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ringo
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Message 751 of 1484 (803404)
03-29-2017 4:39 PM
Reply to: Message 747 by Faith
03-29-2017 4:35 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
Faith writes:
Oh yeah now we get the PC attack. Last refuge of the demented Left.
It's not an attack. It's a statement of fact. It's only a small minority of self-styled "Christians" who are riled up about gay marriage - and I doubt that many of them would agree with you on points of doctrine either. There are a thousand ways to be wrong and yours is only one of them.

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Faith 
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Message 752 of 1484 (803405)
03-29-2017 4:41 PM
Reply to: Message 751 by ringo
03-29-2017 4:39 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
the term "haters" is straight from the Leftist/Marxist playbook. PC attack for sure, last refuge of the demented Left as I said.
Actually there are millions of us.

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jar
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Message 753 of 1484 (803406)
03-29-2017 4:44 PM
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03-29-2017 4:37 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
Faith writes:
Funny you keep lying about something that has been proved over and over here. You keep thinking you can force your own definition onto me? Get a clue.
Then I imagine you can point out how I or anyone else forces any definition of anything on you.

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ringo
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Message 754 of 1484 (803407)
03-29-2017 4:44 PM
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03-29-2017 4:41 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
Faith writes:
the term "haters" is straight from the Leftist/Marxist playbook.
No, it's from the dictionary: Hater = person who hates - i.e. a person who has extreme dislike or disgust for some other person or thing.
As opposed to loving thy neighbour.

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Message 755 of 1484 (803408)
03-29-2017 4:55 PM
Reply to: Message 744 by Faith
03-29-2017 4:28 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
The perspective held by those who must refuse service for a gay marriage isn't going to change. It's Bible based.
That seems unlikely. People change their perspective on the message of the Bible all the time. Some may never change, but it remains possible for it to happen.
You don't get to tell us what interpretation is legitimate.
And you don't get to tell others either. That's rather my point.
Why do you keep doing this? The Bible defines marriage for conservative Christians and that's not going to change.
The Bible is not going to change. What people think of it and how they interpret it changes over time. That's just an observable fact.
. Stop saying silly things about baking cakes. ANY service for a gay wedding is the problem.
Yes, I'm perfectly aware of this. The Bible, for the record doesn't say 'thou shalt not provide services for gay marriages' either.
it just happens to have been the cause that brought ruin on a bakery in at least two cases.
Ruin? Even if Sweet Cakes was 'ruined' what other bakery has been ruined, who is the second one you are thinking of?
Oh yeah, OK, just give up on serving weddings because a selfish little minority group that's invented itself out of thin air has to have their way.
Well if we're going to be dicks about this, I can play that game. Yes you selfish Christians who invented your ideas out of thin air doesn't get to have its way over the freedoms of people who actually exist.
Does this kind of attitude actually help us? Or does it just create more heat than light?
There are other ways to get the benefits you want without destroying the biblical definition of marriage.
Yeah, but unfortunately people, typically those calling themselves Bible believing Christians, refused to provide them.
The Biblical definition has not been changed. Has it? I thought your entire point is that it was not going to change. So it cannot be destroyed. It is what it is.
All it should take to get the right to a medical opinion is a written permission on the hospital's books or on a legal form you have drawn up. Really, this isn't rocket science
And yet, time and time again - this was in practice not regarded as sufficient. I guess you haven't watched the struggle over the years, but the gay community has sought all manner of accommodations, but they were never treated as having the same rights as a married couple. It shouldn't have been rocket science, and you had decades to fight alongside them for their rights. But Biblical Christians were worse than silent, they were among the champions of denying these things.
but you had to destroy marriage, marriage as defined as a matter of fact in all times and places.
But Bible Believing Conservative Christians can still have marriage the way they believe in. It's just that atheist Jewish gays can have the marriage the way they believe in now. This seems to aggravate you, like you aren't afforded special privileges or something.
The Bowman-Cryers wanted a WEDDING CAKE. They considered themnselves to be entering into a MARRIAGE. Stop playing with irrelevant semantics.
No - that's the point. You say it's the law allowing same-sex marriage that is the problem. But when I point out that this isn't what resulted in the legal actions you resort to the fact that its merely the fact that gay people called it a marriage that matters.
You are dictating what gay people call their relationship.
We are not dictating what you call yours.
Regardless of whether the definition of marriage is changed in law, you will treat us poorly even if we have the audacity to call our relationships a marriage. That's why I know this isn't about government actions persecuting Christians. It's about Christians wanting the power to dictate what words mean to other people and what words they should use to describe their relationship. It's about you being upset that you are losing control of this power. Animus. That's what it is. Animus and fear and anger at losing your special status.
If you think it sucks to be treated equally - you are really going to hate being treated as less than equal.
Civil rights for Jews doesn't force me to give up mine, but gay marriage does.
Civil rights for Jews might force someone to give up theirs, however. Or are your rights the only ones that matter?

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Message 756 of 1484 (803409)
03-29-2017 5:11 PM


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Message 757 of 1484 (803421)
03-30-2017 8:19 AM
Reply to: Message 753 by jar
03-29-2017 4:44 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
So I suppose in Faith's view non-christians can not be married either. That is the only logical extension of her claims.
If gays destroy marriage by getting married, then non-christians must also, since they are not getting married before the christian sky daddy.
Edited by Theodoric, : ANother sentence to stay within guidelines

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts
"God did it" is not an argument. It is an excuse for intellectual laziness.
If your viewpoint has merits and facts to back it up why would you have to lie?

