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macaroniandcheese 
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Message 91 of 101 (280074)
01-19-2006 5:52 PM
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01-19-2006 5:23 AM


Re: RAZD, brenna, and arach in one
i think the point really is that your discussion is off-topic since it has nothing to do with infant circumcision.

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Message 92 of 101 (280080)
01-19-2006 6:16 PM
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01-17-2006 7:34 AM


mini-bump
Just to make sure you know, I responded to you here:
http://EvC Forum: Human Rights vs Cultural Diversity -->EvC Forum: Human Rights vs Cultural Diversity
Not sure if you had noticed or not. Hope to see you there.

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Message 93 of 101 (280097)
01-19-2006 8:39 PM
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01-19-2006 5:23 AM


Re: RAZD, brenna, and arach in one
Yes that's absolutely subjective, but I feel pretty confident in stating that the vast majority of people find smegma repulsive and so less buildup an aesthetic "advantage".
yes, and so is showering.
i don't think you quite understood before when i was trying explain how minuscule alot of these benefits are. smegma takes time to build up, days. if you shower every day, or even once every three days, it prevents buildup. heck, if you pull the skin back taking a whiz it does the same thing.
please note: i'm not saying that there isn't a difference. there is, if you don't bathe. and chances are that if you don't bathe, nobody's gonna get close enough to be repulsed or not repulsed based on the amount of gunk on your dick.
And yes you should take it that I agree there is no reason to perform it on newborns as I said that in my very first post. And I've repeated that point to you.
right. and this thread is about newborns. you can argue all you want for adults choosing to get circumcised because they want to. that's not the topic of this thread. so essentially, you are making a non-argument.
"should i circumcise my newborn?"
"some adults elect or require to have it done."
so what? this is why you have been misunderstood. you sound like you're making an argument, so we assume that you are.
Yes, instead of focusing on the entirety of what I write, which has been consistent from my first post... that there is no real reason for infant circumcision, and that it is essentially cosmetic body modification... people are focusing on the fact that I also say it does provide some medical relief for rare cases, as an excuse to preach to me how bad it is.
I did not nitpick, I am returning debate to a rational level.
quote:
nit·pick
To be concerned with or find fault with insignificant details.
explain to me how the occassional medically required or elective adult circumcision is a significant argument for or against infant circumcision. i think you've already agreed that it is not. your argument is a nitpick, not to mention my other favourite fallacy, a red herring. it is a minor detail, and not the subject of the debate -- as you keep demonstrating by stating that it does not affect your opinion of infant circumcision (the TOPIC).
We can agree it is not the best choice, particularly for infants, while admitting it does help some people and successful cuts provide some cosmetic advantages... right?
yes, that's fine. but does this bear any impact on whether jazzns should have his son circumcised, shortly following the birth? that's why people are misunderstanding you.
Bingo. Black and white. Maybe I should also apologize for not believing in the concepts of good and bad... but that does tend to help one not discuss things in black and white.
here's another black and white concept: circumcision, or no circumcision. it's one or the other. you can kvetch all you want, but it's either done, or not done. so "should it be done?" in an individual case is quite black and white. you can weigh the two sides against each other, but one wins out, and the child is either circumcised, or not.
the reason the situation is given importance is that foreskins are a little tricky to grow back. and if you can, it's never quite the same.
now, i'm sure you'll continue your tirade about how nobody here is willing to take a "realistic" perspective and acknowledge the pros for circumcision. but the thing that you seem to miss is that we are weighing those pros and potential pros against the sure cons, and finding that the cons win. arguments about the insignificance of "maybes" and "rare conditions" and "what if" and marginal cleanliness issues don't mean that we haven't considered the issues. it means we have, and have found them not significant enough to warrant the procedure, unless medically neccessary.
it's kind of like we're arguing against the war in iraq, and you're telling us a fictional story about a soldier returning a lost iraqi boy to his mother. see, look, the war CAN have benefits! it's great and all, but it doesn't actually mean anything. it's not a realistic perspective to look at a single isolated event in contrast to sum of the parts. i don't know why you think it is.

