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Author Topic:   Why It Is Right To Do Good To Others
anastasia
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Message 128 of 304 (406226)
06-18-2007 12:38 AM
Reply to: Message 123 by Stile
06-17-2007 2:42 PM


Re: A Summary
Stile writes:
The system doesn't have any force to make you do anything, it identifies what's good and bad. So that those who have motivations to do good, can do good without the fear of accidentally doing bad.
It identifies nothing, sorry. I already gave examples of how it can be bad to increase inner feelings.
It's bad to IIF when someone else will be affected.
It's bad to IIF when YOU will feel bad.
My mom will be happy if I go to church.
My husband may be annoyed.
I think it is good to go.
What do I do?
So is it good or bad to go, and how do someone's feelings determine if an action is good or bad? You yourself said they can't.
However, just because someone feels, or thinks, something is good doesn't make it good.
GOOD = anything which IIF.
Now you say, just because someone feels something increases inner feelings, doesn't mean it does. Correct. It is clear that inner feelings have nothing to say about GOOD. They certainly can't help me know if I should go to church or not.
Edited by anastasia, : No reason given.

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anastasia
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Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 136 of 304 (406406)
06-19-2007 8:09 PM
Reply to: Message 132 by Stile
06-18-2007 2:56 PM


Re: A Summary
Stile writes:
My apologies, please disregard the previous explanation. I got hung up on "your mom's feelings increasing" that I forgot to identify the action in the first place. Your mom and husaband can think whatever they want. The action is "going to church". No one's getting affected by it. The action is morally neutral.
Must be nice to be so ...unencumbered or something. In my life, people are definitely affected by my going to church.
But hello, you are leaving thousands of actions open to debate that are not covered by your idea of morality.
Are you one of those people who have no opinion about being wasted drunk or doing drugs, as long as its not affecting anyone?
You must be in the minority. By your logic, a person can drink and drive up to and until they hit someone, and even then they didn't knowingly and willingly interact with a person. Don't be naive. Everything we do can affect someone, and if it has the potential to be bad, our society treats it as bad, by and large.

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anastasia
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From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 137 of 304 (406410)
06-19-2007 8:40 PM
Reply to: Message 131 by Stile
06-18-2007 2:41 PM


Re: Motivation and Action are seperate
Stile writes:
Must I say this is every post...
I'm NOT saying Morally Good = anything that increases the inner feelings of anyone.
I'm being very specific in saying:
Morally Good = an action that increases the inner-feelings of the being acted upon
Stile, what's the bloomin' difference?
As to the rest of your post, I definitely 100% feel that motivation is what makes us moral or immoral. You are way, way confused.
There are things which make people happy, they can be done accidently, purposefully, chain reaction ,etc. Morality is NOT about any random thing which happens to please someone. It is about whether YOU knowingly and from sheer belief in the goodness of it, perform an action when you could have done otherwise.
Every possible fallacy that you are giving to me and others here, is in reality your own. It is YOU who are making everything and everyone moral, because YOU say that we can be moral by accident. Nice challenge there.
You are also dodging every question and shifting the goals, or reposting your 'points' while nitpicking over words that express the same concept.
I don't care what kind of morals you have, but I am frustrated at your communication/conversation skills, and the difficulty you have with understanding how anyone else feels. For all your preaching it is you who is being close-minded and holier-than-thou. Everyone here is entirely familar with your whole system, and not liking it either. When I tell you about what I do, you deny it having any importance or validity.
I don't mean this to be offensive, it's just what it is, but I should have ended this a ways back when you kept reposting things that were irrelevent.
I asked your motives for doing whatever you think is good. Apparently you can do good with bad motives, but that doesn't make you moral. Neither does an accident. I would rather do bad with good motives.
Edited by anastasia, : No reason given.
Edited by anastasia, : No reason given.

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anastasia
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From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 153 of 304 (406698)
06-21-2007 9:28 PM
Reply to: Message 139 by Stile
06-20-2007 3:32 PM


Re: Let's stick to the topic
Stile writes:
Wait... when did we start talking about legalities? I've been talking about morality and what IS good.
Legalities?
Doesn't a person driving a car affect other people? Good, bad, or indifferent?
The rest of the posters here are doing a good job of covering my points, and I suppose I am through for now...I really wanted to see you at least recognize what we are all saying about morality being personal, and not dependant on the outcome.

