holmes writes:
Well thanks for all the nominations (and yes Tony I read yours and appreciate knowing what "lurkers" think).
No problem. Glad I could help.
Truth is I've been considering speaking up about this for some time now. I see people here getting frustrated sometimes and feeling as though they're making no progress with those they're debating. I've noticed you say similar, yourself. So, since I was voting for you I thought I might as well throw that out there.
I don't remember who it was but I recall somebody on the forum pointing out that debates are more about the lurkers anyway. I think that's the best way to approach it. Rarely are you going to convince the person you're debating, but never let the frustration of an unreasonably steadfast opponent distract you from the fact that you have an audience.
I know I'm not one to give advice since I'm just a spectator but, for what it's worth, I think this is the best approach. My apologies to the poster that initially said this... I'd give you credit if I could remember who you were.
Anyway, I'm derailing Mike's thread here (sorry Mike
). I just wanted to clarify that. A couple of times you've expressed the thought of leaving, and I for one want you to stay. As you can see by the votes, you've had more of an impact than you thought.