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jar
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Message 758 of 1484 (803422)
03-30-2017 8:42 AM
Reply to: Message 757 by Theodoric
03-30-2017 8:19 AM


What destroyed marriage.
Theo writes:
If gays destroy marriage by getting married, then non-christians must also, since they are not getting married before the christian sky daddy.
Probably not as long as they are a man and a woman. But they can't live at the man's parents I imagine. That seems it would destroy all marriage based on the cherry picked verse she uses.
They may be able to live with the woman's parents but not sure about that.
Of course if one or more of them happen to have be divorced and then remarry it would likely destroy all marriage.
Edited by jar, : fix sub-title

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Faith 
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Message 759 of 1484 (803429)
03-30-2017 1:11 PM
Reply to: Message 757 by Theodoric
03-30-2017 8:19 AM


Re: don't rock the boat
Man and woman, man and woman, man and woman. Not religious, not religious, not religious, universal, universal, universal, applies to all peoples in all times and all cultures, whose laws generally reflect this ordinance. Man and woman, nothing to do with circumstance, belief or unbelief, culture or anything else. Man and woman, period. As I've said dozens of times on this thread alone. "Marrying" two of the same sex is a fundamental contradiction with the biblical law since they cannot become "one flesh."

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Theodoric
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Message 760 of 1484 (803431)
03-30-2017 1:38 PM
Reply to: Message 759 by Faith
03-30-2017 1:11 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
Show us the biblical definition. Chapter and verse please. Please don't give us your interpretation. Give us chapter and verse that says marriage can only be between a man and a woman and where it says in the Constitution of the United States that non-believers are beholden to this book of mythology.
Edited by Theodoric, : No reason given.

Facts don't lie or have an agenda. Facts are just facts
"God did it" is not an argument. It is an excuse for intellectual laziness.
If your viewpoint has merits and facts to back it up why would you have to lie?

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Faith 
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Message 761 of 1484 (803434)
03-30-2017 1:47 PM
Reply to: Message 760 by Theodoric
03-30-2017 1:38 PM


marriage ordinance again
It's been discussed to death on this thread already, starting in Message 57. I confined it to Genesis 2:24 because that's the gist of the message but start reading in 2:18 for the whole context.
Genesis 2:18-24King James Version (KJV)
18And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
19And out of the ground the Lord God formed every beast of the field, and every fowl of the air; and brought them unto Adam to see what he would call them: and whatsoever Adam called every living creature, that was the name thereof.
20And Adam gave names to all cattle, and to the fowl of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for Adam there was not found an help meet for him.
21And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
22And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

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Faith 
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Message 762 of 1484 (803438)
03-30-2017 2:24 PM
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03-30-2017 1:38 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
I believe that throughout American history Christianity has been rightly favored because it began with Christian settlers and the vast majority of the population has always been Christian. I did not claim the COnstitution supports this in any direct way, but practice has always supported it, in government, in the schools, in the courts and so on.
In any case consr5vative Christians consider the passage in Genesis I quoted to be definitive and it doesn't matter what anybody else says, that is what we act on when there is a conflict with the gay marriage law.

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Message 763 of 1484 (803439)
03-30-2017 3:22 PM
Reply to: Message 762 by Faith
03-30-2017 2:24 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
I did not claim the COnstitution supports this in any direct way
Actually, you have made this claim. According to your post, the first time this was ever challenged was when prayer was challenged in public schools. Of course, you have had to drop this position after some old court cases were cited.
The constitution does not support your position in any way; directly or indirectly. In fact, the constitution supports the exact opposite proposition. The founding fathers were well aware of Mormonism, which I suspect you do not consider Christian, Judaism, Islam, and Hinduism, and according to their words, the constitution does not promote any of them above the other.
If you have some support for an alternative position that consists of something other than what you believe ought to be true, now might be a good time for that.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.

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Message 764 of 1484 (803442)
03-30-2017 3:53 PM
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03-30-2017 3:22 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
In this part of the discussion I didn't claim the Constitution as support. However, prayer in schools was not effectively challenged until Madalyn Murray, notwithstanding court cases I'd never heard about, which shows that the First Amendment was not generally considered to be violated by such prayer. And the sad thing is that its loss is taking the nation to perdition.
All this just makes me hate some of the Founders for their stupid Enlightenment deism that caused them to betray the Christian foundations of this country, paving the way for today's fall into paganism, which is going to destroy the nation completely, as it has just about done in Europe.
Barring the mercy of God, for which I pray.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.

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NoNukes
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Message 765 of 1484 (803443)
03-30-2017 4:01 PM
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03-30-2017 3:53 PM


Re: don't rock the boat
However, prayer in schools was not effectively challenged until Madalyn Murray, notwithstanding court cases I'd never heard about...
No relevancy whatsoever to the discussion given that we are not talking about prayer. Do you have any support whatsoever that the constitution has ever been interpreted to allow actions contrary to general public law?
All this just makes me hate some of the Founders for their stupid Enlightenment deism that caused them to betray the Christian foundations of this country,
So I guess you will stop asking what the Founders have to say about issues?
Looks like ringo was right. We've found ourselves a hater.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.

Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
History will have to record that the greatest tragedy of this period of social transition was not the strident clamor of the bad people, but the appalling silence of the good people. Martin Luther King
I never considered a difference of opinion in politics, in religion, in philosophy, as cause for withdrawing from a friend. Thomas Jefferson
Seems to me if its clear that certain things that require ancient dates couldn't possibly be true, we are on our way to throwing out all those ancient dates on the basis of the actual evidence. -- Faith
Some of us are worried about just how much damage he will do in his last couple of weeks as president, to make it easier for the NY Times and Washington post to try to destroy Trump's presidency. -- marc9000

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