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Message 94 of 101 (280192)
01-20-2006 5:20 AM
Reply to: Message 91 by macaroniandcheese
01-19-2006 5:52 PM


Re: RAZD, brenna, and arach in one
i think the point really is that your discussion is off-topic since it has nothing to do with infant circumcision.
Yawn, uhuh. I was talking about the results of circumcision. The very OP included discussion of that. In trying to determine if it is something to go for you talk about the plusses and minuses over a lifetime.
You will note that I gave both advantages and disadvantages and concluded that the advantages were NOT useful for an infant, so whether one wanted to do it or not, infancy was probably not the best time to do it.

holmes
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Silent H
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Message 95 of 101 (280193)
01-20-2006 5:59 AM
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01-19-2006 8:39 PM


And the preaching to the choir goes on...
right. and this thread is about newborns. you can argue all you want for adults choosing to get circumcised because they want to. that's not the topic of this thread. so essentially, you are making a non-argument.
Wow, you and brenna using the exact same lame argument? Go figure. The topic was advice to the author of this thread regarding cutting vs notcutting. The OP itself contained plusses and minuses which would be over a lifetime.
My post discussed DISADVANTAGES of CUTTING, just as it described ADVANTAGES of CUTTING. I noted pretty damn clearly that since the advantages would only be for adults, that cutting in infancy made little sense. Thus my commentary has been wholly ON TOPIC.
i think you've already agreed that it is not. your argument is a nitpick, not to mention my other favourite fallacy, a red herring. it is a minor detail, and not the subject of the debate -- as you keep demonstrating by stating that it does not affect your opinion of infant circumcision (the TOPIC).
It is not a nitpick to correct overstatements made to make a position look better than it actually is, or demonize the other side. You guys were going over the top on a few details and I corrected it.
That's about as nitpicky and red-herringish, as when discussing Bush's mistake in invading Iraq, questioning assertions by people that Bush used mind control beams to convince the american public, or that he orchestrated 911 for justification.
You clearly want to demonize circumcision, angelize noncircumcision, and are now engaging in "red-baiting" to try to make me look bad for pointing out simple facts necessary for a rational discussion.
Neither side is cut and dried... so to speak.
yes, that's fine. but does this bear any impact on whether jazzns should have his son circumcised, shortly following the birth? that's why people are misunderstanding you.
Well it MAY, I am not Jazzns so I don't know. Personally I don't think it should, and so I argued that. But the point is not simply to preach to him, but rather give him as much solid info so he can pick and choose for himself.
Perhaps he would find it worthwhile to take the risks to spare his kid from possibly (though rare) having to have it later, and enjoy certain aesthetic benefits (apparently HIS WIFE likes it), such that the kid will not remember and can grow up accustomed to that look.
I would NOT, but I am NOT HIM. Thus I just make sure he gets all the correct info. That people do not understand that, and further that I am not recommending he cut, just because I try to straighten out some erroneous commentary, is not reasonable.
and potential pros against the sure cons
Whoa whoa whoa... the SURE cons? You mean the potential risks right? There are risks in both. No one has yet provided stats on the risk of infammatory conditions and disease (and just plain discomfort) for those that are uncut vs the possible effects of a botched cut.
The best we have had yet is some stats that indicate cut babies might have some temporary issues of nursing?
See what I am talking about? You already have it that "bad things" are surely going to happen. Can you tell me what bad things have happened to me for being cut? I told you the one annoyance I have suffered, though I have no idea that it might have been any better had I not been cut.
it means we have, and have found them not significant enough to warrant the procedure, unless medically neccessary.
Too bad the verbiage wasn't that honest. That is indeed what I had said. Several people (including you) keep pretending you can make statements about the uncut enmasse.
it's not a realistic perspective to look at a single isolated event in contrast to sum of the parts.
You mean like botched cuts? What's the stats on that one?
By the way, you avoided my direct question regarding jews and muslims who practice it for religious reasons. Does that not create another factor to consider? If not, why not? And if so, why would Jazzn's wife be incorrect in appealing to cultural factors if they are important to her?

holmes
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Message 96 of 101 (280231)
01-20-2006 9:57 AM
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01-20-2006 5:59 AM


Re: And the preaching to the choir goes on...
Whoa whoa whoa... the SURE cons? You mean the potential risks right? There are risks in both. No one has yet provided stats on the risk of infammatory conditions and disease (and just plain discomfort) for those that are uncut vs the possible effects of a botched cut.
why does there have to be? it's a deviation from the natural. why would men grow foreskins if they were destructive and prevented procreation?

