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jar
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Message 226 of 302 (165442)
12-05-2004 4:43 PM
Reply to: Message 225 by Silent H
12-05-2004 4:37 PM


Let'sgo back to my example.
Does the existence of an interfaith marriage threaten the existence of Roman Catholic marriages?
Do secular marriages, those performed before a Justice of the Peace threaten religious marriages?

Aslan is not a Tame Lion

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Silent H
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Message 227 of 302 (165447)
12-05-2004 4:53 PM
Reply to: Message 226 by jar
12-05-2004 4:43 PM


Well let's remember I am using this in the form of challenge type threat and not direct explusive threat.
Does the existence of an interfaith marriage threaten the existence of Roman Catholic marriages?
Yes as long as interfaith marriage is proscripted by definition from RC marriages. I am unsure if they are at this point in time. The fact that a church can change over time does not change the fact that its definitions can be challenged, or its change not result in schisms as people lose faith due to the changes.
Do secular marriages, those performed before a Justice of the Peace threaten religious marriages?
No, I don't think the secular nature itself can present a challenge. That is simply a product of having a legal procedure coincide with a social one. I do not know of any scripture which demands that marriages be done by priests, nor that they must intone the name of God. Indeed, use of the latter would be offensive to some by using God's name in vain.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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Rosie Cotton
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Message 228 of 302 (165449)
12-05-2004 4:59 PM
Reply to: Message 220 by coffee_addict
12-05-2004 3:51 PM


Re: Really OT but so very important.
Yes, I do know that the majority of Americans are prejudiced against my religion. There wasn't actually a war though. There were mobs. WE study Church history in Sunday School. In Illinois it was actually legal to kill "Mormon Males" and you would get $200 per dead male. This remained until up to 1997.
However, that would be imposing on freedom of religion. If the homosexuals created a religion in which that is what they did, I would not say one more word. It is my churh's teaching. (11th article of faith- "We claim the privlege of worshipping Almighty God, according to the dictates, of our own conscience. And allow all men, the same privlege. Let the worship how, where or what they may.) But I'm debating.
I really need to stop debating on the Sabbath.

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randylsu
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Message 229 of 302 (165454)
12-05-2004 5:14 PM
Reply to: Message 228 by Rosie Cotton
12-05-2004 4:59 PM


Re: Really OT but so very important.
Not to butt in, but, Rosie, would a church like this one fit your "if the homosexuals created a religion" requirement? It's a predominantly gay "liberal Christian" church in my neighborhood.
http://www.cathedralofhope.com/

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berberry
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Message 230 of 302 (165455)
12-05-2004 5:15 PM
Reply to: Message 228 by Rosie Cotton
12-05-2004 4:59 PM


Re: Really OT but so very important.
Rosie Cotton writes (among other things that want but at present will not get attention):
quote:
If the homosexuals created a religion in which that is what they did, I would not say one more word.
But there are already Christian churches which respect the idea of gay marriage. The United Church of Christ, which I don't know much about, is apparently quite welcoming of gay couples since they've been trying to run ads on network television making the point that they minister to gays. The Unitarians, unless I'm very much mistaken, have official rites for gay marriage ceremonies. Even the Anglicans (Episcopalians) recognize gay marriages in some ways - or at least in some places.
The point is that a sizable number of Christians fully accept the idea of gay marriage. Why do gay's need to create their own religion in order to gain your (unrequested) silence?

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crashfrog
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Posts: 19762
From: Silver Spring, MD
Joined: 03-20-2003


Message 231 of 302 (165471)
12-05-2004 6:41 PM
Reply to: Message 205 by Silent H
12-05-2004 2:47 PM


It's not. Indeed it does back up what Rosie was saying.
I'm sorry, the rest of your criticism may have some merit but this is simply not true. The citation directly contradicts Rosie's assertion that homosexuality is the result of postnatal environmental influences, which is exactly why I chose it.
In other words it is psychological. Indeed it is all psychological.
Euqivocation on the term "psychological". I know what you mean by it - that homosexuality is the result of neurological influences - but what Rosie means is that it's a reaction to environmental influences on the personality, not biological influences on the brain.
What they did not find evidence for, were SOCIAL FACTORS influencing sexual orientation.
And it was Rosie's argument that social factors were soley responsible for homosexuality. This article makes it absolutely plain that the only known factors are prenatal and hereditary in nature.

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crashfrog
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Message 232 of 302 (165475)
12-05-2004 6:45 PM
Reply to: Message 214 by Rosie Cotton
12-05-2004 3:26 PM


If the majority of America wanted to outlaw homosexuality, because that is what they morally believed in, the majority would rule.
No. The Constitution makes it perfectly clear that there are limits to majority rule. Most pertinent to this discussion is the fact that the Constitution makes it illegal for the religious majority to impose religious laws on people who don't believe in them. That's called the "First Amendment."
Most of my opinions are based on religious values, and without religion, I wouldn't have an opinion.
If you cannot support your opinion on anything but religion, the Constitution makes it absolutely clear that your opinion on the matter is irrelevant to American policy.

