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Stile
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Message 91 of 308 (450533)
01-22-2008 1:23 PM
Reply to: Message 87 by macaroniandcheese
01-22-2008 12:56 PM


My God is simple
brennakimi writes:
in at least some branches of islam (i'm slowly learning about it.), the "fall" was no fall at all, but a test provided by god to see if humanity was independent enough.
I like the moral of that kind of story.
btw, the majority of muslims believe that anyone who comes to god by whatever name or whatever means will be accepted as long as they live righteously.
I think I like this, but I'm not sure. What does "comes to God" mean? Is it possible to live righteously and not "come to God"? If so, I don't like what it implies. However, if "comes to God" and "live righteously" are synonyms, I then think it's very wise.
combining that with the christian concepts of grace, and you have a sexy, sexy god.
Add to it? I still want to take stuff away from it.
I think God would be most impressed if we lived righteously. That's it. If you want to live righteously and include the concept of Christian grace... awesome. If you want to live righteously and also "come to God" in an Islamic sense... fantastic. But both extras seem unnecessary to me. I can't think of a reason why a God would want us to do anything more than "live righteously". Isn't that a huge enough task (nigh impossible) on it's own? Isn't any time spent doing anything else taking away from time you could be focusing on living righteously? Doesn't it seem like that should be the priority?
...sorry if that sounds preachy. I'm more asking those questions in a curious sense then in a lecture-ish sense.

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Message 92 of 308 (450538)
01-22-2008 1:35 PM
Reply to: Message 91 by Stile
01-22-2008 1:23 PM


Re: My God is simple
I like the moral of that kind of story.
i really do too.
I think I like this, but I'm not sure. What does "comes to God" mean? Is it possible to live righteously and not "come to God"? If so, I don't like what it implies. However, if "comes to God" and "live righteously" are synonyms, I then think it's very wise.
i'm not sure. it's very hard to find rational religious books when you don't know who belongs to what whacko sect. i know who the crazies are in christianity. i'm reading a new book about american muslims. you should check it out. war on error. i really am enjoying it. it's brief and not very in-depth, but it's about people and showing that they're american, not about explaining their islamic faith.
the old testament talks about a lot of "righteous men". but when you read their stories, you find they were really terrible tyrants or philanderers or murderers or worse. they were considered righteous because they had faith in god regardless of their own failings. it's great to say "i'm going to live righteously". but it's not going to happen. you can try. you can fight injustice. you can give to charity. you can do all kinds of stuff. but, somewhere in there, you're gonna be mean to someone or fail to give when you should have, or scream at someone, or cheat on your wife, or something. it's going to happen.
i think the biggest point of at least these big 3 is that god wants to know you despite your failings. yes, he wants you to be good. but he also wants you to know that even when you can't, he still loves you. if you don't have issues with guilt and you can live righteously, then you have no problems. jesus said he didn't come to save the righteous. clearly, there must be some righteous people, or he wouldn't have said that. he really wasn't one to say useless things, whatever your ideas of his origins. but, for the rest of us, who fuck up and feel bad about it (this isn't a jab), there's comfort in the knowledge that i am forgiven. and, no, i don't think that forgiveness is exclusive. i'm apparently a terrible christian. i don't think my club has a membership card.
Edited by brennakimi, : No reason given.

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jar
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Message 93 of 308 (450541)
01-22-2008 1:43 PM
Reply to: Message 83 by Phat
01-22-2008 12:04 PM


Re: All God Needs To Do...
God.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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ICANT
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Message 94 of 308 (450543)
01-22-2008 1:58 PM
Reply to: Message 88 by Stile
01-22-2008 12:57 PM


