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Message 421 of 1484 (802737)
03-19-2017 7:11 PM
Reply to: Message 415 by jar
03-19-2017 5:44 PM


Re: Bible definition of gay marriage
BUT the courts have said that factually a same-sex marriage IS legitimate regardless of how you treat it.
How have I said anything different? If I refuse to treat it as legitimate in some circumstance where it is requested of me, I will be legally punished.

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Message 430 of 1484 (802749)
03-20-2017 1:17 AM
Reply to: Message 428 by LamarkNewAge
03-19-2017 9:21 PM


Re: Faith in her own words. "it doesn't apply to us at all "
I don't haave a clue what you are talking about. I've never used the term "table fellowship" and have no idea what it means. You seem to be going on about something in your own head, certainly not anything that has to do with me. (except the upper part of your post above the asterisks, that I recognize as mine but I have no idea what you are saying about it.

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Message 431 of 1484 (802750)
03-20-2017 1:33 AM
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03-19-2017 7:27 PM


Re: Acts 15 is deemed to be about idol temple issues by fundamentalists.
Even with FORNICATION as a sin. The sin list is seen as culturally irrelevant and obsolete today.
WHAT? Who says that?
Faith already said so in another thread.
I can't possibly have said any such thing. What are you talking about?
The same thing was said about fornication in REVELATION 2:14 and 2:21.
You need to stop misrepresenting me. I've said no such thing. This is all in your head.
Faith already brought the "obsolete " meat issue into I Corinthians 6 with excuses of idol ceremonies so by that logic, the whole chapter is about temple prostitution and not private sins. Ceremonial and Table Fellowship in Faith's own words in past threads and frankly even this one (if you know what to look for ).
Everything in that paragraph is wacko. You are making bizarre logical leaps and attributing things to me that I didn't say. The meat sacrificed to idols doesn't apply today just because we aren't surrounded by idolatrous religions, but the principle certainly applies: there are NONSINFUL things we are free to do such as eat meat sacrificed to idols, that we shouldn't do if there is someone among us with a tender conscience about it. Eating meat is nonsinful, it just has implications in context that we need to consider as a reason not to eat it. Fornication on the other hand is clearly a sin no matter what the context, and how you got from eating sacrificed meat to temple fornication is beyond me.
If you are going to impute words to me, words I don't recognize AT ALL, you are obliged to quote them. I don't recognize anything you've said about "ceremonial and table fellowship" -- something you put together in your own mind.
Please stop.
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Message 432 of 1484 (802751)
03-20-2017 1:51 AM
Reply to: Message 423 by Modulous
03-19-2017 7:17 PM


Re: Bible definition of gay marriage
it was a "wedding" cake they ordered.
If it was a wedding cake for one of their birthdays, would that have been a problem? An odd request, for sure - perhaps some kind of inside joke. Would it have been sanctioning a gay marriage, though?
Why is this a question?
Why did you change the subject? The point of its being a wedding cake was that even if they were having a civil union and not a wedding all the terminology that was used referred to weddings, and I believe that is how it was presented to the bakery too.
If they'd been asked for a birthday cake although using a cake in the wedding category, there probably wouldn't have been a problem.
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Message 434 of 1484 (802753)
03-20-2017 1:57 AM
Reply to: Message 422 by Tangle
03-19-2017 7:15 PM


A vote for freedom of conscience
Interesting quotes about freedom of conscience extending to business owners. I think America could do with some of that thinking on this subject.
From The Guardian:
Like most gay and equality campaigners, I initially condemned the Christian-run Ashers Bakery in Belfast over its refusal to produce a cake with a pro-gay marriage slogan for a gay customer, Gareth Lee. I supported his legal claim against Ashers and the subsequent verdict — the bakery was found guilty of discrimination last year. Now, two days before the case goes to appeal, I have changed my mind. Much as I wish to defend the gay community, I also want to defend freedom of conscience, expression and religion.
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Message 437 of 1484 (802756)
03-20-2017 2:13 AM
Reply to: Message 436 by NoNukes
03-20-2017 2:09 AM


Re: Bible definition of gay marriage
When people don't read the context and follow the argument what happens is posts that are something like a bait-and-switch. We're talking about one thing and then suddenly we're having to deal with something completely different because the same words have been moved into a new context.
Mod pointed out that the Oregon couple were having a civil union, not a wedding. I answered that from the bakery's point of view it was presented as a wedding and the whole argument has been about a wedding.
Now you seem to be introducing a completely different topic but I'm not really sure what it is.
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Message 439 of 1484 (802758)
03-20-2017 2:21 AM
Reply to: Message 438 by NoNukes
03-20-2017 2:17 AM


