If all scientists and educated faithful can come to an understanding that each deserve to believe what they individually want to believe, rejecting nothing, -- including either’s concepts of possibility or probability; and in that process reject dogma,-- the vitriol will cease and a conversation can commence.
You talk a lot about purpose. But this is all about one particular purpose. And that's the purpose of fundamentalist religious groups to force the teaching of their religion into the science class room against the opposition of scientists and in violation of the first amendment of the US constitutions.
If religion gives up on that dishonest and despicable purpose, then most of the animosity will go away.
Jesus was a liberal hippie