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dronestar
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Message 781 of 1234 (742894)
11-25-2014 12:00 PM
Reply to: Message 778 by ringo
11-25-2014 11:45 AM


RingO writes:
Do I have to draw you a picture?
No, I think word replies are adequate, but thanks for asking.
RingO writes:
Ask me a sensible question like, "Is there any cultural practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped EVENTUALLY in your culture?"
Hmmm. Okay, then it seems you are okay with children being legally mutilated during an intermittent stage.
Could you answer personally HOW LONG you would allow for children being muttilated before the transition is completed?
Could you answer personally HOW MANY children would you find acceptable being mutilated before the transition is completed?

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Tangle
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Message 782 of 1234 (742895)
11-25-2014 12:01 PM
Reply to: Message 779 by ringo
11-25-2014 11:53 AM


Ringo writes:
Nobody has said "Let's imprison lots of mothers" either.
No I didn't. I said this:
"Because sometimes imprisoning mothers, grandmother, fathers, imams - whatever - might be necessary if the offence is serious enough to warrant it. If it isn't, then they won't be imprisoned."
A qualitatively and quantitatively different thing - you're behaving badly again.
Edited by Tangle, : No reason given.

Life, don't talk to me about life - Marvin the Paranoid Android
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Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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ringo
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Message 783 of 1234 (742897)
11-25-2014 12:02 PM
Reply to: Message 777 by dronestar
11-25-2014 11:45 AM


Re: multi is key word
dronester writes:
jar writes:
Off hand, if the practice is limited to the members of that particular culture then I'm not sure there are any practices that should be stopped.
Ringo, do you concur with Jar?
As I have said earlier in the thread, there may be some cultural practices that we "should" discourage. Pertaining to the topic, I think we discourage far more cultural practices than we "should".
Where would YOU draw the line? If you think FGM should be stopped "immediately", what cultural practices do you think should be stopped next week? Which ones would you be willing to tolerate until next year?

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jar
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Message 784 of 1234 (742898)
11-25-2014 12:02 PM
Reply to: Message 781 by dronestar
11-25-2014 12:00 PM


using loaded words again.
Hmmm. Okay, then it seems you are okay with children being legally mutilated during an intermittent stage.
Could you answer personally HOW LONG you would allow for children being muttilated before the transition is completed?
Could you answer personally HOW MANY children would you find acceptable being mutilated before the transition is completed?
There are those loaded words again. The culture practicing FGM does not consider it mutilation.
The number involved is totally irrelevant.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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dronestar
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Message 785 of 1234 (742899)
11-25-2014 12:05 PM
Reply to: Message 780 by jar
11-25-2014 11:53 AM


Re: multi is key word
Jar writes:
Did you actually read the whole post?
Yes.
Jar writes:
Did you miss the part about speaking out and trying to discourage some practices?
No, I didn't miss that part. I still find your stance chilling.

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Straggler
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Message 786 of 1234 (742900)
11-25-2014 12:09 PM
Reply to: Message 779 by ringo
11-25-2014 11:53 AM


Ringo writes:
Tangle did, in Message 769.
No. Not exempting mothers from the law isn't the same as advocating mass imprisonment of mothers. We both know that in reality those who actually undertake the cutting will be the ones who face the full force of the law. Whilst mothers who are complicit but not the actual practitioners in the FGM practise are likely to be treated relatively sympathetically with non-custodial sentences where these are deemed to be in the best interests of the child.
the aim of the law is not to make orphans.
Straggler writes:
If a mother takes a pair of pliers or a carving knife (take your pick), spread-eagles her 4 year old daughter on the kitchen table and clips off her clitoris - Then I think most here, including my self, would deem that an offense potentially worthy of imprisonment.
Ringo writes:
So would I. That would be an individual act of abuse.
What if that is exactly what had happened to the mother in question when she herself was 4 years old? And all her sisters? And her mother before her and her grandmother before her and so on and so forth.
At what point does an "individual act of abuse" become a cultural practice to which you find the application of the term "abuse" so objectionable?
Ringo writes:
But FGM is different.
How? Be specific.
Ringo writes:
The child may not want to be circumcised but she most likely doesn't want her mother to be imprisoned for it either.
Will you please quit with this bullshit straw man of "the mothers will be imprisoned, the mothers will be imprisoned". There are not going to be swathes of imprisoned mothers leaving behind a morass of orphans in their wake.

