So difficult to keep up! (Re: Memeber of the religious right running morally amuck)

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Not everyone is like you, Phat, and anyone who is different has not necessarily been abused in the past. hell, it's not even likely.

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Actually, childhood sexual abuse is very common, especially among girls.

I think you'd be surprised, Phat, if you took a poll of EvC members at how many of both sexes have enjoyed anal sex.I was first introduced to it when I was twenty, back in the dark ages, by a German girlfriend who was a few years older, and who particularly liked it, along with many other interesting things.If two people are enjoying something, it's fine.Perhaps you should suggest an experiment to your other half.You never know, you could end up opening interesting new avenues this way, so as to speak.

So there I am at the News Cafe with a friend. This was about '98 or '99 time frame, back when I was a pagan.We're there enjoying a humus and pita appetizer, while drinking some exotic beer we've never tried before.I notice at the bar two very good looking girls. Ordinarily I'm very reserved and never do the typical pick up. But I'm feeling especially bold today. Besides, the blond is down right attractive.I mosey on up and strike up a conversation. They end up coming to sit with us at the bar. It was obvious the other girl had no interest in my friend. I, on the other hand, am getting along famously with the attractive blond.After some time, we all depart. Not before she and I exchange phone numbers and set up a date.It turns out that she is an avid runner and a fitness junky like me. So we have a very unorthodox date. We go for a run. I ran her in to the ground, so it wasn't very fulfilling as far as workouts go. But at the same time, she seems really cool, and there is no mistaking the sexual tension.So, we depart and decide to meet up later to go to South Beach. After we showered up I picked her up at her dorm room at the University of Miami. We head out to Miami Beach. She gets a little tipsy.After bar/club hopping (which is a scene that has always been out of character for me), she finally decides that she's had about just enough holding out on the sexual tension.I would offer to go to my place, but I had a roommate at the time. So we go back to her dorm. We start fooling around. Sooner than later, we're butt naked getting all kinds of silly.After some foreplay, its getting to that time. I get out a condom. She says that she doesn't want any straight intercourse-- rather, she only wants to have anal sex.Well, I'm not too big on this idea and ask her why. She gave me some half-assed excuse and I begrudgingly accepted, thinking she might change her mind.I don't need to get too graphic, but I went for the gold when she starts just getting nasty on me-- a total freak. The things coming out of this girls mouth were so disgusting that I started to become flaccid. I'm completely getting turned off by it.I began to lose all interest. She sensed it and we stopped. She then finagles her way back in to my good graces. So we proceed, and she is now on top of me.I'm hoping for some straight up, natural, vaginal intercourse. And its looking like its starting to go that way, when she starts placing her body in such a way that it was covering my mouth and nose. It was really difficult to breathe.So I adjust my head. Each time I move my head, she follows. At first I thought maybe she was just uncoordinated. Keeps happening. Then I think she's an idiot and doesn't know any better. Keeps happening.After connecting the dots, I'm now acutely aware that this chick is getting off on smothering me-- and not with affection! This girl is in to suffocation or something. Now I'm completely turned off and am contemplating how I'm going to get out of this tactfully-- especially since its now painfully obvious to me that this girl is not all there. Something terrible had to have happened to her or something, and she's taking her repressed aggressions out on me!At this point, she has wrapped her legs around my legs in such a way that she was trying to prevent me from rolling her over. And it keeps happening. I keep telling her that I can't breathe, and she acts ambivalent, pretending not to hear me. Yeah right..... By now I'm getting claustrophobic, not to mention down right angry. In my mind, I'm now plotting how I'm going to crack her right in the temple, because as you might imagine, I'm thinking that I've just opened up Pandora's Box for this freak and she's gonna kill me. (Trust me, is was that weird and that freaky).She keeps doing it and the intensity increases. Right before I crack her in the ribs, she gets up real fast and goes in to the bathroom. Well, given the disposition of this girl, my mind is racing with a thousand different scenarios-- namely, she's coming out with a straight razor slashing at me in a matter of seconds.I grab my clothes and haul butt out of that room completely naked in to the halfway of about 10 other ogling, perplexed college girls.I get in my car and leave that place and never return.That was my single anal sex experience. Every other girl has not seemed too interested in it, which is fine by me.Anyway, thought you'd all get a kick out of the Christian kid telling lurid sex stories. Eh, my wife gets a kick out of that story.The moral of the story is: Don't have anal sex because it makes people prone to smothering their victims to death.

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"It is better to shun the bait, than struggle in the snare." -Ravi Zacharias

Holy shmokes NJ!!!!"Dear readers, until now I thought all of those stories on EvC were made up, then my best friend's hot sister showed up...."Man, that sounds frightening. Please do not let an experience like that turn you off to anything, remember, any sex act can be frightening with the wrong person!

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"I have seen so far because I have stood on the bloated corpses of my competitors" - Dr Burgess Bowder

That happened to me when I called one of those 5 dollar a minute numbers! I have saved a fortune since then. You must admit that you where quite fortunate. Had you gotten some strait up vaginal intercourse while she smothered you... well you might be addicted to anal and have people call you a liberal. *shudder*Good story though Nem. Edited by Vacate, : No reason given.

That's why I always check out their brains first. (And through the whole story I thought it was going to turn out to be a guy.)

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Are rates of homosexual behaviour really similar cross-culturally? Do Sparta, Fuedal Japan and Rome really have similar levels of male-male sexual behaviour to post-war Britain? I find I very unlikely. Do you have data?

Sexual abuse != rape.

do you dispute this? cause that's cute.

Heh... It was.

Both of my halves are currently in agreement! I am firmly in control of the starship!

I don't care how attractive they are, if they show up in a wetsuit, a bunny suit, or a lawsuit, I'm leaving!

Now I understand what that quote means to you. You've brought new meaning to this topic's title.

Not necessarily. If someone had been involved in the case in the O.P., for example, manslaughter through negligence might come into the question. So next time you're tying Mrs Phat up into an exciting position, take care.

Forgive me, Mr. Jack.I neglected to note that I am speaking of modern times.And it's been years since I finished my Anthropology degree, but if you feel strongly enough, I will take the time to do the research.