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Author Topic:   Morals without God or Darwin, just Empathy
anastasia
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Message 16 of 184 (380530)
01-27-2007 7:04 PM
Reply to: Message 8 by Stile
01-25-2007 1:40 PM


Re: Some more agreement
Stile writes:
Yes. I never understood how a static, printed manual for something as complex, ever-changing and vast as "morality" could ever satisfy even the smallest development of a true Good Will Towards All style of thinking.
It doesn't. The commandments and rules of the Bible are of no use when applied without reasoning.
Btw, it is 'Toward Men of Good Will', not 'Good Will Towards All'.

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anastasia
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Message 17 of 184 (380533)
01-27-2007 7:14 PM
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01-25-2007 11:28 AM


Stile writes:
I do not think Murder is wrong because it will reduce the number of people around me and therefore reducing our survival-chances.
Good. Reducing the number of people can just as easily increase our survival chances.
. If I feel that a certain action is evil, or good; generally by wondering if anyone is being hurt. Then I deem it as being bad, or right.
You may have forgotten, but often doing evil to someone helps you yourself. If this is purely about survival, who wins? You, or someone else? Do you think it is ok to do bad things when no one else is involved at all? Or even to think about evil? For example, to lust after your best friend's wife?

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Larni
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Message 18 of 184 (380696)
01-28-2007 1:04 PM
Reply to: Message 15 by anastasia
01-27-2007 3:00 PM


Re: Ability and Usage are two different things
ana writes:
to see people struggling to explain without God.
You see struggling even when this very subject has been explained to you pretty simply on another thread?
Your belief in a god based morality is what blinds you to the avilable information.
Edited by Larni, : No reason given.

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anastasia
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Message 19 of 184 (380718)
01-28-2007 2:11 PM
Reply to: Message 18 by Larni
01-28-2007 1:04 PM


Re: Ability and Usage are two different things
Larni writes:
You see struggling even when this very subject has been explained to you pretty simply on another thread?
I do, sir. I see only partial pictures, no coherance. You may give me a detailed explanation of brain functions which tell us to feel selfish or emphatic. Sounds good, but you forgot one thing; we don't do what our brain tells us.
For example, when we feel like being selfish, we don't have to. That is what makes the difference between a 'natural' person, and a hero. If it is natural to act selfish, we would see no wrong in it. We say 'it is human nature to act selfishly some of the time' but we hold up as great examples those who do not. We say humans will never evolve beyond war, but we know we hate war. We are looking to something more than natural without even knowing it.

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Larni
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Message 20 of 184 (380859)
01-29-2007 8:52 AM
Reply to: Message 19 by anastasia
01-28-2007 2:11 PM


Re: Ability and Usage are two different things
ana writes:
If it is natural to act selfish, we would see no wrong in it.
Some people DO see no wrong in it. People who do see wrong, do so because of socialization (with a few exceptions).
What we think about our actions is a science close to my heart (cognitive behavioural psychology) and I see this as being a paramount importance when we look at perception of right and wrong.
Don't forget what people believe is just another style of thinking....
If you have any specific questions I wuld be happy to field them for you.

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Stile
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Message 21 of 184 (380861)
01-29-2007 8:55 AM
Reply to: Message 13 by Larni
01-26-2007 7:25 PM


Re: Some more agreement
Stile writes:
Because my decision that killing is wrong doesn't have anything to do with whether or not it's actually affecting me.
Larni writes:
Incorrect.
If you had no empathy, a psychotic personality or you were taught from a young age that killing was an appropriate way of solving problems, it would not effect you.
Yes. You are right. I did not intend for "actually affecting" me to refer to "affecting me in any way possible" but more as another way to say "directly physically affecting me" as I wrote in a few other places in that post.
I should have wrote:
"Because my decision that killing is wrong doesn't have anything to do with whether or not it's actually physically affecting me."
I understand that I am affected mentally. And that not all people/things may have this capability, or even in the same way as I have mine.

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Stile
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Message 22 of 184 (380866)
01-29-2007 9:10 AM
Reply to: Message 14 by RAZD
01-26-2007 10:11 PM


Re: reduction?
RAZD writes:
Essentially what you are saying is that morality is just empathy - the golden rule - being able to wear the other person's shoes.
I'm not sure if I'm ready to reduce myself to saying that morality is only empathy just yet. I certainly think it's a large part of morality. I agree with what you say here:
RAZD writes:
Thus "natural" empathy alone is not enough, there needs to be an intellectual element.
I think this is the extra part I'm thinking of. Natural empathy alone can be just fine for certain... extreme situations. Like obvious murder, or rape. However, I do agree that we need an intellectual element when things make their way into those fuzzy grey areas.
Is stealing to feed your family wrong? I can empathize with the theif, I would not want my family to go hungry. I can also empathize with the shop-keeper, why must it be his problem? what if his family is hungry as well?
I think this is where the element of intellect comes in. We need more information to answer this question. Must the theif steal for the food? Have all other avenues been exhausted? How badly will it affect the shop-keeper? Could the two maybe just come to some sort of agreement?
RAZD writes:
Why do all discussions of morality seem to focus on bad behavior eh?
I think it is easier to talk about and "show" empathy. I attempted a post on the "Why do Good?" thread and found it much more difficult.