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Message 97 of 101 (280267)
01-20-2006 11:09 AM
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01-20-2006 9:57 AM


Re: And the preaching to the choir goes on...
why does there have to be? it's a deviation from the natural. why would men grow foreskins if they were destructive and prevented procreation?
You have to provide stats in order to show which would actually provide more of a health risk, if we are discussing risks. That's kind of like innoculations (which are also not natural).
Other than that I am unsure what the "unnaturalness" has to do with anything.

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Message 98 of 101 (280369)
01-20-2006 5:54 PM
Reply to: Message 95 by Silent H
01-20-2006 5:59 AM


Re: And the preaching to the choir goes on...
Wow, you and brenna using the exact same lame argument? Go figure
sigh. holmes, cut it out. if we're really preaching to the choir -- stop arguing against us.
Go figure. The topic was advice to the author of this thread regarding cutting vs notcutting. The OP itself contained plusses and minuses which would be over a lifetime.
My post discussed DISADVANTAGES of CUTTING, just as it described ADVANTAGES of CUTTING. I noted pretty damn clearly that since the advantages would only be for adults, that cutting in infancy made little sense. Thus my commentary has been wholly ON TOPIC.
right, and my comment that potential benefits over rare conditions was not a compelling reason to circumcise an infant -- one you agree with -- was also totally on topic. and it's not me trying to paint anything black-and-white, or demonize the other side.
It is not a nitpick to correct overstatements made to make a position look better than it actually is, or demonize the other side. You guys were going over the top on a few details and I corrected it.
it's not an overstatementm and it still isn't a good argument.
"children shouldn't play with guns"
"sometimes the police have to use a gun to stop a criminal."
that's not a good argument for children playing with guns. adults needing circumcision medically in some rare conditions is not an argument for children being circumcised. you even agree that it's not a compelling reason, too. we didn't bring it up not because we're not rational or interested in a real debate, but because it's a silly argument.
That's about as nitpicky and red-herringish, as when discussing Bush's mistake in invading Iraq, questioning assertions by people that Bush used mind control beams to convince the american public, or that he orchestrated 911 for justification.
You clearly want to demonize circumcision, angelize noncircumcision, and are now engaging in "red-baiting" to try to make me look bad for pointing out simple facts necessary for a rational discussion.
and you are trying to demonize me and brenna for insisting that your logic is flawed, by comparing us to nutters and conspiracy theorists.
Neither side is cut and dried... so to speak.
i would say that one side is cut and dry, but the other uncut and moist.
Well it MAY, I am not Jazzns so I don't know. Personally I don't think it should, and so I argued that. But the point is not simply to preach to him, but rather give him as much solid info so he can pick and choose for himself.
Perhaps he would find it worthwhile to take the risks to spare his kid from possibly (though rare) having to have it later,
right, sure. now why are you jumping down my throat here for saying that it's an overkill solution for a mere potential risk? do you disagree?
Whoa whoa whoa... the SURE cons? You mean the potential risks right? There are risks in both. No one has yet provided stats on the risk of infammatory conditions and disease (and just plain discomfort) for those that are uncut vs the possible effects of a botched cut.
yes, sure cons. there is a sharp decrease in sensation in 100% of circumcisions. the foreskin is packed with nerve endings. or is it only a potential risk that when you cut off a sensory organ you lose sensation?
granted, this was considered a pro in the 1800's, and a major argument FOR circumcision.
By the way, you avoided my direct question regarding jews and muslims who practice it for religious reasons. Does that not create another factor to consider? If not, why not? And if so, why would Jazzn's wife be incorrect in appealing to cultural factors if they are important to her?
i avoided it because it was a side comment to our little debate here. but since it actually is on topic, i guess i will comment.
my mind is not totally made up on that. where does one draw the line between acceptable cultural or religious practice and something like fgm? is fgm acceptable on the basis, and if not, why?