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dronestar
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Message 787 of 1234 (742901)
11-25-2014 12:13 PM
Reply to: Message 783 by ringo
11-25-2014 12:02 PM


Re: multi is key word
RingO writes:
As I have said earlier in the thread, there may be some cultural practices that we "should" discourage.
Thanks for that reply, but here is the actual question I keep asking:
quote:
Is there any CULTURAL practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped immediately in your culture?
RingO writes:
Where would YOU draw the line?
There is no need to re-invent the wheel. A social case worker goes into the field with risk assessment tools. If a child is at immediate risk of emotional/physical harm, it is removed from the home. The current tools and laws are pretty effective. So I draw the line with them.

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ringo
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Message 788 of 1234 (742902)
11-25-2014 12:15 PM
Reply to: Message 781 by dronestar
11-25-2014 12:00 PM


dronester writes:
Okay, then it seems you are okay with children being legally mutilated during an intermittent stage.
You need to make a distinction between circumcision and mutilation. Tattooing is a form of mutilation that I wouldn't regulate at all, except as to hygiene. Male circumcision is a bit more extreme but it's generally accepted by our culture. Female circumcision is still more extreme and I'm in favour of tolerating it as long as it's practiced as a cultural norm and not an individual act of abuse. I'm also willing to tolerate anybody discouraging any of the above forms of mutilation.
IF female circumcision does disappear entirely, I have no timetable. It can take as long as it takes.

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ringo
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Message 789 of 1234 (742903)
11-25-2014 12:18 PM
Reply to: Message 782 by Tangle
11-25-2014 12:01 PM


Tangle writes:
A qualitatively and quantitatively different thing - you're behaving badly again.
Can you or can you not answer a question honestly?
I asked you, "Are you in favour of imprisoning mothers who have their daughters circumcised?"

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dronestar
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Message 790 of 1234 (742905)
11-25-2014 12:25 PM
Reply to: Message 788 by ringo
11-25-2014 12:15 PM


RingO writes:
You need to make a distinction between circumcision and mutilation.
Okay . . .
quote:
Mutilation - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mutilation
Wikipedia
Mutilation or maiming is an act of physical injury that degrades the appearance or function of any living body.
Male circumcision does not degrade the pleasurable function. (it often increases pleasure because woman like it more)
Female circumcision (especially removal of the clitoris) degrades the pleasurable function.

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ringo
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Message 791 of 1234 (742906)
11-25-2014 12:26 PM
Reply to: Message 786 by Straggler
11-25-2014 12:09 PM


Straggler writes:
We both know that in reality those who actually undertake the cutting will be the ones who face the full force of the law.
In the case of murder or assault, the one who does the hiring is considered as guilty as the one who does the act. Are you suggesting that FGM would not be treated the same way?
Straggler writes:
At what point does an "individual act of abuse" become a cultural practice to which you find the application of the term "abuse" so objectionable?
Simple: at the point where a whole culture practices it.
Straggler writes:
ringo writes:
But FGM is different.
How? Be specific.
Read the thread. When women who have been "victims" of FGM grow up, they often realize that they were not "abused" at all, much like children grow up to realize that forcing them to go to school was not "abuse". When those same women advocate for the continuation of the practice, they are not in fact "victims" at all, even if UNICEF characterizes them as such.
Straggler writes:
There are not going to be swathes of imprisoned mothers leaving behind a morass of orphans in their wake.
I'm glad to hear it. If everybody in the thread will agree with you, I'll stop bringing it up.

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ringo
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Posts: 20940
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Message 792 of 1234 (742907)
11-25-2014 12:27 PM
Reply to: Message 787 by dronestar
11-25-2014 12:13 PM


Re: multi is key word
dronester writes:
Thanks for that reply, but here is the actual question I keep asking:
The question you keep asking is stupid. There is nothing impossible that I want.

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dronestar
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Message 793 of 1234 (742908)
11-25-2014 12:28 PM
Reply to: Message 789 by ringo
11-25-2014 12:18 PM


RingO writes:
I asked you, "Are you in favour of imprisoning mothers who have their daughters circumcised?"
It does seem like a difficult question for SOME. Personally I don't know why, we already imprison parents who harm their children.

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dronestar
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Message 794 of 1234 (742909)
11-25-2014 12:30 PM
Reply to: Message 792 by ringo
11-25-2014 12:27 PM


Re: multi is key word
RingO writes:
There is nothing impossible that I want.
And you know this particular action is impossible because . . .?

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ringo
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Message 795 of 1234 (742910)
11-25-2014 12:30 PM
Reply to: Message 790 by dronestar
11-25-2014 12:25 PM


dronester writes:
Male circumcision does not degrade the pleasurable function. (it often increases pleasure because woman like it more)
Female circumcision (especially removal of the clitoris) degrades the pleasurable function.
We've covered that already. Pleasure is not necessarily considered "the function" by the people involved.

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