as I mentioned in an earlier post, social workers do this type of thing, assessing the welfare of children through the actions and thoughts of parents, all the time.
Does this really surprise you? I can assure you It's not through magical processes Ringo.

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dronestar
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From: usa
Joined: 11-19-2008
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Message 819 of 1234 (743040)
11-26-2014 12:04 PM
Reply to: Message 817 by ringo
11-26-2014 11:59 AM


RingO writes:
It may be a typo or it may be your characteristic illiteracy.
Now now, play nice.
RingO writes:
No, as far as I can tell you've been completely silent. Give us an example of what would be acceptable to you.
Does the following jog your memory:
quote:
Mutilation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mutilation
Wikipedia
Mutilation or maiming is an act of physical injury that degrades the appearance or function of any living body.
Male circumcision does not degrade the pleasurable function. (it often increases pleasure because woman like it more)
Female circumcision (especially removal of the clitoris) degrades the pleasurable function.

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ringo
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Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 820 of 1234 (743047)
11-26-2014 12:13 PM
Reply to: Message 818 by dronestar
11-26-2014 11:59 AM


dronester writes:
Yes, as I mentioned in an earlier post, social workers do this type of thing, assessing the welfare of children through the actions and thoughts of parents, all the time.
They do that on an individual basis, not across whole cultures. You know, like they might decide that one black man is lazy but they don't project that conclusion on all black men.
It may be that some women who favour FGM have been brainwashed and/or coerced but you have no basis for drawing a blanket conclusion about all of them.

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Tangle
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Message 821 of 1234 (743048)
11-26-2014 12:17 PM
Reply to: Message 812 by ringo
11-26-2014 11:29 AM


You're forcing them to choose between the law and their religion/culture.
No. I'm asking for them to not cut their children and telling them that if they do, they will be subject to UK law. And it's not a religious practice, it's a cultural practice.
You're forcing them to choose between prison and social rejection.
No. I'm telling them that FGM is illegal in their new country, (which they knew before they arrived) so if they wish to mutilate their child, they must stay in their home country or risk being prosecuted for doing it here. Occasionally, that might result in a prison sentence.
By choosing not to mutilate children they will gain wider acceptance in the UK and not be restricted to their old culture - if they come here they need to be prepared to compromise some primitive practices and attempt to assimilate and abide by our cultural practices - ie the law.
As I often tell Phat, it isn't much of a choice.
But it is a choice, a very good one.

Life, don't talk to me about life - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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ringo
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Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 822 of 1234 (743049)
11-26-2014 12:18 PM
Reply to: Message 819 by dronestar
11-26-2014 12:04 PM


dronester writes:
Now now, play nice.
So are you withdrawing the accusation that I said circumcision is not mutilation?
dronester writes:
Does the following jog your memory:
My memory is long and occasionally accurate. What I asked you was about a line. Are you saying that there is nothing between male circumcision and female circumcision? Because I've been saying that the only difference is in degree and I've gotten some flak over that. If you agree with me, thanks for the support. If not, please answer the question: Where do you draw the line?

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ringo
Member (Idle past 439 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 823 of 1234 (743054)
11-26-2014 12:25 PM
Reply to: Message 821 by Tangle
11-26-2014 12:17 PM


Tangle writes:
But it is a choice, a very good one.
That's what Phat always says.
But it's you who thinks it's a good choice, not the people who actually have to make the choice. Tell me the two things you'd least like to do and I'll give you a choice between them. Some choice.

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dronestar
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Message 824 of 1234 (743058)
11-26-2014 12:36 PM
Reply to: Message 822 by ringo
11-26-2014 12:18 PM


RingO writes:
So are you withdrawing the accusation that I said circumcision is not mutilation?
I, I have stated female "circumcision" is mutilation. I, I previously wrote "Female circumcision (especially removal of the clitoris) degrades the pleasurable function." Therefore it is a definition of mutilation. The mutilation of children is wrong and should be illegal. Parents who mutilate their children should go to jail.
If you wholly agree with my statement above, there is nothing to argue, and naturally, I withdraw my argument against you.
RingO writes:
Where do you draw the line?
I, I have stated female "circumcision" is mutilation. I, I previously wrote "Female circumcision (especially removal of the clitoris) degrades the pleasurable function." Therefore it is a definition of mutilation. The mutilation of children is wrong and should be illegal. Parents who mutilate their children should go to jail.
It seems you keep asking me to repeat myself in this thread, so at this point, if you do not agree with my argument above, I'm gonna bow out and let others do the lifting. Good luck Tangle, et al.

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Tangle
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Message 825 of 1234 (743062)
11-26-2014 12:38 PM
Reply to: Message 823 by ringo
11-26-2014 12:25 PM


Ringo writes:
But it's you who thinks it's a good choice, not the people who actually have to make the choice. Tell me the two things you'd least like to do and I'll give you a choice between them. Some choice.
It's the UK society that are quite rightly setting out the terms by which foreigners may live in its society. That's the deal, take it or stay at home where your cultural practices are not regarded as inhumane and illegal.

Life, don't talk to me about life - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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