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Silent H
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Message 211 of 309 (161160)
11-18-2004 3:09 PM
Reply to: Message 207 by berberry
11-18-2004 2:34 PM


I agree this is also a good alternative, and indeed the more the "save marriage" advocates speak the more I think it explicitly demands that situation.
But that is another topic, and I think it's already been talked about in detail in another thread.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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Silent H
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Message 212 of 309 (161163)
11-18-2004 3:18 PM
Reply to: Message 209 by Tusko
11-18-2004 2:57 PM


This seems to flatly contradict you. Thoughts? Much to my shame, I didn't read the source you referenced at the time and took your word for it.
Damn you! I said I was going to rip it to shreds when he finally explained how he thought the study proved what he said it did. Ah well.
That was just one gem among many.
The shame is not on you for having taken his word for it, the shame is on him for not having read it before posting it as his "evidence".
FYI: If there is one thing that I have found to be true on this forum, very very few links to social and psychological studies ever end up supporting the claim they are said to. It seems most people see a sentence or a title or a graph and put up a link. And there is a surprising number that don't know the difference between causation and correlation. In other words, if you want a laugh, or a good counterpunch, read the links to studies before responding.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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Taqless
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Message 213 of 309 (161205)
11-18-2004 4:56 PM
Reply to: Message 205 by Silent H
11-18-2004 2:13 PM


This means that while denying mixed race (mixed religion too) marriages were certainly historical and in certain regions tradition, it did not have anything like the history and tradition of marriage being defined as between a man and a woman, and was not at all of historical legal precedent.
Agreed. As an aside, I would say this is primarily attributable to the fact that inter-racial unions do not preclude a simplified procreation...which I would hazard had a ripple effect...i.e. it was such a big deal in the beginning that it just stuck?!? I actually heard a young Mormon say that initially it was necessary that their forefathers practiced polygamy...the only thing that came to my mind was giving your religion an advantage...dunno though (and off topic...oops).

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happy_atheist
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Message 214 of 309 (161264)
11-18-2004 8:23 PM
Reply to: Message 135 by Silent H
11-17-2004 6:23 AM


Well a lot has been said since my last post and I haven't had chance to read all the subsequent posts so feel free to ignore this if it is no longer relevant. All I would say is that if gay unions are to have the same rights as straight unions, then it makes legal sense for the union to have the same legal term. It really doesn't matter if this is "marriage" or not, but since that term is already in use to describe these rights then it makes sense to keep it.

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coffee_addict
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Message 215 of 309 (161289)
11-18-2004 9:24 PM
Reply to: Message 206 by Silent H
11-18-2004 2:27 PM


holmes writes:
Assuming all rights are granted, what would using the name Civil Union as a legal document for unions not originally under state defs of marriage mean to you? That is what right would you lose? On what priniciple would you reject it?
Assuming all rights are granted? I seem to recall that they granted all rights when they implimented segregation. It's not what's on the paper that I'm talking about. It's what can be done to hurt "civil union" that won't affect "marriage" simply because they are defined differently that worries me.
I would reject on the principle that there will be those that will try to do things to "civil union" because they know it won't affect "marriage." It's...
Ah hell, see you later, alligator. I think all that can be said have been said.

Hate world.
Revenge soon!

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contracycle
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Message 216 of 309 (161394)
11-19-2004 4:49 AM
Reply to: Message 196 by Silent H
11-18-2004 7:45 AM