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Message 99 of 101 (280469)
01-21-2006 6:44 AM
Reply to: Message 98 by arachnophilia
01-20-2006 5:54 PM


Re: And the preaching to the choir goes on...
cut it out.
Heheheh...
adults needing circumcision medically in some rare conditions is not an argument for children being circumcised.
Uhhhh... children sometimes need it too. I said people sometimes need it. In addition to need, adults sometimes choose it for comfort or other cosmetic reasons.
Once again you keep changing facts to make your case stronger, when it isn't necessary.
and you are trying to demonize me and brenna for insisting that your logic is flawed, by comparing us to nutters and conspiracy theorists.
Trying to demonize? I am pointing out exactly what you are doing. You misrepresent facts, and argue as if I am saying something opposite of what I am actually saying, because I refuse to misrepresent facts to make my argument.
You then say it makes sense that you should not understand my position, because my argument contains corrections to your overstatements, despite the fact that I keep explaining my position to you.
Call me crazy, but that doesn't make much sense. It is acting irrationally to that subject, oversensitive. All you had to do was admit that you were overstating some facts, though that would not necessarily change your conclusion.
i would say that one side is cut and dry, but the other uncut and moist.
Heheheh...
now why are you jumping down my throat here for saying that it's an overkill solution for a mere potential risk? do you disagree?
See what I am talking about? I was not jumping down your throat at all. You can say it is an overkill solution to a potential risk. Statistically I can't say, and no one has attempted to supply accurate data either way, but personally feel it would be overkill and so I wouldn't.
That does not mean that Jazzns or his wife would view it that way, because they might put different values on different things. Perhaps they are completely vain and put all value on some cosmetic choice... I don't know. Or maybe they are so fearful of dealing with buildup of germs, they'd rather avoid it via a procedure with greater risk (if there is greater risk)... I don't know. Maybe they are Jewish or are in some community where the custom is important, and they put importance on conformity... I don't know.
And its important to note that none of those different positions would be wrong to take, even if I did not share them.
I think the best thing that can be given is the most accurate description of facts, and experiences, and the opinions drawn from them. They will then look at all of it and apply their own opinion filter to draw their own conclusion.
I have not debated your opinion or experiences, only a few descriptions of fact. Sheesh.
there is a sharp decrease in sensation in 100% of circumcisions. the foreskin is packed with nerve endings. or is it only a potential risk that when you cut off a sensory organ you lose sensation?
Okay see, this is exactly the type of horseshit I refuse to swallow and no one else should either. That's your Sure Con? Decrease in sensation? I told you what my experience was having been cut. I have the minor annoyance due to friction when engaging in a lot of sex.
Now maybe some guys are getting a lot more feeling than I am, but I am at absolutely no loss for pleasure. I am capable of reaching orgasm and have an absolutely fantastic time doing so. It can be so sensitive, or overpowering, that I have to stop for a sec. I do not have problems with erections either, due to some lack of feeling.
So what exactly is it that I am missing and desensitized about? Yes, I am certainly missing a section of skin with a bunch of nerve endings, but there are still way more than enough left to achieve exactly what they are supposed to do. Indeed one might ask if the mind does not naturally compensate for any physical loss of numerical nerve endings, with increased sensitivity of remaining ones.
Of course I am not claiming that no one has a loss in sensitivity, just pointing out that your claim of guaranteed loss is practically meaningless.
my mind is not totally made up on that. where does one draw the line between acceptable cultural or religious practice and something like fgm? is fgm acceptable on the basis, and if not, why?
But this gets to the issue which is really important here, and that is that Jazzns and his wife may put stresses on different things, and so the conclusion you and I might draw regarding infant cutting, may be different than their own.
If I felt a strong connection to the Jewish or Islamic faith or any other culture where that was an important symbolic practice, then I'd find it acceptable.
Although fgm makes my eyebrows shoot up, especially if it involves removal of the clitoris, I do not find it something I must then browbeat another person into disliking. People in those cultures find reason and meaning in it. The so called "victims" are not always that at all.
Michael Palin had an interesting encounter with an African village that engaged in that practice and how it was a part of their very creation mythology. It was amazing to watch that doc and see a people that had concepts completely beyond my own. If they are happy and find meaning, who am I to say otherwise and create misery among them?
Indeed could making people discontent with their way of life... for not getting 100% of everything possible they might have been able to out of life (which is OUR materialist culture)... be as bad as allowing the continuation of practices we might not understand or agree with?
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Message 100 of 101 (280577)
01-21-2006 6:02 PM
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01-21-2006 6:44 AM