Re: Bible definition of gay marriage
What I said to Mod was that I hadn't thought through the situation of a civil union versus a wedding so I don't have an opinion about it. I don't know if there is enough of a difference to make a difference.
It is you and not the participants who insist that folks are performing a Biblical ritual which you must actively resist
I'm not and never have been talking about what the customers think they are doing, I'm only talking about the Christian's view of gay marriage.
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Message 442 of 1484 (802761)
03-20-2017 2:29 AM
Reply to: Message 438 by NoNukes
03-20-2017 2:17 AM


Let's Go On to Freedom of Conscience
I think this topic has been done to death and now old issues that have already been thoroughly answered are just being recycled.
But in the parallel discussion that has been going on with Modulous, Tangle and PaulK, Tangle quoted a gay activist in the UK who had been against a Christian bakery in a similar situation to those we are talking about here, and has since changed his mind on the ground that the bakers should have freedom of conscience. I haven't brought that up on this thread though I used to argue it. I think it needs to be brought up now.
Tangle quoted the man in his Message 422 and I followed up in Message 434

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Message 444 of 1484 (802763)
03-20-2017 2:34 AM
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03-20-2017 2:32 AM


Re: Let's Go On to Freedom of Conscience
No, of course not, far far better that a Christian bakery suffer the indignities and even be put out of business.

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Message 446 of 1484 (802765)
03-20-2017 2:39 AM
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03-20-2017 2:37 AM


Re: Let's Go On to Freedom of Conscience
Race is not a sexual aberration. I'd happily punch you in the nose for that lie that has been answered dozens of times already. I'd happily get my hand broken for the trouble. I'd happily sit in jail for it.
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Message 459 of 1484 (802786)
03-20-2017 8:14 AM
Reply to: Message 458 by Phat
03-20-2017 7:35 AM


The harm is in disobeying God
As A Christian, I would argue that we all sin, thus there is hypocrisy involved in discriminating against certain sinners and not others.
In case you think this is what the Christian baker, florist and photographer are doing, it ought to be clear by now that they are not, as has been said many times already. It's about the definition of marriage given by God, as understood by conservative Christians. it's not about any class of sinners. You ought to have grasped that by now.
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Message 464 of 1484 (802791)
03-20-2017 8:56 AM
Reply to: Message 461 by Tangle
03-20-2017 8:42 AM


I think this gets unnecessarily confusing when you include what a business simply does not stock. Just because there may be a religious reason for that in some cases can't be made an issue because businesses only stock what they stock for WHATEVER reason.
Shouldn't the topic be confined to what IS stocked but available under some circumstances and not others?
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Message 465 of 1484 (802795)
03-20-2017 9:55 AM
Reply to: Message 462 by Percy
03-20-2017 8:48 AM


Re: Bible definition of gay marriage
Everything in the Bible is to be read in the light of everything else in the Bible because it's all true and one part can't be made to contradict another part.
You said "everything in the Bible." Obviously it can't all be true, and when I brought up examples you replied:
It's been explained over and over why most of the OT practices no longer apply today, ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE ITSELF.
But not even you believe this. You're fine with some parts of the OT, like Genesis 1, and you're not fine with other parts, such as stonings and witch killings.
Not so, I regard every word of it as true, when read in the light of everything else in the Bible. If you read it that way you understand there are conditions and contexts that define how to read parts of it today, especially the OT in light of the NT. It doesn't make the OT any less true to recognize that it had a different role in the time of Moses versus the time of Jesus. Jesus' coming changed the whole meaning of the OT (however, many preachers argue that it's all there in the OT if you understand how to read it properly, because there are plenty of hints about the role of the Messiah to come, but that's too fine a point for this discussion.) At the very least the OT was written for a theocracy, the NT is written to the universal Church which is scattered among all the nations on the planet, and whose "citizenship is not of this world." But ALL of it is still read as true, as "admonitions" as the NT puts it (the stonings and killings teach about the severe offensiveness of sin), or just in general to understand the mind of God.
You pick and choose which parts of the Bible you'll believe and then invent rationalizations for your beliefs that are obvious nonsense, then you have the chutzpah to demand other people accept your nonsense.
I would expect people to accept what a person says about why they believe what they believe, yes, and what I believe and have tried to explain does not come from me but from years of hearing sermons and reading theology. My view of these things falls pretty much right in line with the standard views of the Protestant Christian Church since the Reformers. It is certainly shared by the majority of conservative Christians today who would agree that God's definition of marriage as I quoted it requires us to refuse to do anything to appear to legitimize gay marriage.
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Message 466 of 1484 (802796)
03-20-2017 10:01 AM
Reply to: Message 462 by Percy
03-20-2017 8:48 AM