quote:
You can demonstrate in a way that is unproductive or counterproductive.
All demonstrations without exception are productive as they forge the bonds of solidarioty within the group, raise consciousnees of the struggle and are the baby-steps of organisational expertise.
quote:
No spitting at people doesn't always look classy, and can turn potential allies into enemies
good - I have no interest in looking "classy" or any other form of elitism. And any potential ally turned off by such trivia was not worth having in the first place.
quote:
It isn't possible to criticize the gay marriage activism in its choice of actions, or you are against them?
Help help I'm being repressed!
Twisting the argument to delusions of persecution doesn't help your case. I didn't say that bo criticism is possible - I said that criticism of "radicalism" is inherently reactionary.
quote:
Are you accusing me of homophobia?
No, of being a reactionary. I don't think you are an active homophoibe any mopre than I think you are an active racist, but I do think you propagate racist and homophobic ideas and defend them.
quote:
I'm an independent, because I have some very liberal positions and some very conservative positions. In a way I tend to have a lot of conservative principles.
No shit
quote:
The invasion of Iraq. The alienation of "Old Europe" for "New Europe". Establishment of Israel and continued support of Israeli aggressions. Undercutting civil rights by inducing fear. The crushing of pagans and science.
Wow, you certainly have me convinced.
Idiot. They can achieve these things becuase the "moderates" are too chicken to resist. Thats exactly why a transistion to Fascism in the US is so plausible - the centre will go wherever the radicals drag it, and if the Left refuses to fight, as is the case in America, then it has necessarily already lost.
quote:
Socialized healthcare? Welfare? Scientific methodology and exploration?
Socialised healthcare is extremely radical; its one of the great advances of wocial democracy in the last century. There has nrver been a universal medical provision in history prior to this developement, and it relies on political principles that are still consdiered so radicalo as to be unspeakable (that is, communism).
Likewise welfare - in its day an "extreme" position that would bring about the fall of western civilisation by undermniing the profit motive that creates all.
Scientific exploration was inherently radical, refusing to accept the orthodox explanations in favour of independant thought and examniation of the material.
quote:
Oh, I thought that was George Walker Bush.
Well, you have only yourselves to blame.

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Silent H
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Message 217 of 309 (161400)
11-19-2004 5:12 AM
Reply to: Message 214 by happy_atheist
11-18-2004 8:23 PM


if gay unions are to have the same rights as straight unions, then it makes legal sense for the union to have the same legal term. It really doesn't matter if this is "marriage" or not, but since that term is already in use to describe these rights then it makes sense to keep it.
Again, for totally practical reasons I agree.
The possible counterargument is that while it is the same rights it is a different definition. Like there are different licenses between car and motorcycle, or car and large truck, despite giving the same rights. Or in my analogy to food regulations, kosher and nonkosher, genetically modified or not, though both are available for sale and consumption.
I don't agree that that is a good enough reason to not expand "marriage", but at that point I realize it is a matter of opinion and not a matter of differing facts or logic.
It is possible for two opinions to be equally sound. That is where compromise is important.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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Silent H
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Message 218 of 309 (161401)
11-19-2004 5:21 AM
Reply to: Message 215 by coffee_addict
11-18-2004 9:24 PM


I seem to recall that they granted all rights when they implimented segregation. It's not what's on the paper that I'm talking about.
Yes it is. That appears to be all you are actually concerned about, if I discuss a hypothetical where all rights are granted and you still can't handle not using the name marriage.
See that's a great litmus test. When you can't even handle a hypothetical, in order to further discussion, you are having a problem.
It's what can be done to hurt "civil union" that won't affect "marriage" simply because they are defined differently that worries me.
I currently live in a nation with three different ways to have a relationship legally recognized by the government. Believe it or not, this is a viable alternative.
If you are concerned that in the writing of laws on civil unions, that there will be an exclusion, or perhaps a backdoor, such that something can be granted or taken away from one but not the other, then it seems a good thing to have is a clause in the law stating that future legal effects relating to one will automatically apply to the other.
Wow, that was really hard.
If such a clause is not in there, then someone is making a mistake. If it is suggested and then shot down, it is not equal rights and there is a reason to fight.
You seem to forget what actual debate and compromise in law is all about. If you have a concern, put it in writing.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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Jon_the_Second
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Message 219 of 309 (161402)
11-19-2004 5:30 AM
Reply to: Message 209 by Tusko
11-18-2004 2:57 PM


If you read it, it certainly seems to mean that the part you quoted is from the section on weighting consencual and non-consensual sex in order of seriousness.
If you look at the data, men who engaged in consensual under age sex were 4-15% more likely to suffer from psychological problems.
And you still haven't told me how you would tell which children consent and which do not.