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anastasia
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Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
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Message 155 of 304 (406815)
06-22-2007 2:44 PM
Reply to: Message 154 by ikabod
06-22-2007 8:14 AM


Re: Where's your system?
ikabod writes:
There are no moral certainies , unless you go ask god/gods .. then you will be told that eating fruit on sunday is morally bad but eating fruit on tuesday is morally good . WHY ? cos they say so and have the power to make it so .
I disagree with this idea.
While it may be true that people 'invent' gratuitous and pointless rules from time to time, the majority of religious Cans and Can Nots either ARE or WERE based on sensible goals. I say sensible. I mean this literally. As humans, the result of our following one behaviour or another can be really and truly noticed. If we can no longer see the result of our behaviour, it becomes superfluous baggage. I have examonied for example, all the rules for my religion of which I am aware. I have found them to have 'real' purpose in every case.
To have purpose, you must go back to motive.
What do you want to accomplish?
How can you best do that?
Things which help you to accomplish your goal are purposeful.
It may not always be obvious at a glance to discern the purpose of some rules without finding motive.
One generic example is GOAL= obey God
Millions of discrepencies pop up concerning what God wants.
Outside of customary worship, we usually try to live a good life. We do this by using whatever tools and information we have as a society.
'A good life' is a different thing for us now than it was for the ancient Greeks, or the Hebrews, or the middle ages peasant, or the rulers of a kingdom.
At one time a good person could wash their hands or avoid certain foods to prevent contamination, and this could lead to a moral overtone to the action. In future times and with advanced technology, obsolete actions may be discounted from a moral structure. Some stay on as tradition, but they are usually distinct from obligation. What is obligatory is what is known or BELIEVED without proof to the contrary, to serve a purpose. I personally can not find rules which are completely perfunctory or which exist just because 'God said so' or some cardinal or other person in high places.

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anastasia
Member (Idle past 5979 days)
Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
Joined: 11-05-2006


Message 176 of 304 (407671)
06-27-2007 2:56 PM
Reply to: Message 175 by Stile
06-27-2007 12:00 PM


Re: cause effect consequence of good v. bad
Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy writes:
1. Descriptive Definitions of “morality”
“Morality” is an unusual word. It is not used very much, at least not without some qualification. People do sometimes talk about “Christian morality,” “Nazi morality,” or about “the morality of the Greeks,” but they seldom talk simply about morality all by itself. Anthropologists used to claim that morality, like law, applied only within a society. They claimed that “morality” referred to that code of conduct that is put forward by a society. This account seems to fit best those societies that have no written language, where often no distinctions are made among morality, etiquette, law, and religion. But even for anthropologists “morality” does not often mean simply “code of conduct put forward by a society.” Often, morality is distinguished from etiquette, law, and religion, all of which provide codes of conduct put forward by a society.
Etiquette is sometimes included as a part of morality, but it applies to behavior that is considered less serious than the kinds of actions to which morality usually applies. Law is distinguished from morality by having explicit rules, penalties, and officials who interpret the laws and apply the penalties, but there is often considerable overlap in the conduct governed by morality and that governed by law. Religion differs from morality in that it includes stories, usually about supernatural beings, that are used to explain or justify the behavior that it requires. Although there is often a considerable overlap in the conduct required by religion and that required by morality, morality provides only a guide to conduct, whereas religion always contains more than this. When “morality” is used simply to refer to a code of conduct put forward by a society, whether or not it is distinguished from etiquette, law, and religion, then it is being used in a completely descriptive sense.
When “morality” is used in this descriptive way, moralities can differ from each other in their content and in the foundation that members of the society claim their morality to have. A society might have a morality that is primarily concerned with practices not related to other persons, e.g., which days must be devoted to certain rituals, and might claim that their morality, which is concerned primarily with ritual, is based on the commands of God. Or a society might have a morality that is concerned primarily with sexual practices, and claim that their morality, which has this concern, is based on human nature. Or a society might regard morality as being concerned primarily with practices that minimize the harms that people suffer and claim that their morality, which has this concern, is based on reason. Many societies have moralities that are concerned with all of the above and that are claimed to have all three of the above foundations. But, in this sense of “morality,” regardless of its content, or the justification that those who accept the morality claim for it, the only universal features that all moralities have is that they are put forward by a society and they provide a guide for the behavior of the people in that society.
You have asked for us to show that there is something wrong with your moral code. I don't believe there is anything terribly wrong, but I and others were showing that your code is not morality. It is simply and only your version of it. This article or any other definition should show you that morality can and does encompass diverse elements depending on the society or individual's concerns.
I would say that Morally Good does not = an action initiated by a being which increases PIF in the being acted upon.
Morality = an individual's assessment of all aspects of their life, including convictions and beliefs, religion, law, etiquette, and obligations, and the code of conduct resulting in that individual's 'correct' behaviour all things considered.
Morally Good, therefore, is anything which one feels to be good behaviour based on what they know or believe about life.
The only problem is why we have the concept of morality as in good/evil when we have no God idea.
It is good etiquette to pass the tea pot and to hold the door, but it is not really good or evil. What seperates etiquette from morality?