Re: And the preaching to the choir goes on...
Uhhhh... children sometimes need it too. I said people sometimes need it. In addition to need, adults sometimes choose it for comfort or other cosmetic reasons.
Once again you keep changing facts to make your case stronger, when it isn't necessary.
what am i misrepresenting? i acknowledge that sometimes there is a medical need for it, and that some people prefer to have it done. the only case i'm making is that neither of those is a case for infant circumcision as a prevantative measure. if it were a routine issue, like impacted wisdom wisdom teeth, it might be.
Trying to demonize? I am pointing out exactly what you are doing. You misrepresent facts, and argue as if I am saying something opposite of what I am actually saying, because I refuse to misrepresent facts to make my argument.
this argument started because you emphasized prevention of a relatively rare condition as a pro. i would call that misrepresentation. that's why i'm arguing -- the condition is not common enough for its prevention to be considered a legitimate "pro."
You then say it makes sense that you should not understand my position, because my argument contains corrections to your overstatements, despite the fact that I keep explaining my position to you.
and yet i keep explaining the same objection over and over: prevention of a small potential medical problem years in the future does not warrant a surgican procedure. would you put a pacemaker in a baby, in case it gets a heart murmur 60 years from now? no, you wouldn't.
i don't understand why you keep objecting to this simple logic, when you yourself keep saying that you're not for the procedure. realistic representation of the facts is a good thing, yes. but representing rare potential conditions as an important factor is not realistic. is is good to know? sure. is it a good argument for the procedure? no.
See what I am talking about? I was not jumping down your throat at all. You can say it is an overkill solution to a potential risk. Statistically I can't say, and no one has attempted to supply accurate data either way, but personally feel it would be overkill and so I wouldn't.
well, perhaps you should supply that data, since you brought it up. that, and the fact that i've only ever heard of a single medically required circumcision. the child's foreskin was so long he had to tuck it into his waistband to keep from dangling out of his shorts. in that case, it actually impeded functionality, making urination very difficult. now, that's the only case that i have personally heard of. perhaps maybe you could supply some more?
That does not mean that Jazzns or his wife would view it that way, because they might put different values on different things. Perhaps they are completely vain and put all value on some cosmetic choice... I don't know. Or maybe they are so fearful of dealing with buildup of germs, they'd rather avoid it via a procedure with greater risk (if there is greater risk)... I don't know. Maybe
well perhaps we should deal with the germ issue realistically, too. the commonly cited figure is that circumcised boys are ten times less likely to have uti than uncircumcised boys. that 0.1% vs. 1.1%. girls, of course, are much more likely to have the problem.
this is what i mean about being realistic -- the potential benefits are so marginal that we could also consider them to be in the margin of error. i mean, 1%? and when we balance it with the smallest estimate of infections caused bu circumcision (0.2-0.6%), it really begins the negate the claimed benefit. other sources cite infection as high as 10% though i'm not sure how reasonable that is.
Maybe they are Jewish or are in some community where the custom is important, and they put importance on conformity... I don't know.
that might be an argument. i'd say that i'd take it up with you in the other thread, but i really don't have an opinion here.
And its important to note that none of those different positions would be wrong to take, even if I did not share them.
i hate to be the one to break it to you, but there are positions that are wrong. when the facts contradict a position, it's wrong. and for the most part, the facts contradict the position that there is a significant medical benefit to circumcision on the whole.
Okay see, this is exactly the type of horseshit I refuse to swallow and no one else should either. That's your Sure Con? Decrease in sensation? I told you what my experience was having been cut. I have the minor annoyance due to friction when engaging in a lot of sex.
Now maybe some guys are getting a lot more feeling than I am, but I am at absolutely no loss for pleasure. I am capable of reaching orgasm and have an absolutely fantastic time doing so. It can be so sensitive, or overpowering, that I have to stop for a sec. I do not have problems with erections either, due to some lack of feeling.
So what exactly is it that I am missing and desensitized about? Yes, I am certainly missing a section of skin with a bunch of nerve endings, but there are still way more than enough left to achieve exactly what they are supposed to do. Indeed one might ask if the mind does not naturally compensate for any physical loss of numerical nerve endings, with increased sensitivity of remaining ones.
Of course I am not claiming that no one has a loss in sensitivity, just pointing out that your claim of guaranteed loss is practically meaningless.
a person who is born blind and person who becomes blind have very different perceptions of the world. look into a few adult circumcision cases. every single one of them reports a loss of sensation. maybe you simply don't know what you're missing.
If I felt a strong connection to the Jewish or Islamic faith or any other culture where that was an important symbolic practice, then I'd find it acceptable.
Although fgm makes my eyebrows shoot up, especially if it involves removal of the clitoris, I do not find it something I must then browbeat another person into disliking. People in those cultures find reason and meaning in it. The so called "victims" are not always that at all.
i'm not sure where i stand on cultural relativity. it may be a good argument, it might not be. i'm not taking issue with someone saying that their religion or their culture demands it. i'm taking issue with the claimed medical benefits of it.