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Rosie Cotton
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Message 233 of 302 (165493)
12-05-2004 8:10 PM
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12-05-2004 5:15 PM


Re: Really OT but so very important.
But it isn't exactly what they say is THE right thing. It isn't an aspect of their religion that they are homosexual, it is just a thing that they accept.

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Rosie Cotton
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Message 234 of 302 (165494)
12-05-2004 8:14 PM
Reply to: Message 229 by randylsu
12-05-2004 5:14 PM


Re: Really OT but so very important.
Not really, because they just support it. They don't inforce it. Do you see the difference? I really have to get less into this topic.

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Rosie Cotton
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Message 235 of 302 (165495)
12-05-2004 8:17 PM
Reply to: Message 232 by crashfrog
12-05-2004 6:45 PM


No, it never says that. You can base opinions on whatever you like.
Let's put it this way. I am a very religious person, my religion is pretty much WHAT I am. Most whatever I do, I'm usually thinking if it goes along with my values. By your logic, this would mean I'm a nobody. Am I a nobody? Is that what you are saying? I most sincerely hope not.

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randylsu
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Message 236 of 302 (165496)
12-05-2004 8:24 PM
Reply to: Message 234 by Rosie Cotton
12-05-2004 8:14 PM


Re: Really OT but so very important.
So a religious group would have to ENFORCE a practice you disagree with, rather than support or tolerate it, to garner your deference on religious grounds? Ah, yes, I see.
Oh, and do "the homosexuals" who would have to form this religion include lesbians, bisexuals, and/or transgender individuals or would they have to form their own groups? (Since I'm not sure how those sexualities might meet your enforcement requirement.)

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Rosie Cotton
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Message 237 of 302 (165497)
12-05-2004 8:27 PM
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12-05-2004 8:24 PM


Re: Really OT but so very important.
All of them. As long as it is technically a religion that enforces it, I can't attack it.
But that doesn't mean that you can just go out and start a religion. There are requirements to what can be a religion. For starters, they have to worship someone or something. Next, there have to be at least six members for it to be considered a religion. There are requirements.

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randylsu
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Message 238 of 302 (165498)
12-05-2004 8:29 PM


Sorry to the rest of you, don't mean to derail the thread ...
I'm just a little perplexed by this particular line of reasoning from Rosie. It almost seems that the thing that the homophobic Xian right fears most,i.e. homosexual proselytization, would be OK to her if there was a religion backing it up.
Anyone else find this ironic?
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crashfrog
Member (Idle past 1495 days)
Posts: 19762
From: Silver Spring, MD
Joined: 03-20-2003


Message 239 of 302 (165511)
12-05-2004 9:57 PM
Reply to: Message 235 by Rosie Cotton
12-05-2004 8:17 PM


No, it never says that.
Allow me to quote from the First Amendment:
quote:
Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof;
In other words, it's unconstitutional to do exactly what you said: the Constitution prevents a religious majority from inflicting their religious will upon everybody. So, yes. It does say that.
Most whatever I do, I'm usually thinking if it goes along with my values.
And it's fine for you to justify what you choose to do from a religious standpoint. But it's quite unconstitutional for you to justify the laws you support for other people from a religious standpoint.
By your logic, this would mean I'm a nobody. Am I a nobody?
No, you're an American, just like me. Freedom of religion means freedom from religion, if I choose to live my life without it. I have a right, same as you, not to have other people enforce religious beliefs on me.

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Scaryfish
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From: New Zealand
Joined: 12-06-2004


Message 240 of 302 (165528)
12-06-2004 1:02 AM
Reply to: Message 223 by Silent H
12-05-2004 4:18 PM


First of all, hi. I've been reading around here for a while and finally decided to register.
I just thought I'd comment on some things here regarding genetics.
I am still undecided if there are genetic factors or not. I specifically find it somewhat whimsical to think of a gene playing such an important role that it can be called a "gay gene". I think at best there could be genetic factors where they effect development of this or that physical system such that it is easier for other factors to shape one's sexuality to what we call "homosexual".
I pretty much agree with what I think you're saying here, but I believe there is a bit of misunderstanding. The term "gay gene" is one of those popularised oversimplifications - much like "survival of the fittest" is to natural selection. I don't think that any geneticist believes there is a single gene controlling all of human sexuality. Neither do I think there is any combination of genes that account for it all. But that is not to say there are no significant genetic influences.
If genes were a cause then identical twins would have to be 100% matching in orientation, which they are not. Thus we can rule out genetics as cause.
Sorry, but that doesn't fit. The fact that the orientation of twins doesn't match 100% of the time does show that genes are not the only factor involved, but doesn't mean that they don't play any role at all. For example, most people agree that type 1 diabetes has genetic factors. A twin study published in 2003 gives concordance rates of much less than for sexual orientation - 27.3%. (Just grabbed from this abstract.) There are also known environmental factors contributing to the disease. When it comes right down to it, pretty much all human phenotypes are an interaction between genetics and environment (note I'm using environment here to mean anything non-genetic).
Personally, I think the most plausible explanation is a number of genes as well as environmental factors influencing a persons orientation. The environmental factors probably include hormone levels in utero, and other factors as well I'm sure. Probably even some pure randomness thrown in for good measure.

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