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Author Topic:   Unethical practices in Evangelism. What is the value of the conversions?
riVeRraT
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Message 50 of 105 (329562)
07-07-2006 9:23 AM
Reply to: Message 44 by purpledawn
07-06-2006 4:42 PM


Re: Does it Stick?
Even though deception was used when approaching the person, there has to be some point at which the person knows he/she is being spoken to concerning Christianity.
If I was on the recieving end of that dating scenerio, I would be a little pissed, and I doubt I would take anything the person posing as a Jew, to be valid.
I think there is a line you shouldn't cross, when "becoming like a Jew". That line is subjective, but he definatly crossed it by giving false hope to that poor lady.

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riVeRraT
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Message 51 of 105 (329567)
07-07-2006 9:31 AM
Reply to: Message 1 by ramoss
07-06-2006 3:55 AM


Again.. what is the value of a conversion that was based on lies? How about the people who figure out the deceit and leave because of feeling betrayed? Are the unethical methods a stain on all evangelistic efforts? Why or why not?
There is no value on a conversion based on lies, unless the person is truely converted in their heart. I doubt this would happen if it was based on lies, but anything is possible.
The unethical methods definatly stain all evangelistic efforts. So do Preists who molest children. So does a Nun who tries to hit you with a ruler, and not answer your question about mother Mary, and prayer in the bible.
The best thing we can do, is exactly what you did, and that is to point this stuff out as much as possible, but not to say, that all evangilists are bad, or all preists are bad. Christians should be leading this front. (Unless all means many )

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riVeRraT
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Message 53 of 105 (329573)
07-07-2006 9:43 AM
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07-07-2006 9:36 AM


How about the approaching of people when they are in a vulnerable state, such as their marriage is being on the rocks, the death of a loved one, or , in one of the examples, a woman with a diminished mental capacitiy?
I may be wrong, but we are all always in a vunerable state, because we all seek God. The word vunerable can be relative.
But the way I would do it, is to just love that person when they are down, and love them the way God loves me. To help that person in their time of need. When it's all over, if they ask why, then I can tell them about God's love. If I am doing it in the true spirit of the Lord, and in God's love, they will have to then know who God is, because it is not me acting alone. It is a "true love" and they will know. I thank God for showing me this.

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riVeRraT
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Message 54 of 105 (329574)
07-07-2006 9:45 AM
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07-06-2006 4:42 PM


Re: Does it Stick?
I had to add something to my last reply, and that is my interpretation of "becoming like a Jew".
That means to live with people without offending them, accepting their ways, not rejecting them because of your belief's. To love them, and be like them in their traditions, but definatly not lie to them. How can you decieve someone when trying to deliver the truth to them?

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riVeRraT
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Message 56 of 105 (329584)
07-07-2006 10:28 AM
Reply to: Message 55 by ramoss
07-07-2006 9:51 AM


Yet, there are certain times people are much more vulnerable than others. How about when those people are targeted?
If I would have never came to this forum, I would have never thought there should be a good time, or a bad time to share the gospel. I would never have looked at whether I was taking advantage of someone's mis-fortune.
The way I see it right now, is if the gospel is truth, then it must be preached on the premise of truth.
So maybe every situation calls for it's own judgment. If I go to another country and feed starving people, and preach the gospel to them, people in here would call that exploiting them. But if it was the lack of the gospel that got them to where they are, then I say it is not exploiting them. Many cultures can change for the better, once the truth is revealed to them.
Another example is like the one iano was speaking of before with his neighbor. The reason his neighbor is in the state he/she is, might be ebcause of the lack of knowing the Lord. There is a void, so knowing the Lord would help them.
But overall, I don't think being vunerable is going to determine if a person will make a true choice in their heart about Jesus. Jesus will only start to work in someone's life unless the repentence is real, and true.
Also being vunerable has nothing to do with the intentions of the person preaching. If the person preaching, or evangilising is doing it out of love, and from the Spirit, then the true gospel will reach that person. I find that to be a good thing. If the person preaching is just doing it for his/her own personal gain, then it doesn't matter when or how they are doing it. I find it wrong. It must be done for the glory of God, not for the exploitation of vunerable people, or another notch in the belt. If someone is truely in touch with the Spirit, then they will pray about each individual situation, and God will lead them to the right thing to do.

