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dronestar Member Posts: 1417 From: usa Joined: Member Rating: 6.4 |
RingO writes: Do I have to draw you a picture? No, I think word replies are adequate, but thanks for asking.
RingO writes: Ask me a sensible question like, "Is there any cultural practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped EVENTUALLY in your culture?" Hmmm. Okay, then it seems you are okay with children being legally mutilated during an intermittent stage. Could you answer personally HOW LONG you would allow for children being muttilated before the transition is completed? Could you answer personally HOW MANY children would you find acceptable being mutilated before the transition is completed?
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Tangle Member Posts: 9510 From: UK Joined: Member Rating: 4.8 |
Ringo writes:
Nobody has said "Let's imprison lots of mothers" either. No I didn't. I said this: "Because sometimes imprisoning mothers, grandmother, fathers, imams - whatever - might be necessary if the offence is serious enough to warrant it. If it isn't, then they won't be imprisoned." A qualitatively and quantitatively different thing - you're behaving badly again. Edited by Tangle, : No reason given.Life, don't talk to me about life - Marvin the Paranoid Android "Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved." - Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.
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ringo Member (Idle past 439 days) Posts: 20940 From: frozen wasteland Joined: |
dronester writes:
As I have said earlier in the thread, there may be some cultural practices that we "should" discourage. Pertaining to the topic, I think we discourage far more cultural practices than we "should". jar writes:
Ringo, do you concur with Jar? Off hand, if the practice is limited to the members of that particular culture then I'm not sure there are any practices that should be stopped. Where would YOU draw the line? If you think FGM should be stopped "immediately", what cultural practices do you think should be stopped next week? Which ones would you be willing to tolerate until next year?
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jar Member (Idle past 421 days) Posts: 34026 From: Texas!! Joined: |
Hmmm. Okay, then it seems you are okay with children being legally mutilated during an intermittent stage. Could you answer personally HOW LONG you would allow for children being muttilated before the transition is completed? Could you answer personally HOW MANY children would you find acceptable being mutilated before the transition is completed? There are those loaded words again. The culture practicing FGM does not consider it mutilation. The number involved is totally irrelevant.Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!
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dronestar Member Posts: 1417 From: usa Joined: Member Rating: 6.4 |
Jar writes: Did you actually read the whole post? Yes.
Jar writes: Did you miss the part about speaking out and trying to discourage some practices? No, I didn't miss that part. I still find your stance chilling.
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Straggler Member (Idle past 92 days) Posts: 10333 From: London England Joined: |
Ringo writes: Tangle did, in Message 769. No. Not exempting mothers from the law isn't the same as advocating mass imprisonment of mothers. We both know that in reality those who actually undertake the cutting will be the ones who face the full force of the law. Whilst mothers who are complicit but not the actual practitioners in the FGM practise are likely to be treated relatively sympathetically with non-custodial sentences where these are deemed to be in the best interests of the child. the aim of the law is not to make orphans.
Straggler writes: If a mother takes a pair of pliers or a carving knife (take your pick), spread-eagles her 4 year old daughter on the kitchen table and clips off her clitoris - Then I think most here, including my self, would deem that an offense potentially worthy of imprisonment. Ringo writes: So would I. That would be an individual act of abuse. What if that is exactly what had happened to the mother in question when she herself was 4 years old? And all her sisters? And her mother before her and her grandmother before her and so on and so forth. At what point does an "individual act of abuse" become a cultural practice to which you find the application of the term "abuse" so objectionable?
Ringo writes: But FGM is different. How? Be specific.
Ringo writes: The child may not want to be circumcised but she most likely doesn't want her mother to be imprisoned for it either. Will you please quit with this bullshit straw man of "the mothers will be imprisoned, the mothers will be imprisoned". There are not going to be swathes of imprisoned mothers leaving behind a morass of orphans in their wake.
