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Author Topic:   The bible and homosexuality: Round 3
The Dread Dormammu
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Message 230 of 306 (159140)
11-13-2004 6:18 PM
Reply to: Message 229 by Rrhain
11-13-2004 4:16 PM


Way WAY out of line.
Given the description you have had, it would appear that you're actually gay but instead became straight because of the "bad experiences" you had with other men. You are so emotionally destroyed by mn that it made you change your sexual desires. Your hatred toward men made you never want to have one again.
So tell us, riVeRraT: What sort of man turns you on? Do you go for the big, burly bears or for the twinks? Does a man in a suit get you going or maybe you have a thing for uniforms.
Rrhain I am appaled by what I have just read! Normaly your posts (including the majority of the one quoted) are well reasoned, polite and astute. But those last 2 paragraphs are way out of line. Perhaps you meant them in a joking fashion but if so it was NOT funny.
It has always been my policy never to speculate about the sexual orentation of others. If someone wishes to volenteer such information that's fine but this sort of post is, frankly, offensive.
Did you actualy think that posting that sort of comment would prompt a response that would be usefull to this discussion in any way?
It might seem like I'm singleing you out, and I suppose I am, but that is because I think that you, more than others, should be able to make your points without resorting to what is essentualy name calling.
This does not mean that I think it is name calling to call someone gay. If someone is openly gay and you reference that as part of your argument that can be constructive. But it IS name calling to openly speculate about their sexual preferances, not to mention very poor taste.
I know that we can all get very emotional when discussing this topic and it is perhaps one of the reasons the Admins wish to close this topic off for good. I think that would be a shame but when I read posts like this I'm inclined to agree.
I for one get very upset when I hear homophobic remarks thrown around by fundimentalists, but the only way to respond to such remarks is with a rational discussion, not comments that can only result in a flame war.
Rrhain I know that you are far better than this and I hope you will take the opportunity to apologise to riverrat.

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The Dread Dormammu
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Message 231 of 306 (159141)
11-13-2004 6:22 PM
Reply to: Message 213 by riVeRraT
11-12-2004 5:58 AM


P.S.
By the way riverrat don't think you are off the hook.
I picked on Rrhain because he is better than this. You have yet to prove that you are. Your comments about rape are several orders of magnitude worse.
This message has been edited by The Dread Dormammu, 11-13-2004 06:23 PM

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The Dread Dormammu
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Message 270 of 306 (159299)
11-14-2004 5:52 AM
Reply to: Message 247 by riVeRraT
11-13-2004 8:19 PM


Truthfully?
Thanks Dread, and welcome to the forum. You can choose to ignore rhain at any given moment. He only picks on me because I am Christian.
No he picks on you because he disagrees with you, and you do not support your arguments.
Let me set a few things straight, and you can go back and read my posts. Only rhain would twist them around to make them sound otherwise. His logic is, that If I do not agree with Homosexuality, then I hate homo's.
Well, can you at least understand why someone who's homosexual might be just a little bit offended when you say that homosexuality is a sin? I mean you can protest and say "Well, we are all sinners" but nonetheless you are saying that something about them that they beleve they can not change is inhernetly wrong.
I will however not judge a person by his/her actions, I am in no position to do such. No matter what rhain thinks, I will not do that.
Uh huh, but if you were alive 2000 years ago you would have stoned a woman to death for not screaming during a rape. Please explain how that is not judging someone based on their actions.
If I point something out in the bible that is against God, I am not condemming anyone. I profess that I am no better than that person. But that does not mean, that we cannot point these things out to each other.
You may not think you are any better than that person but you ARE still saying that they are doing something wrong. You are saying that homosexuality is a SIN.
Look, think about it this way, lets say we agree that we are both sinners. You point out that it is wrong to steal, and I point out that it is wrong to grow 2 different kinds of crops next to each other; When you get mad at me for trying to burn down your "unclean crops" I say "Hey it's alright I'm a sinner too." You would not be angry that I tried to correct you, though you might be angry about that too, you would be angry that I tried to "correct" something that wasn't wrong.
Now you may protest that you won't take any actions against homosexuals but what do you think you are doing when you vote down gay marrage?
So tell me, if you found out your wife enjoyed her being raped, what would you do? Truthfully.
First of all it is a logical impossibility for someone to enjoy rape. For it to be rape, the person being raped has to not want it, right? There are 3 questions I think you might be asking here and I will answer them in turn.
1) What would I do if I found out my wife had been raped: I would call the police, try to catch/stop/imprison the rapist, find counseling for my wife etc.
2)What would I do if I found out my wife had been cheating on me: I would divorce her or seek couples counceling depending on the circumstances.
3)What would I do if I found out my wife had sexual fantasys about rape: I would discuss it with her, and perhaps could be persuaded to participate in a safe fantasy with her (Complete with safety words etc).
Truthfully, thats what I would do. BUT even if that is NOT what I would do, it wouldnt make it right for me to stone her to death! It's not enough for you to say:
Rape=bad
And then argue that it would be permissable to stone a rape victim to death.
You have to explain (and good luck) why it could EVER conceveably be right to stone a woman (or anyone for that matter) to death AT ALL! Let alone some poor woman who has had somthing unspeakably horrible done to her.
This is what I meant when I said your comments about rape were several orders of magintude worse. I picked on rrhain because I am on his side and I don't like my side to behave like that. I wish someone on your side would take offense at some of the things you say. Phatboy, other Christians, I'm waiting.

