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Author Topic:   Unethical practices in Evangelism. What is the value of the conversions?
iano
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Message 45 of 105 (329471)
07-06-2006 6:53 PM
Reply to: Message 42 by deerbreh
07-06-2006 2:58 PM


Re: What about child evangelism?
I have always thought that evangelism of children can get very manipulative and in the long run, be harmful. High pressure tactics designed to get very young children to "make a decision" for Christ seems wrong to me. I think children should be exposed to religious ideas and values and be allowed a lot of space and time to decide what sort of spiritual path they want to take.
I agree. Judging by the amount of people here who were thus exposed and have subsequently not only ploughed another furrow but are rabidly anti, I would conclude the 'tactic' stupid in the extreme.
If the parents are Christians though I can understand the concern unto over-the-top. Christian parents share the concerns for their children like most parents do. They make the same mistake that every evangelist does at some point: they think they can convert people
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iano
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Message 46 of 105 (329474)
07-06-2006 7:04 PM


Hi Faith
See you got banned again. Means I have the place nigh on to myself!
Enjoyed your Faith-ness in the Potm lite nom. Classic!

  
iano
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Message 57 of 105 (329587)
07-07-2006 10:46 AM
Reply to: Message 55 by ramoss
07-07-2006 9:51 AM


Yet, there are certain times people are much more vulnerable than others. How about when those people are targeted?
I don't necessarily see much a problem with it myself. There is an oldish lady across the road, crocked on cigarettes and booze. From time to time we'll sit and share a bottle of wine (in so far as I can manage to squeeze a glass or two out of the bottle) and during that I will tell her about Christ and heaven and hell.
She and her daughter had some falling out 20 years ago and barely speak. It had to do with some lie her daughter told her when the daughter was 14. I don't know what it was. It troubles her deeply that she may go to her grave with this situation but and the only condition she places on reconciliation is that her daughters says "Sorry"
"But Caroline, she was 14 at the time. Do you not think you were responsible for letting this situation propogate throughout those years? I reckon you need to apologise to your daughter. Such self-justification and pride is precisely at the root of the problem between you and God"
She hates that. She can get a bit befuddled at times and in those moments she denies she has ever sinned before God (the quasi-RC version that she believes in). In her more lucid moments she accepts she has indeed sinned. But didn't do anything wrong in this instance.
I refuse to allow her to escape and discussion can get quite heated at times. If I believe her salvation is at stake and what I say is honest then I see no problem "targetting" this vunerable old lady

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iano
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Message 59 of 105 (329595)
07-07-2006 11:19 AM
Reply to: Message 58 by ramoss
07-07-2006 10:52 AM


After all, the J.W's, have the salvation of my friend at stake.
No they don't, they just believe they do. Patently no one can prove this, so the ethical/unethical question just...hangs there.

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iano
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Message 61 of 105 (329600)
07-07-2006 11:58 AM
Reply to: Message 60 by jar
07-07-2006 11:34 AM


So would you say that when it comes to things like Faith or Belief or Salvation, the content of the message cannot be used to determine whether evangelism is ethical or not?
I don't see how it can, ultimately. I decide that my approach is ethical (and decide too when it strays over the line into unethical) according to the standard I hold myself accountable to.
But that's me. Another will have another standard. Say a person beileves that a literal confession of Christ as Lord saves a person. Their approach thus: "Say these words: 'Christ is Lord' and you will be saved" isn't being unethical in their mind and they are permitted in their mind, to do anything they can to get the person to utter those words. Or "send money" or "go to church".
Ethics are like morals. No one can pin them down.
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iano
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Message 64 of 105 (329605)
07-07-2006 12:31 PM
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07-07-2006 12:12 PM


For example, can a general statement that all parties must be capable of making an informed decision before evangelizing could be considered ethical?
I don't think a general statement is possible. It would need to refer to some general ethic - decided by, well whoever agree that that is the general ethic. I know turning off a life support machine undere certain circumstances is not considered unethical even though the person involved cannot make an informed decision.
Like morals, ethics is a personnal thing: referencing some external standard or some internal standard. All must decide for themselves what they will adhere to.

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iano
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Message 65 of 105 (329606)
07-07-2006 12:34 PM
Reply to: Message 63 by ramoss
07-07-2006 12:24 PM


See message above.
Ethics are in the eye of the beholder. We might as well be talking yet again about morals. Lets not. The conclusion will be as it always is.
I don't think "targetting vunerable individuals' such as the two neighbours I referred to is unethical. They are impoverished in spirit and they need to hear of Christ and him crucified. I could target vunerable individuals in another way which I would consider unethical. So I don't
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iano
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Message 68 of 105 (329612)
07-07-2006 12:41 PM
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07-07-2006 12:38 PM


It seems to me that you (ramoss) are asking for a morally absolute judgement, and that is not possible.
It is possible of course. Just not on this side of death (physical) or life (spiritual)
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iano
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Message 69 of 105 (329613)
07-07-2006 12:42 PM
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07-07-2006 12:40 PM


My morals are related to an absolute morality. In that sense I am a moral relativist.

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iano
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Message 71 of 105 (329617)
07-07-2006 1:03 PM
Reply to: Message 70 by ramoss
07-07-2006 12:56 PM


IMO, from an outsider looking in, there is exactly no difference bewteen a J.W. using strong arm techniques against someone who is going through a tough emotional time vs an evanglistic Christian using strong arm techniques against someone going trhough an emotional time.
The act is the same. The intention is the same. The result, if conversion results, is different
Yet, when you do something, you consider it moral. When a J.W. or mormon, or a muslim does the exact same thing, relative to them, it is immoral. That doesn't seem to be an 'absolute' to me.
When I attempt to lead someone to Christ I am being moral (according to Gods standard). When a JW attempts to lead someone to a false representation of God that is immoral. The JW won't see it that way. But the fact we both see it the same way doesn't mean both ways are moral (or both immoral)
Your comparing apples and pears
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