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anastasia
Member (Idle past 5979 days)
Posts: 1857
From: Bucks County, PA
Joined: 11-05-2006


Message 185 of 304 (407961)
06-29-2007 12:39 PM
Reply to: Message 179 by Stile
06-28-2007 12:05 PM


Re: cause effect consequence of good v. bad
Stile writes:
Yes, it's clearly understood that any given person can have their own concept of morality, what is right and what is wrong. I mean, any person could have their own concept of pretty much anything. I would never argue otherwise. Included in the definition you've provided is also that what you think is "morality" is not morality, but only your version of it. It states that everyone only has "their version" of morality. Which is exactly the problem that my system deals with. It provides an objective view of what is morally good and morally bad.
Stile, I see I am not the only one who is finding you a bit stubborn when it comes to viewing things objectively. Of course I know my morality is simply my own, because there are quite simply things which affect my life that can not be dealt with fully by any external code. Your system remains YOUR system. It is a system which can in some cases help you to act 'good' based on what YOU have defined as 'good'. It is definitely not a system that would work for me, because it does nothing to solve the problem of the innate goodness or evilness of actions themselves.
You may not believe there is any real goodness associated with some actions. I do. I can give you one example for now.
I don't believe that doing drugs for recreational purposes is ever good. I have an old friend who in his youth administered drugs to a friend, and this action resulted in the death of the other young man. THe act itself increased the inner feelings of the person acted upon, in more than one way I would say...plus it was desired and wished for, but there is no way I would call it 'good'. I hope you will not confuse the accidental death aspect and tell me that this was a morally bad action, when it does meet your criteria for Good.
Right. And Hitler felt it would be good behaviour to do what he did with what he knew and believed about life.
Therefore Hitler's actions and mass murders were Morally Good.
I really don't like your definition of Morally Good.
Why? You can only abhor Hitler's actions based on what you know and believe about life!
Why? The quote you just put up states that religion is not morality, only sometimes a part of it. God is not needed for morality, certainly not mine, and certainly not an objective system that everyone can use to determine whether or not they are doing good things.
I'll let that go because I am actually thinking about explaining further in a new thread, today if things go well. I propose that the concept of a Good person does not exist without religion.
I would say the only problem is that you call every evil action ever committed in the history of this world "Morally Good".
No.
Hitler killing Jews? Oh, he was doing what he thought was best... Morally Good.
Christian Crusades? Oh, they were doing what they thought was best... Morally Good.
A man raping an innocent child? Oh, he's just doing what he thinks is best... Morally Good.
I really, really don't respect that definition of Morally Good.
I can only tell you my opinions about which actions in themselves are good or bad. In your above examples, I don't know if any of these people were doing what they thought was best, but if they were, the action could still be bad, and the person could still be good. Stile, there are no things which are good except by our opinion. Morally Good is not an action, it's a state of mind.
With my definition, etiquette is morally good when an action of etiquette by a being positively increases the inner-feelings of the being acted upon. Otherwise, it'll generally be morally neutral, or "not a moral action". Unless, of course, your etiquette is to scalp visitors (or any other action which would decrease the inner-feelings of the being acted upon), then it would be morally bad.
Actually Standford did mention that etiquette is normally about trivial things which we don't generally consider moral. I think what they are gettng at is that sometimes parts of etiquette become incoporated into morality, or are left over from a moral code.

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anastasia
Member (Idle past 5979 days)
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From: Bucks County, PA
Joined: 11-05-2006


Message 190 of 304 (408003)
06-29-2007 7:25 PM
Reply to: Message 187 by Stile
06-29-2007 2:12 PM


Re: cause effect consequence of good v. bad
Stile writes:
This "external code" fully deals with all things that have ever affected your life.
You certainly may not agree with it (I don't), but that doesn't stop it from fully dealing with anything that's ever affected you.
If a code doesn't make sense and isn't useful, it's not really dealing with anything, is it? Read any of the 'Old Laws Still Valid' thread?
So, why is "actually helping other people" not Morally Good?
It's fine to help other people, believe in it, but the problem with your system is it does not consider whether what you are doing to help others is wrong or right in itself. I can help someone aquire porn, or drugs, or liquor... underage at that, or escape the law, or perform sadistic acts upon themselves, or any number of things. Your system doesn't help me to figure out if those things are good or bad.
You can believe "not doing drugs" is Morally Good.
You can believe "going to church" is Morally Good.
You can believe "collecting pretty stones" is Morally Good.
You can believe "sleeping on your back as opposed to your side" is Morally Good.
Your belief just doesn't mean anything, that's all.
Your belief that people are should have PIF doesn't mean anything either, it's just your belief.
Now, let us seperate a good person from a good action.
Hitler may or may not have been a good person, depending on whether he thought he was actually doing good. Most of us would say that someone who does so many things which most of us just 'know' are bad, can not possibly be a good person. Personally I believe Hitler was beyond the point of even knowing what he was doing.
When I say Morally Good, I am referring to anything which a person does because they feel it is right. I am not making a determination about whether the action WAS right, only about whether the person is justified in doing it.
To say an action is good in itself you must be an absolutist, you must believe that for some reason certain things were just meant to be. I was not initially looking to know what was good so much as what the basis was for the belief that some things ARE good.
The only real problem I am having with you is that on the one hand you claim that some actions, like going to church, are neutral, but at the same time you can't see that ALL actions are neutral until someone gives them meaning. You have only critiqued actions thus far according to YOUR system.

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