I guess I was only referring to normal people who enjoy the simple joys of children and congratulate their friends and family on their pregnancy. My apologies for the confusion.
May God continue to let you live in this bubble of your own making, absent any uncertainty and continued normality.
For me, a good friend of mine had gotten unintentionally pregnant and she was unsure how she felt about it. I, too, was unsure and told her that I did not know the appropriate sentiment to express ("congratulations" or "that sucks"). She was so relieved that I, too, felt uncertainty when so many others simply mouthed an empty "congratulations" without considering what this pregnancy meant for her.
After seeing the repeated response another good friend of mine gets when she tells people she's decided not to have children, my first response to the news of a pregnancy is now, "Why?"
And I enjoy the simple joys of children, thank you.
Edited by docpotato, : No reason given.