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The Dread Dormammu
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Message 288 of 306 (159496)
11-14-2004 11:06 PM
Reply to: Message 277 by riVeRraT
11-14-2004 8:57 PM


Take a stand or aplolgise!
Thast just it, I have not said it is a sin. The bible has said it is a sin. I feel myself that it is not right, that is what God has shown to me. But that does not dictate how I treat a gay person, I still love them.
Wait a minute lets not split hairs here. You think the bible says homosexuality is a sin right? And you say that you agree with the bible, right? So you ARE saying that homosexuality is a sin! As for how that dictates how you treat others see below.
And if anyone tries to point out about how I am against same sex marriage, its not because I am against gays, its because I do not consider it a marriage. If there is a way for them to get all the legal rights, then go for it. But it is not a marriage.
Richard Dawkins says that language should be our servant and not our master. If we call gay marriage "civil unions" then the law can have different rights for civil unions then it has for marriage! In fact this is exsactly what has happened when we institute civil unions! If you realy think that gays should have all the leagal rights as straight people then you should support gay marrage, Call them civil unions in your private life if you want but IN A LEAGAL CONTEXT they should be called marrage. If you disagree then you must have some other reason for not wanting to allow them to marry. Perhaps it is biblical?
Lord I pray right here and now, that everyone in this thread would just understand the moral meaning of that verse, In Jesus's name, Amen.
Even if the "moral meaning" of this verse is what you claim it is, you are still saying that 3000 years ago you would have stoned a woman to death just for cheating on you. I find that monstorus.
Isn't that intrappment? A gay person asks you, is Homosexuality a sin? You repond yes, and then they say who are you to say that?
Why is it entrapment? How is asking a simple yes or no question entrapment? Do you think the bible says homosexuality is a sin? Do you think the bible is right when it says this? If you think it's a sin why are you ahsamed to say so, if you are not ashamed to say so then how is this entrapment?
I did however start a thread that posed the question of why is being Gay ok. I did not get any acceptable answers.
See my thread "Harm in homosexuality?"
Its not marriage, thats how I feel, you expect me to change how I feel? Its like calling a car an airplane.
Look call it what you want but if you don't call it marriage IN A LEGAL CONTEXT then people aren't going to have the same rights! Why does it bother you if people use words differently than you do; Praticularly in a legal context where they use words differently all the time?
I am not saying that it {stoning} is now {ok}, but back then it was permissable to do it. It what was needed to keep the people in line.
There is such an easy answer to this, and that is don't rape, and don't cheat. Only bad comes from it, so why do you support it?
PERMISSABLE? PERMISSABLE?
Alright its 3000 years ago. You are the high preist of the tribe of Levi and your people bring to you a woman who has been raped. They say she didn't cry out.
Well according to your logic she must have enjoyed it! And she should be stoned to death. "Why didn't you scream?" you say, "You knew you would get stoned to death if you didn't ?" Where is your easy answer now? Go ahead and say that you would stone her to death, say the law is a just law, but I don't think you are that inhuman.
The devil has won the battle in making the concept of cheating seem ok to you. But Jesus will win the war.
It is a very serious charge to accuse people of being won over by the devil. I don't see how you think this is going to help the discussion. I can only see this offending people and cannot imagine how you think it will win people over to your side.
It seems to me we just have had such a history of softening our laws to the point that people can now get away with murder.
You may think its not right now to stone a woman for cheating, but tell me a woman cheating is right.
When did I say I thought cheating was ok? I said that if I had a wife and found out she was cheating I would divorce her, or seek couples counceling. This means that I think there is something wrong with cheating.
It sounds like you are saying the passage should be interpreted as follows: "If a woman has been raped her rapist should be stoned to death, the woman should be stoned to death if she was not raped but is an adulteress, if she didn't scream she is probably an adulteress. But she may or may not be an aduteress independant of whether or not she screamed." So why mention the thing about screaming at all?
So you think we should "harden up" our laws to allow stoneing again?
It was wrong to stone people 3000 years ago. It is wrong to stone people now, it has ALWAYS been wrong to stone people! You can try to justify this passage any way you want, you can say that they might deserve it, you can say that we all deserve it, you can swallow the sky and drink the ocean but it will not make stoning a rape victim or even an adulterss right!

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The Dread Dormammu
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Message 302 of 306 (159909)
11-15-2004 6:33 PM
Reply to: Message 294 by riVeRraT
11-15-2004 8:42 AM


Re: Take a stand or aplolgise!
Its so simple. Your asking me to use the same words to describe womething different. That goes against what you are trying to say. You talk out of both sides of your mouth.
A man and a woman, is not the same as a man and aman, and that is not the same as a woman and a woman, my father is not a mother, and my mother is not a father, and my father is not married to my father, and my mother is not married to my mother.
How is using the same word differently in two different contexts "talking out of both sides of your mouth"?
If you say that you think gays should be allowed to have a contract that is identical to a marrage contract then you are saying that IN A LEGAL CONTEXT they should be allowed to have something that is identical to marrage. But you say that you shouldn't call it marriage becase marriage is between a man and a woman. BUT if you call it something other than marriage the rights won't be the same becase they will be two sperate kinds of contract and the govenmnet can change one contract without changing the other.
Please respond to this argumnet in a way that shows you understand it. This is not "talking out of the side of your mouth" this is using a word one way in a legal setting and anther way in common conversation. Do I realy have to give examples of how we do this all the time?
In response to my question:
When did I say I thought cheating was ok?
You said:
When you said the moral of stoning a woman is sick.
OHH I see now! so Becase I am unwilling to stone a woman to death that means I must beleve that adultary is ok and that there is nothing wrong with it.
Did you think before you posted this? Come on! I joined this forum to have well reasoned debates. Why does a belief that adultary is wrong nesessitate a belief that stoning is right?

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