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dronestar Member Posts: 1417 From: usa Joined: Member Rating: 6.4 |
RingO writes: As I have said earlier in the thread, there may be some cultural practices that we "should" discourage. Thanks for that reply, but here is the actual question I keep asking:
quote: RingO writes: Where would YOU draw the line? There is no need to re-invent the wheel. A social case worker goes into the field with risk assessment tools. If a child is at immediate risk of emotional/physical harm, it is removed from the home. The current tools and laws are pretty effective. So I draw the line with them.
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ringo Member (Idle past 439 days) Posts: 20940 From: frozen wasteland Joined: |
dronester writes:
You need to make a distinction between circumcision and mutilation. Tattooing is a form of mutilation that I wouldn't regulate at all, except as to hygiene. Male circumcision is a bit more extreme but it's generally accepted by our culture. Female circumcision is still more extreme and I'm in favour of tolerating it as long as it's practiced as a cultural norm and not an individual act of abuse. I'm also willing to tolerate anybody discouraging any of the above forms of mutilation. Okay, then it seems you are okay with children being legally mutilated during an intermittent stage. IF female circumcision does disappear entirely, I have no timetable. It can take as long as it takes.
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ringo Member (Idle past 439 days) Posts: 20940 From: frozen wasteland Joined: |
Tangle writes:
Can you or can you not answer a question honestly? A qualitatively and quantitatively different thing - you're behaving badly again. I asked you, "Are you in favour of imprisoning mothers who have their daughters circumcised?"
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dronestar Member Posts: 1417 From: usa Joined: Member Rating: 6.4 |
RingO writes: You need to make a distinction between circumcision and mutilation. Okay . . .
quote: Male circumcision does not degrade the pleasurable function. (it often increases pleasure because woman like it more)Female circumcision (especially removal of the clitoris) degrades the pleasurable function.
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ringo Member (Idle past 439 days) Posts: 20940 From: frozen wasteland Joined: |
Straggler writes:
In the case of murder or assault, the one who does the hiring is considered as guilty as the one who does the act. Are you suggesting that FGM would not be treated the same way?
We both know that in reality those who actually undertake the cutting will be the ones who face the full force of the law. Straggler writes:
Simple: at the point where a whole culture practices it.
At what point does an "individual act of abuse" become a cultural practice to which you find the application of the term "abuse" so objectionable? Straggler writes:
Read the thread. When women who have been "victims" of FGM grow up, they often realize that they were not "abused" at all, much like children grow up to realize that forcing them to go to school was not "abuse". When those same women advocate for the continuation of the practice, they are not in fact "victims" at all, even if UNICEF characterizes them as such.
ringo writes:
How? Be specific. But FGM is different. Straggler writes:
I'm glad to hear it. If everybody in the thread will agree with you, I'll stop bringing it up.
There are not going to be swathes of imprisoned mothers leaving behind a morass of orphans in their wake.
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ringo Member (Idle past 439 days) Posts: 20940 From: frozen wasteland Joined: |
dronester writes:
The question you keep asking is stupid. There is nothing impossible that I want.
Thanks for that reply, but here is the actual question I keep asking:
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dronestar Member Posts: 1417 From: usa Joined: Member Rating: 6.4 |
RingO writes: I asked you, "Are you in favour of imprisoning mothers who have their daughters circumcised?" It does seem like a difficult question for SOME. Personally I don't know why, we already imprison parents who harm their children.
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dronestar Member Posts: 1417 From: usa Joined: Member Rating: 6.4 |
RingO writes: There is nothing impossible that I want. And you know this particular action is impossible because . . .?
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ringo Member (Idle past 439 days) Posts: 20940 From: frozen wasteland Joined: |
dronester writes:
We've covered that already. Pleasure is not necessarily considered "the function" by the people involved.
Male circumcision does not degrade the pleasurable function. (it often increases pleasure because woman like it more)Female circumcision (especially removal of the clitoris) degrades the pleasurable function.
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