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Message 101 of 101 (280635)
01-22-2006 7:19 AM
Reply to: Message 100 by arachnophilia
01-21-2006 6:02 PM


Re: And the preaching to the choir goes on...
what am i misrepresenting?
Go back to the first response I made to you or others, besides jazzns. I stated clearly my only problem with facts as they were being presented.
this argument started because you emphasized prevention of a relatively rare condition as a pro
Actually its not. In any case the prevention of a relatively rare condition is a pro. The prevention of anything negative is a pro. The counterbalance is any negatives from the treatment itself. Like with innoculations.
i don't understand why you keep objecting to this simple logic,
I keep saying I agree with that logic and that is why I am arguing against infant cutting. I also say that some of the facts you present are not accurate, and given that someone may have different values than us, should not be distorted... that way they can make their own decision.
Remember that logic is neutral, and someone with a different set of values may take the same set of facts to a different... though logical... conclusion.
well, perhaps you should supply that data, since you brought it up.
If you start with an argument based on facts and I challenge it, it is your requirement to provide evidence to support your position. In this case I wasn't challenging that factual implication, just stating that NEITHER OF US can say for sure.
well perhaps we should deal with the germ issue realistically
Heheheh... I was meaning the buildup of smegma. I know germophobes that would not be dealing with that realistically.
there are positions that are wrong. when the facts contradict a position, it's wrong.
Correct, when facts do not fit with logic to produce a taken position they are wrong. However whether one should do something or not is based on many different criteria, and the claim that it must be based on medical necessity is itself fallacious. We can only supply facts and the arguments we use to develop our own positions. Jazzns and his wife may have different values and so weight the facts differentlty to arrive at an equally correct conclusion on what to do.
look into a few adult circumcision cases. every single one of them reports a loss of sensation. maybe you simply don't know what you're missing.
Yeah, if you lose something as an adult it will take some time to adjust to the new situation. If you grew up from the beginning that way then your adjustment would be smoother and take place outside of your primary memories/experiences. You are actually delivering an argument for infant circumcision in this case.
But I will ask you, what am I missing? You said definite con. What am I missing? If I feel great having sex, including erections and orgasms, and those who are uncut do not seem to be enjoying anything more intensely than I am... and indeed I am thankfully avoiding some of the pain and sexual limitations I have seen in some uncut cocks... what am I missing?
If I'm not crying my eyes out because there is something I could definitely be having more of, then how is that a sure con?
i'm taking issue with the claimed medical benefits of it.
I take issue with claims that cleaning uncut cocks is always so easy, because you know guys play with themselves all the time anyway. As well as there is not some aesthetic and practical advantages to cut cocks, based on their less required maintenaince.
I've played with plenty of both. So has my gf. There is an aesthetic difference, and discomfort and restriction among uncut cocks is not so rare, even if actual medical problems are rarer. And there certainly are indications that there is an advantage for cut within promiscuous circles because it lessens STD transmission.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)

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