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The Dread Dormammu
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Message 220 of 309 (161404)
11-19-2004 5:41 AM
Reply to: Message 194 by Silent H
11-18-2004 6:30 AM


Hang on a second.
First off:
Saying who grew up closest to them does not really matter. I've posted my street creds on this before, and I'm getting tired of doing so.
The only reason I'm "posting my steet creds" is because you have made many, many, claims that I don't have any grasp of what the fundie christain position on this issue is. I DO know what the fundie christian position on this issue is and you claimed that I didn't. So if it doesn't realy matter why did YOU bring it up?
Second, in regards to your posts.
You are right as that would not have opened up your position to criticism of inconsistency and hypocrisy.
and
But I hate hypocrisy in all its forms and that means from everyone. When I am told I cannot discuss what I see behind the curtain and then the facade is allowed to be reasserted, I get pissed.
To adress my own hypocracy, the reason I have stopped discussing pedophilia is becase it is irrelivant to the issue.
It WAS relevant in the context I used it in, but it was an exceedingly bad example becase I could have easyly used alcoholisum or any other genetic predisposition to make the same point.
It is not hypocritical to beleive that child molestation is wrong and that homosexual sex is not wrong. But even if we prove that children could engage in sexual acts and not be harmed, that doesn't have any bearing on whether people are harmed by homosexual sex now does it?
And speaking of hypocracy, let's look at your own position.
1) You fervently argue aganist a postion you claim you agree with, or are you ust playing devils advocate.
2) You claim that you think gays should be allowed to marry but then say you can see why it should not be called marriage, or were you just playing devils advocate, again?
3) You think that equal rights could be allotted to civil unions even though we have seen that they couldn't.
4)You claim to be all for gay rights, but when people stand up for gay rights by protesting, you claim that they alienate other, more moderate, activists, even though we have seen that the opposite happen more often.
4) You accuse me of not understanding my opponents position, but when I provide evedence that I am quite familiar with my opponents postion you accuse me of somehow showing off.
Now, let's start talking about what we should be talking about. You make the claim that I am asking for something impossible.
You seem to think that a duty based, and a result based view of morality are completely irrelivant to eachother. Well, what purpose does following duty serve if not to promote benefit?
The whole point of having a duty is so that people can follow their duty even when they disagree with it, why? To promote well being, to promote benefit of course!
ALL ethical theories exisist to promote benefit even ones that strictly appeal to athority. After all, if a fundimentalist christians ONLY ethical theory was to follow Gods commands then it wouldn't matter to them whether gods commands were good or bad, their only rule is obedence.
But it DOES matter, funimnetalist chistians will fervently claim that God is good, that he wants us to be happy, that if more of us followed his claims then we all would be BETTER OFF. These are claims that God cares about our well being that following his will reduces harm! All ethical theorys will resort to claims about the benefit that will result from us following the rules of the theory.
Now, if we belive that God is all knowing then it would make sense to suggest that if God asks us to do something that we know is harmfull (like outlaw homosexual sex) then he must have a good reason for doing so, right?
It's not for an arbitrary reason, like taste, (why would a good God permit himself to have a harmful taste?), so the law has to be a good law, and that means that disobeying the law will have negative consiquences.
What might those consiquences be? Well if God hates gays due to personal taste that personal taste is HARMFUL so that cannot be the right answer. So then, God must outlaw homosexuality because of harmful other consiquences other than his own wrath, what might they be?
All the possibilitys that have been suggested are laughable easy to dismiss. Maby we will be tempted by other gods, maby it causes some kind of spiritual polution, It's a gateway sin, Come on! These are all paper thin.
Therefore it has to be some unkowable unforseen consiquence. Are you realy going to follow a law that you have good reason to beleve is bad becase god MAY have commanded it?
The above paragraph is my appeal to those with religious beliefs. I don't think you can defend homophobia on secualr grounds. But if you can I'd love to hear it as that would get us closer to the central theme of the thread.

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Jon_the_Second
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Message 221 of 309 (161405)
11-19-2004 5:43 AM
Reply to: Message 210 by Silent H
11-18-2004 3:04 PM


The study questioned 2474 men (mean age 46 years) attending one of 18 general practices.
Experiences of non-consensual and consensual sex before and after the age of 16 years---that is, as a child and adult respectively---psychological problems experienced for more than 2 weeks at any one time, use of alcohol (CAGE questionnaire), self harm, and help received
If you READ it the age is clear, have you even bothered?
It does not show inherent damage in under age sex, but it DOES show a correlation between under age sex and psychological problems. This, coupled with the incredibly damaging effects of rape on children (which I have not sourced here because I assume you are reasonable, if you need me to then I can source it for you) causes concern to me about young children engaging in any kind of sex, especially with adults. As I have asked Tusko, can you come up with a way to determine consensual and non-consensual sex in children? If not, surely it is better to make it illegal for ANY adult to have sex with a child?
Having sex with one man, monogomously for life would not put you at increased risk of rape. Therefore being homosexual would not be harmful. It is, however, concerning that the indication is from the study that the incidence of rape is higher amongst the gay participants.
"Non-consensual sex and sexuality--- Most men who reported non-consensual sexual experiences with other men defined themselves as primarily heterosexual. However, men who reported having sex with other men were six times more likely to have non-consensual sex as an adult. Gay and bisexual men have more sexual partners than do heterosexual men.19 Increasing numbers and anonymity of sexual partners may increase the risk of non-consensual sex. These factors may explain why previous studies of gay men have found high rates of non-consensual sex. 4 20"

