Iano and JP writes:
That is one of the horrors of hell - a person eternally hating themselves because of what they have done to themselves.
This really struck a chord with me as it fits snuggly with the various symptoms of low self esteem and confidence.
How did this strike a chord?
Many of the patients I work with are in an absolute state of dispair and self loathing because of the choices that they have made and the effect it has had on them.
Some sit with vacant eyes when they look at the choices that they have made in life. Unforced choices that prove (to them) that there is something very wrong with them.
Part of my job is to educate people in what it means to be part of the human species. The way we make choices is
very flawed, the way our psychology predisposes us towards certain illogical actions looks (objectively) like we are pretty rotten.
It falls to people like me to show how this is our nature and that one can choose not to act in a detrimental way by recognising the unhelpfull cognitions and behaviours and learning to move towards more helpfull cognitions and behaviours.
But before the patient can begin to make changes in their life they have to see that they have been making certain chioces in life that have brought them to where they are now by using the illogical flawed psychology we all have.
This I think is very similar to acknowledging that one is a flawed creature of sin.