Re: Bible definition of gay marriage
Left out this part:
It doesn't need to. References in the rest of the Bible make it clear if it escapes you as written.
Well, that's great - if you can provide those references and they say what you claim they say then that would settle this discussion.
I'm thinking of the many references scattered here and there about marriage, instructions to husbands, wives and children for instance, that all together in the context of the whole Bible should confirm the defrinition as given. I don't know if I could come up with any specific passages that would make the point. If I think of any I will. Otherwise I recommend you spend the rest of your life reading the Bible, commentaries and theology books. It's good for the soul and should answer most of your questions.

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Message 469 of 1484 (802802)
03-20-2017 11:19 AM


There was no Discrimination Against Gays, but the Law Does Trash Freedom of Religion
To my mind the thread changed direction when Tangle posted the article in the Guardian by the gay activist who had changed his mind about punishing a Christian bakery for discrimination against gays. The bakery in Belfast had refused to honor a particular request for a gay-marriage-affirming message on a cake, were sued and fined 500 pounds (about $620 in American dollars), and appealed the case. Just before the appeal date the gay activist reported on his change of mind.
I'd kept the topic of this thread to the simple effect of the legalization of gay marriage on Christians who cannot accept gay marriage as legitimate. I didn't want to include the question of the legitimacy of the law itself as a violation of freedom of conscience, or freedom of religion, to avoid complicating the discussion but also because I've accepted that political trends are such we're going to have to accept that our freedom of religion is now destroyed by political correctness and that is that. I just wanted to emphasize that this DOES punish conservative Bible-believing Christians.
It also demolishes freedom of religion, and I'm glad to see this fact raised in the UK, and by a gay activist yet. This Opinion Piece in the Guardian, I’ve changed my mind on the gay cake row. Here’s why makes a good case for that so I think it should be included on the thread. Tangle has been more or less defending it in recent posts.
Here's the conclusion by the author, Peter Tatchell:
...[T]he court erred by ruling that Lee was discriminated against because of his sexual orientation and political opinions.
His cake request was refused not because he was gay, but because of the message he asked for. There is no evidence that his sexuality was the reason Ashers declined his order. Despite this, Judge Isobel Brownlie said that refusing the pro-gay marriage slogan was unlawful indirect sexual orientation discrimination. On the question of political discrimination, the judge said Ashers had denied Lee service based on his request for a message supporting same-sex marriage. She noted: If the plaintiff had ordered a cake with the words ‘support marriage’ or ‘support heterosexual marriage’ I have no doubt that such a cake would have been provided. Brownlie thus concluded that by refusing to provide a cake with a pro-gay marriage wording Ashers had treated him less favourably, contrary to the law.
This finding of political discrimination against Lee sets a worrying precedent. Northern Ireland’s laws against discrimination on the grounds of political opinion were framed in the context of decades of conflict. They were designed to heal the sectarian divide by preventing the denial of jobs, housing and services to people because of their politics. There was never an intention that this law should compel people to promote political ideas with which they disagreed.
The judge concluded that service providers are required to facilitate any lawful message, even if they have a conscientious objection. This raises the question: should Muslim printers be obliged to publish cartoons of Mohammed? Or Jewish ones publish the words of a Holocaust denier? Or gay bakers accept orders for cakes with homophobic slurs? If the Ashers verdict stands it could, for example, encourage far-right extremists to demand that bakeries and other service providers facilitate the promotion of anti-migrant and anti-Muslim opinions. It would leave businesses unable to refuse to decorate cakes or print posters with bigoted messages.
In my view, it is an infringement of freedom to require businesses to aid the promotion of ideas to which they conscientiously object. Discrimination against people should be unlawful, but not against ideas.
Yahoo. NOT AGAINST IDEAS. Beliefs, political opinions. Such as objection to gay marriage.
None of the businesses we've been discussing refused services to gays in general, only services related to gay marriage. Same as the situation in the UK.
A sparkling note of sanity in the enveloping midst of PC murk. (I don't have any illusions that it will go much beyond this refreshingly sane moment, of course, but it's a huge relief to know there are still people who can rise above the PC muck that is engulfing the world.)
So, after pages of the usual PC murk on this thread so far, I invite the same for this revised version of the topic. Let's see freedom of religion trashed to a fare-thee-well on behalf of gay marriage. I'm sure you're all up to it.
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