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riVeRraT
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Message 84 of 105 (329937)
07-08-2006 8:36 PM
Reply to: Message 76 by nator
07-07-2006 5:29 PM


Are you seriously saying that people starve in third world countries because they aren't Christian?
What about the Christians who are starving?
Good point. I wouldn't say all peopl in third worlds are starving because they are not Christian.
But say that there was food available for them, and a way to get it, but it is the way they act, that prevents them from having it. Coming to know the Love of Jesus might change all that for them. It is part of what we do in Hope for the Nations. We make todays orphans tomorrows leaders, so they can become self suffcient, after we help them get started.
Evem right here in New orleans, ther are many down there who are turning to God, because once you lose all your material possessions, you start to realize just exactly what is important.
And anyway, how can you possibly know that the people are starving because they "lack the gospel", whatever that means?
Check otu the movie "end of the spear." It's about tribes in Ecuador. Although they weren't starving, they were killing each other off. Coming to know the Lord has changed that for them. It is based on a true story. It is opne example of how the Lord can change societies for the better.
People starve because they don't have enough food, often because political situations have displaced them and prevented them from being able to provide for themselves.
If the true spirit of the Lord would fall on these people, it could change, I believe that with all my heart.
War and repressive and unstable governments (which lead to the destruction of land, commerce, and entire economies) is what causes starvation, in Christian and non-Christian nations alike.
Agreed.

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riVeRraT
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Message 89 of 105 (330055)
07-09-2006 10:18 AM
Reply to: Message 86 by nator
07-08-2006 10:52 PM


Er, can you give an example of the kind of behavior that is exclusive to Christianity that would allow starving people to get food that is avilable to them that they otherwise cannot possibly get?
You are turning it into an absolute. I quote myself from Message 56
quote:
But if it was the lack of the gospel that got them to where they are, then I say it is not exploiting them. Many cultures can change for the better, once the truth is revealed to them.
I used the word if.
As far as another culture benifiting from hearing the truth, the Waodani tribe in the movie end of the spear, is the perfect example. I am sure there are many more examples. This statement isn't trying to make Christianity into some life changing thing, because we all know the record that Chrisitianity has. But the true gospel, or the real spirit of God, can change lives, not religion. That is what I am trying to get at.
I mean, the only scenario I can imagine is that there are some Christians who have the food and demand that the starving people convert to Christianity before they give it to them.
You know that's not what I mean, that would be wrong. We go help people whether they choose Jesus or not. Hope for the Nations will even use non-faith based grants to go and help people, that means we cannot even preach the gospel to them. IF you read my other comments in this thread, you would know that I believe if we just act out of the love of God, and Christ, then that is all that is necessary to bring them the truth.
Well, sure. Most people will cling to any kind of hope or comfort to get through the day if they are made desperate enough, especially if they were raised in a culture wich considers it normal and correct to do so.
Well that's just it. I am not up on all the specifics of it, but New Orleans was not known for it's Christianity, they were known for their voodoo. But your right, people will cling on to any hope they have.
Edited by riVeRraT, : fixed quote bracket

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riVeRraT
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Posts: 5788
From: NY USA
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Message 93 of 105 (331351)
07-12-2006 10:32 PM
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07-12-2006 6:16 PM


Why don't you and your husband come down with me and mine and help out?

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riVeRraT
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Message 94 of 105 (331352)
07-12-2006 10:33 PM
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07-12-2006 6:32 PM


Re: New Orleans not know for its Christiainty???????
Is that the same Holy ground where people lift their shirts up for beads?

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riVeRraT
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Message 97 of 105 (331879)
07-14-2006 10:55 PM
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07-13-2006 4:27 PM


Nothing, and I know enough about voodoo, to know that it is not the way.

