When we do Fluid Dynamics, to pick a random area of physics, nobody thinks that there literally is a Stress Tensor sitting at every point in the fluid, a 3 x 3 matrix that literally sits there and takes values.
The Stress Tensor can describe the fluid. It is a series of nine values and Stress on the fluid is a combination of nine independant "directions" of Stress.
Thats it, we know they aren't "real".
This has been my point all along - you keep looking at mathematical abstractions instead of the real object.
What does this mean?
To be honest it sounds like you have a vague idea of what we do and it amounts to us sitting around all day appreciating mathematics and laughing at laymen.
We study
physics, just once more that word is physics, the science that studies the laws governing the natural world, the
real world.
We do it because we love reality and how it works. If we liked mathematics so much we would have been mathematicians.
However when you start digging nature behaves more and more like our most abstract mathematical systems. This is why we talk in terms of mathematics, not to make ourselves seem smart or aloof, but because we need it. Nature behaves mathematically.
End of story, that is it.