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Silent H
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Message 222 of 309 (161410)
11-19-2004 5:55 AM
Reply to: Message 216 by contracycle
11-19-2004 4:49 AM


All demonstrations without exception are productive as they forge the bonds of solidarioty within the group, raise consciousnees of the struggle and are the baby-steps of organisational expertise.
They are only productive in this manner, if failures during any singular demonstration can be pointed out, and then fixed. Without that critical ability demonstrations will flounder in place, blaming everyone else for not understanding how successful they are being.
I am critical in order to improve. You are not being critical, and so detrimental.
And any potential ally turned off by such trivia was not worth having in the first place.
What a crappy 21st century this is. I was so looking forward to it when I was young, but now were right back to square one.
I didn't say that bo criticism is possible - I said that criticism of "radicalism" is inherently reactionary.
I wasn't criticizing radicalism in general, especially as inherently reactionary. Does that even sound like something I would say?
I was criticizing a set of specific actions which turned out to be counterproductive because the extent of their radical nature gained nothing for the cause, and actually misled potential allies.
Idiot.
Hahaha. You said look at what radicals can produce. I showed you what radicals can produce. Then you blame moderates going along with the radicals you happen not to like. What a joke.
The point I was making is that being radical can be useful but it can be detrimental as well. You can't just champion radicalism. It is simply a fact of life. And sometimes it works the way we want, or generally for the good. And sometimes it falls flat on its face.
Sometimes great works do come from the moderates. And if anything your reply seems to have pointed that out. Moderates are where the power actually lies.
There has nrver been a universal medical provision in history prior to this developement, and it relies on political principles that are still consdiered so radicalo as to be unspeakable (that is, communism).
You are apparently only familiar with a selection of recent western history? Social healthcare was not radical nor was it assumed part of communism, unless you are going to focus only on particular nations.
In the end, from small communities on up, social healthcare... working social healthcare... comes from moderates expecting that in their daily lives. They don't need people spitting on others daily, just to keep it around.
Likewise welfare - in its day an "extreme" position that would bring about the fall of western civilisation
That's funny since (in the US) it was created in direct response to the failure of profit alone as a system that can ensure safety for all. It didn't take radicals to push it through.
Radicals have since taken it back apart, convincing people they don't need it because levels of prosperity are generally high, and people have become suckers for gambling. Given a big enough fall, the moderates will return.
Scientific exploration was inherently radical, refusing to accept the orthodox explanations in favour of independant thought and examniation of the material.
You are now equivocating and being somewhat disengenuous. If radicalism is always the answer, then I should now be fighting the orthodox explanations and methods of modern science.
The fact is that radicals repressed moderate methods of careful analysis. Eventually people grew weary of that and slowly returned to the moderate position of critical thinking.
They may have seemed rebellious and "radical" to the extremely radical population they were in, but that is relative, not absolute.
During prohibition it was "radical" to get a drink... in the US. Yet it really was the moderates that wanted to drink and eventually got it back.
Well, you have only yourselves to blame.
Why? I took part in the elective process and I did not vote for him. Indeed my state did the "right" thing and voted against him. I don't blame myself at all.
In fact, I am doing something you are not. I am critically evaluating what happened and what could be done better in the future.
I am also not going around and waving Bush's flags of ignorance and intolerance as if they are correct.
You can pretend to hate him, but when you champion his virtues it sounds to me like you are just jealous.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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Jon_the_Second
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Message 223 of 309 (161413)
11-19-2004 6:14 AM
Reply to: Message 212 by Silent H
11-18-2004 3:18 PM


I read it all through. Twice. You don't appear to have done any such thing, as you keep asking me to provide you with age details (which are all listed at the top).
"In other words, if you want a laugh, or a good counterpunch, read the links to studies before responding."
I would have thought you should ALWAYS read the links, not just assume they are wrong. Do you ONLY read links when you "want a laugh"?

