For my part I like to take parallel a little more strictly and only really consider things examples of parallel evolution if the traits are arrived at by the modification of the same genetic loci, though not necessarily the same mutation, this makes the assessment much more objective. A good introduction to parallel genotypic evolution is in a review by Wood, et al. (2004).
Interesting Wounded King, I've never heard of this division, I'll have to check out Wood's review. It has always bothered me that convergent evolution and parallel evolution have such overlapping meanings.
That being said, this technique is fundamentally useless when it comes to extinct lineages (i.e. 99.9% of life), so the million dollar question is the cross-application of this method to paleontology.
Perhaps this process of mapping out the divergence of convergent and parallel evolution genetically... and I have to add that I have a headache following that sentence myself... should start with Homeobox genes as arguing for convergent structures, with subsequent control genes reflecting inner-clade parallel evolution.
Homeobox genes are fairly universal, so it widens the definition of convergent evolution, but it certainly is a place to start. If nothing else, the presence of LINE's and SINE's and other such repeats in microsattelite DNA could trace the difference in related linneages, and then through reverse-engineering we can come up with a satisfactory threshold to be applied throughout all taxa.
Oh, and before I jump out, the comment that
This is just plain wrong. Vertebrate wings evolved in various lineages completely independently.
belittles the contribution of selective pressure. Ancestral bats were almost certainly in competition with ancestral birds, perhaps selection favors imitation over innovation? Could we look at this issue from a more classical Darwinian approach?
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