Iridium is found at the kt boundary across the planet at 100 plus sites. This layer is dated at about 62 mya by that pesky geologic column/timetable that you just can't wish away.
The info on the Permian event is less well known, but at the 250 mya level several chemicals that are distinctive to impacts are present (just worked thru those pdf files about fullerenes and metal ratios).
Again the key to understanding this comes with a basic geological education which you so willingly lack.
Buy that book and work on tectonic movement, the rock cycle, and the geologic column. Eighteen year olds routinely understand these concepts, why can't you?
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