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Tusko
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Message 224 of 309 (161429)
11-19-2004 7:16 AM
Reply to: Message 219 by Jon_the_Second
11-19-2004 5:30 AM


Okay - I'll have another look at the BMJ thing when I get the chance. I thought the bit I quoted seemed to be quite clear though.
Jon wrote:
And you still haven't told me how you would tell which children consent and which do not
I'm a bit unsure as to what to say here. Are you asking me how I would determine which children its okay to have sex with? I'm not proposing that there IS a way for an individual to determine which children you can have sex with without damaging them. Its not like I have a geigercounter for non-damaging sex. Are you proposing that you have one that you use when wondering whether to commence sexual relationships with adults? In my experience at least, before you engage in a relatinoship its very difficult to determine if you are going to end up hurting someone psychologically, or indeed be hurt yourself.
I'm actually saying that there is probably a GREATER chance that a sexual relationship with a child is going to end up damaging them (in our current sexual climate) than a relationship with an adult. I believe sex between adults and children is made damaging by a complex cultural nexus, that takes in our attitudes towards childhood and children (a time of "innocence"), our attitudes towards sex (special) and desire (dangerous), and our distorted view of victimhood. I don't think these attitudes are healthy, and I think that they bring the idea of hurt through sex into being, and amplify it into something totally unhelpful. Does that answer your question? If not, tell me what you want addressed specifically.
What
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Silent H
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Message 225 of 309 (161434)
11-19-2004 7:41 AM
Reply to: Message 220 by The Dread Dormammu
11-19-2004 5:41 AM