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riVeRraT
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Message 100 of 105 (333936)
07-21-2006 9:54 AM
Reply to: Message 98 by nator
07-20-2006 8:00 PM


In comparison, there is more voodoo in New Orleans than any other place in the US.
There is the filth that is mardi gras, and 10's of thousands of people who mooch of the government and live in poverty, by choice.
These statments are not judgements, they are fact. One has to examine the facts.
But this conversation is pointles, because I consider it irrelevent to what happened to them, that would be judging them. There are many fine people in New Orleans, I have relatives there, and online gaming friends, that I spend many nights on comms with.
I am speaking from the point that our missions group went there, and got to pray for people who didnb't believe, that after the fact consider it, because maybe, just maybe God spoke to them in their hearts about what happened to them. It is the fear of death that will make you think about God for sure. If you don't like that, that is your perogative.
I invited you to come with us, so that maybe we could look at it first hand together, help some people in need, and show the rest of the community that we are capable of getting along regardless of belief's.
It is a moral of mine, to lay down issues, and get along with people no matter the circumstance. Is it for you? I only want to go help people, and bring as many as I can with me.

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riVeRraT
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Message 104 of 105 (334473)
07-23-2006 8:59 AM
Reply to: Message 102 by nator
07-21-2006 3:36 PM


YOU basically said that you were going to NOLA to witness to all of the non-Christian voodoo practitioners there
No, I didn't say that, that is what you concluded.
I am going to to first, help, and pray for people who want prayer.
While I am there, I will learn about what is left of the area. Anything I learn will be most likely irrelevent to how things where before Katrina.
You said that they were "turning to God" because they had lost everything,
People are turning to God, whether they are Christian or not. Everyone can always press into God more, including myself.
Wow, aren't you judgemental?
Super Nitendo is right, I have never been there. I can only go by what I see on TV, and what my father told me about the place. BTW, my dad isn't into God as much as I am, but he was disgusted by what he saw.
It is what it is, and that is just a fact, not a judgment call.
If I said they were going to hell, then I would be judging them.
Got any stats to back up that claim?
quote:
New Orleans has one of the highest poverty rates of any of America's big cities. According to a report by Total Community Action, a New Orleans public advocacy group, nearly one out of three New Orleans residents live below the poverty level, the majority of who are black.
http://www.blacknews.com/pr/looting101.html
quote:
In Louisiana, the poverty level is 19.6 percent for the state's 4.3 million residents. In New Orleans, the poverty rate is an astounding 27.9 percent for the city's 468,453 residents.
Error
27.9% of 468,453 is 130698 people.
And you should be able to substantiate the by choice part.
Are you denying that opportunity exists in America, and that if you want to, you do not have to live in poverty?
Look I grew up in NYC, and I have seen first hand how "people in poverty" live, and how they mooch off the government, and take from our taxes. A person living on welfare can recieve up to $60,000 in benifits once you add it all up. Why wouldn't they want to live "in poverty"?
I won't even debate this with you further. If you don't believe me, or think that the majority of these people live in poverty by choice, then you need to take some reality lessons, and go find out or yourself.
And your group makes sure to be there to tell them that they are correct to believe in god out of fear, when they are at their most despeate and their most vulnerable. Got it.
If thats the way it was, then thats what we would say. No one can deny their creator in times of need. It is what is in them, it comes from your own heart. There is no exploiting going on, as we have nothing to gain from them knowing God.
You are vultures, all of you.
And your living in denial, thanks for another attack on the person, not the subject, and stooping to calling us names. Were is the dam admin?

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riVeRraT
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Message 105 of 105 (334475)
07-23-2006 9:12 AM
Reply to: Message 103 by nator
07-21-2006 3:41 PM


Re: mardi gras
nor does he seem to have bothered to inform himself about the religious demographics of NOLA, nor does he seem to care. He seems to think that Christianity is rare there and that most people practice voodoo.
I never said Christianity was rare in New Orleans. I do not know the level of Christianity in New Orleans. I am going to stay in a Christian church, so obviously there is some Christianity there.
What I calimed was that New Orleans is the voodoo capitol of the US, which you seem to be ignoring, and turning around my statements to make me a ppear false.
Are you denying that New Orleans is the voodoo capitol of the US?
Authentic New Orleans Voodoo Dolls, Spells & Voodoo Magic Products
http://www.voodoomusicfest.com/2006/home.php
They even have their own football team, lol
http://www.govoodoo.com/
Not only that, but again schraf you attack the person not the subject, this time in third person. If you can't even follow some simple forum rules, then why should we believe anything you have to say?
All he knows is that there are people in NOLA desperate and vulnerable enough to be suceptible to his and his group's opportunistic witnessing scheme.
Do demons drive out demons?
I am tired of this claim of exploitation from you, it is total BS.
To me it is you making exuses.

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