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Stile
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Message 23 of 184 (380872)
01-29-2007 9:22 AM
Reply to: Message 15 by anastasia
01-27-2007 3:00 PM


Re: Ability and Usage are two different things
anastasia writes:
Belief in God does not cause morality, nor does following the literal words of the Bible.
I admit that I do not understand, then, your God-based moral system. My understanding was that the moral system is based on what God says: God says it is good, so it is good. God says it is bad, so it is bad. Could you please explain the system to me if this is incorrect, or perhaps even just incomplete?
anastasia writes:
You can choose to bake a cake.
You can choose to have morals.
If you don't feel like baking, no one cares.
What do you think of people who do not choose morals?
Are you sure? What if I baked really awesome cakes? And people all over the world loved them? Then there'd be a lot of sad people when I stopped baking.
But, to answer your question: I think people who do not choose morals are not good people. Or, in the very least, that they need to learn/be taught how to be good. This is why we have laws, and jails and rehabilitation facilities, or even loving parents/guardians/caretakers/teachers...

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Jon
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Message 24 of 184 (380875)
01-29-2007 9:29 AM
Reply to: Message 9 by Taz
01-25-2007 3:45 PM


Re: Some more agreement
Personally, I'd push the button.

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nator
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Message 25 of 184 (380876)
01-29-2007 9:44 AM
Reply to: Message 19 by anastasia
01-28-2007 2:11 PM


Re: Ability and Usage are two different things
quote:
You may give me a detailed explanation of brain functions which tell us to feel selfish or emphatic. Sounds good, but you forgot one thing; we don't do what our brain tells us.
Sure we do.
We do what our brain tells us all the time.
Just because the incredibly complex interaction of the biological, social, and individual basis for human behavior cannot be easily reduced to the pat sound-bites you seem to require doesn't mean you are right and science is wrong.
"God gave us morals" is certainly easier to deal with, but it explains nothing.
It is an intellectual dead end.

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nator
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Message 26 of 184 (380877)
01-29-2007 9:47 AM
Reply to: Message 24 by Jon
01-29-2007 9:29 AM


Re: Some more agreement
quote:
Personally, I'd push the button. Personally, I'd push the button.
You know what happens to the people who push the button?
They get to be the next person hooked up to the killing machine for somebody else to kill.

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Stile
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Message 27 of 184 (380880)
01-29-2007 10:01 AM
Reply to: Message 17 by anastasia
01-27-2007 7:14 PM


Survival is not part of the thought-process
Stile writes:
I do not think Murder is wrong because it will reduce the number of people around me and therefore reducing our survival-chances.
anastasia writes:
Good. Reducing the number of people can just as easily increase our survival chances.
Yes. It can. But, that's not my point. Anything regarding "survival-chances" does not affect my morality decisions. I do not think Murder is wrong because of anything related to survival-chances. I think Murder is wrong because, basically, I would not want to be Murdered.
anastasia writes:
You may have forgotten, but often doing evil to someone helps you yourself. If this is purely about survival, who wins? You, or someone else? Do you think it is ok to do bad things when no one else is involved at all? Or even to think about evil? For example, to lust after your best friend's wife?
That's my point, though. Not only is it not "purely about survival"... it has nothing to do with survival. No, I do not think it is okay to do bad things when no one else is involved at all. And yes, I think it is bad (or evil, if you prefer) to lust after your best friend's wife. I would not want my friends lusting over my girlfriend, even. I definitely would not want them lusting over my wife (that is, when my girlfriend eventually becomes my wife).

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Jon
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Message 28 of 184 (380889)
01-29-2007 10:58 AM
Reply to: Message 26 by nator
01-29-2007 9:47 AM


Re: Some more agreement

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ReverendDG
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Message 29 of 184 (380896)
01-29-2007 11:07 AM
Reply to: Message 16 by anastasia
01-27-2007 7:04 PM


Re: Some more agreement
It doesn't. The commandments and rules of the Bible are of no use when applied without reasoning.
sometimes i wonder if some people realize this though, some people don't show any reason, its all black and white
Btw, it is 'Toward Men of Good Will', not 'Good Will Towards All'.
don't you have to define 'good' first?

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ReverendDG
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Message 30 of 184 (380898)
01-29-2007 11:18 AM
Reply to: Message 23 by Stile
01-29-2007 9:22 AM


Re: Ability and Usage are two different things
I admit that I do not understand, then, your God-based moral system. My understanding was that the moral system is based on what God says: God says it is good, so it is good. God says it is bad, so it is bad. Could you please explain the system to me if this is incorrect, or perhaps even just incomplete?
A lot of christians don't realize this but it is incomplete, theres a lot of stuff that wasn't written down that people followed and stuff that was written down came from the stuff that wasn't, just reading the laws in the OT do not reflect the full meaning behind the morality in the OT, its not all there.
Are you sure? What if I baked really awesome cakes? And people all over the world loved them? Then there'd be a lot of sad people when I stopped baking.
does it have to be cake though? how about pie? i like pie
But, to answer your question: I think people who do not choose morals are not good people. Or, in the very least, that they need to learn/be taught how to be good. This is why we have laws, and jails and rehabilitation facilities, or even loving parents/guardians/caretakers/teachers...
that kind of comes off as circluar reasoning: they don't have morals so they are bad, they are bad because they have no morals, just pointing this out, since thats a common argument from the otherside for why you must have morals
the reason people should have morals is because they are useally about peoples lives, safty and property. those without morals tend to eather be dangerous to themselves or to others, or both. also those without morals tend to not fit into society and are distrusted by others, thus living a short unhappy life. morals allow a frame work to base a society on, which if we didn't have some form of morals or ethics would lead to socal self destruction.

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