you have made many, many, claims that I don't have any grasp of what the fundie christain position on this issue is.
Find where I said it once, much less many times. I was not talking just about hardcore fundamenatalists, which I think we can all agree are not for gay rights in any aspect.
Your question was why they think being gay is wrong, and then ask them to fulfill your criteria of harm to prove to you that their moral system come to the correct conclusion.
All I did was point out that that is logically impossible. You can choose to judge their system as worthy or not because you personally place more weight on your system than theirs, but you cannot say you have determined, or suggest that you are showing that their system is wrong or "bad".
Oh yes, you can also appeal to their sense of temporal judgement that it sure seems to be coming out with an result they find unappealing. However for true believers in a God, they do have the logical ability to say what appears to be bad from my vantage point may not be from a greater vantage point. Again, the soldier and the general analogy stands.
To adress my own hypocracy, the reason I have stopped discussing pedophilia is becase it is irrelivant to the issue.
If the sole issue is what harm comes from homosexuality, then you are right. If the sole issue is why does God say homosexuality is wrong, then you are right.
But you were not limiting it to that subject and neither were a number of others. While asking the above questions, it was also asserted that you and people like you have a specific moral system which comes to better moral labels because it is based on criteria of harm.
That is right in your opening post. And note that I did not even bother to address this until you (in order to make an example regarding causes of behavior) reasserted how your moral system functions.
That completely opens the door for me to point out that your system does not function as you describe, specifically given the example you made.
Indeed the superiority of your moral system to that of the Xians continued to get asserted, including more references to that example... though any other sexual minority will do.
That is why if you had mentioned alcoholism that really would have been the perfect dodge. It is equating too wholly different phenomenon. The effects of sexual acts, whatever the cause for wanting to do them, is in no way comparable to the effects of ingestion of chemicals (the inherent deleterious effect of poisons, and their addictive qualities), whatever the cause for wanting to do them. That is if your system is really harm based you should be able to note the vast gulf between the two as examples.
Of course if you had mentioned alcoholism in the first place you would have gotten another criticism altogether. Are you honestly stating that you would judge alcoholism to be wrong? Or even worse, that alcoholic acts are wrong? That would of course be the comparison to what Xians are saying, and I don't think you want to go on record saying that taking a drink of alcohol is wrong.
It is not hypocritical to beleive that child molestation is wrong and that homosexual sex is not wrong.
Actually it is inconsistent given your stated criteria for judging what is wrong. But that is besides the point. The hypocrisy I am attacking is your criticizing another moral system for what its results are, while saying how pure yours is and then not wanting it to be examined... or think that criticism is off topic.
The fact is if their proving the harm of homosexuality should be so easy it is no problem for them (and thus prove their system worthy), why should it be so hard for you? Why can't you set a real example and show how your declared moral system can determine wrong based on harm caused by a sexual act.
And speaking of hypocracy, let's look at your own position.
Heheheh... Can't defend your own position and so you lash out at me with the same criticism? Well I guess that's in keeping with how you do business.
1) You fervently argue aganist a postion you claim you agree with, or are you ust playing devils advocate.
2) You claim that you think gays should be allowed to marry but then say you can see why it should not be called marriage, or were you just playing devils advocate, again?
3) You think that equal rights could be allotted to civil unions even though we have seen that they couldn't.
4)You claim to be all for gay rights, but when people stand up for gay rights by protesting, you claim that they alienate other, more moderate, activists, even though we have seen that the opposite happen more often.
4) You accuse me of not understanding my opponents position, but when I provide evedence that I am quite familiar with my opponents postion you accuse me of somehow showing off.
1) You didn't specify which position you are talking about. If you mean that I don't agree with the Xian moral system, that is true. I am certainly not arguing it is right. I am only pointing out the fact that your argument is incapable of proving it wrong.
2) I didn't fervently argue against gay marriage. I argued that while I am for gay marriage and believe that is the best option, there are those who don't believe its the best option and have a reasonable argument for their position. If necessary, there is room for a valid compromise solution. Whatta hypocrite.
3) You've seen that civil unions inherently can't be equal? Where did you see that? From singular examples? I am still waiting for an explanation how a contract which has all the same rights and a different name, gives something less than equal.
4) I did not say that no protests are useful. I was critical of the nature of the one's that happened. And I wasn't even critical in the sense that I didn't like them. But the point of protests is to create change in someone other than me. I simply pointed out that they don't seem to have worked, and why they (as they were conducted) did not seem to work.
4b) I'm not sure if you are talking about the people that think homosexual acts are wrong or that gay marriage is wrong. In any case you are mistating my position, but each requires a different explanation of why you are wrong.
The whole point of having a duty is so that people can follow their duty even when they disagree with it, why? To promote well being, to promote benefit of course!
Philosophy comes screeching to a halt... What the hell are you talking about? Do you know the difference between deontological and teleological systems? Do you not recognize that cultural definitions of "promote benefit" would completely remove an objective criteria of what harm and benefit are?
ALL ethical theories exisist to promote benefit
Objectively define benefit. Think to whom? For what? I find it hard to believe that you cannot conceive some moral systems have proscriptions based on the idea that an action (or lack of one) is moral (or not), regardless of consequences.
if God asks us to do something that we know is harmfull (like outlaw homosexual sex)
Enter your circular argument? No, thanks. If there is a God who knows more than us, then we may not know what is harmful or not, or would not be in a place to judge harm as well as him.
It's not for an arbitrary reason, like taste,
I have already explained this, but let me take a different tack using your own theory of ethics. To you the end of all ethics is promote benefit. Thus harm reduced, while benefits maximized. Let's say God agrees and he just happens to see that in the long run an arbitrary rule proscribing homosexual acts does less harm than benefit. After all homosexuals are a minimum of the population, and so social cohesion of the majority may way out.
All the possibilitys that have been suggested are laughable easy to dismiss. Maby we will be tempted by other gods, maby it causes some kind of spiritual polution, It's a gateway sin, Come on! These are all paper thin.
You cannot laugh at the possibilities but that does show your contempt going into the debate. As far as the reasons you list, they are not paper thin once you believe in Gods and magick. They all become possibilities of things you may not know.
I don't believe in that stuff so for me it is not realistic. Why does that remove my ability from seeing that those that do can believe in it?
I don't think you can defend homophobia on secualr grounds. But if you can I'd love to hear it as that would get us closer to the central theme of the thread.
Well that's the irony isn't it? The first evidence that has come in... trying to show that there is secular harm in pedophilia... actually showed that homosexuality "causes" harm.
Or are you going to pretend the link has not been posted?
Oh I suppose before you claim I'm being hypocritical I should say I don't believe the study proves anything. But the point is it has been advanced as evidence of harm according to you system, and if it does, then homosexuality comes off worse.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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