Re: Does honour matter?
Hi Stile,
Stile writes:
Which basically means you do things because you're commanded. Unless I'm interpreting you wrong?
You are reading me wrong.
I have an automobile that will do 130+ miles per hour.
Our Government has made some dishonorale rules the speed limit is 70 mph on the interstate. They have proposed penalties if I exceed that speed limit. The officers can use their discresion and allow me to go faster if they so desire without giving me a ticket.
Now what keeps me from exceeding the posted speed limit?
It is not that my automobile won't exceed the speed limit.
It is not the penalties if I don't mind paying the fine, besides they got to catch me first.
That leaves me only one thing to keep me from exceeding the speed limit. I choose not to exceed the speed limit.
I would like to be able to explain to you and everyone else why I do things. But is is like trying to tell you about my favorite place in the world. I can describe it to you paint a beautiful pricture. Even show you one's I have taken with a camera but until you have been there you don't really have a clue as to what I am talking about.
So I am going to give it a go and see what I can do but no promises.
I met my wife when she was 14 and I was 15. I was in the reck room at school drinking a coke and she came up as said is this seat taken.
I said no would you like a coke. I got her one she told me she was tryig to make her boyfriend mad because he was mad at her for cuting 8" of her hair off. Little did she know she had my lifetime devotion at that time.
At this time I am already saved and under these less than honorable commands that you talk about. Many of which apply to my wife and how I am supposed to treat her.
I am commanded to love my wife. Does that make it less than honorable if I do.
I am commanded to love my children. Does that make it less than honorable if I do.
I am commanded to honor my wife. Does that make it less than honorable if I do.
I am commanded to honor my father and mother. Does that make it less than honorable if I do.
I married that young girl I met 3 years later, We have been married 50 years and 7 months now. I love my wife more than I have ever before does that make it any less honorable that I was commanded to do it?
At anytime during this time I could have chose to walk out the door but I didn't. Was it because I was commanded not to. Or because I chose not to.
Now I will tell you a little about me I was born and raised as an only child by my grandparents and my dad with 2 uncles in the house.
Needless to say I could get my way they were outnumbered. I could always get what I wanted from one of them. This made me a spoiled roten child. I can assure I have never done anything that I did not choose to do no matter what the consquences might be.
Now back to Jesus yes He commanded me to Love my neighbor as myself then He set the example by dying in my place.
He commands me to love God above all else. Then sets the example by submitting to His fathers will to purchase my freedom from the penalty of the first mans disobedience. Jesus did not have to do that but he did.
What makes it less that honorable if I choose to do these things because Jesus gave a command to do them?
Have fun,
Edited by ICANT, : No reason given.

"John 5:39 (KJS) Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me."

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jar
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Message 95 of 308 (450544)
01-22-2008 2:03 PM
Reply to: Message 90 by ICANT
01-22-2008 1:20 PM


Why do you make god stupid and evil?
nator if you were traveling down a mountain road at a pretty good clip you were late for an appointment so you were hurrying. There is a bridge across the gorge that you must travel over to get to your destination. One problem the bridge is out it is 2000 feet to the bottom of the gorge. I stop you a mile before you get to where the bridge is supposed to be. I say nator the bridge is out you must go another way. You say I don't believe you that is just a myth. You step on the gas pedal and speed away toward the gorge.
You are mad because I made you later by delaying you. You go even faster you come around the corner you see the bridge is out you apply the brakes but you can't stop you fly off into eternity.
Now I got a question: Whose fault is it that you plunged to your death?
Is it God because He built the gorge by putting the mountains there?
Your parents because you were born? Or little ole me that warned you not to go that way.
Actually, in your scenario it is absolutely YOUR God's fault for destroying the bridge.
You keep making the God you created more and more evil.
God did make a way you could escape. You must be born again. That is how you get into God's family. It cost Him a price that you will only know if you reach the lake of fire. As the old saying goes the ball is in your court.
Now you make the God you are marketing stupid as well as evil.
Looks like you also expect the buyers to be as stupid as your God, trying to sell them the idea that Born Again is some one time thing.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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ICANT
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Message 96 of 308 (450547)
01-22-2008 2:11 PM
Reply to: Message 95 by jar
01-22-2008 2:03 PM


Re: Why do you make god stupid and evil?
Hi jar
jar writes:
Looks like you also expect the buyers to be as stupid as your God, trying to sell them the idea that Born Again is some one time thing.
How many times you been born physically?
You can be born no more times spiritually than you can physically.
jar writes:
Actually, in your scenario it is absolutely YOUR God's fault for destroying the bridge.
Maybe you right jar and everything is God's fault.
If you got to have somebody to blame as you are not man enough to be responsible for your own actions. Or am I reading you wrong?
Have fun,
Edited by ICANT, : No reason given.

"John 5:39 (KJS) Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me."

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Message 97 of 308 (450549)
01-22-2008 2:33 PM
Reply to: Message 86 by Stile
01-22-2008 12:47 PM


Re: A Side Comment
Hi Stile,
Better today than yesterday thanks, had a stomach bug.
Stile writes:
Yes, honour requires honesty. And in this sense the lake of fire doesn't make sense. In fact, judging anyone on their belief in Him doesn't even make sense. The only judgement that does make sense is on whether or not we're trying to be good people.[
Try to understand I at no time have tried to portray that you are judged and go to the lake of fire for not believing in God. I have said that you are going to the lake of fire because the first man disobeyed God and sold you into slavery to the devil. Fair, no but a fact none the less. God did provide a way for you to escape your impending doom. jar says it is God's fault, I say it is the first man's fault. But regardless of whose fault it is if you are not born again you will spend eternity in the lake of fire. Is that fair? I think so when I consider the price Jesus paid to secure my pardon. Especially if I refuse it.
Have fun,
I will try to refrain from using ask in the future as I don't like it either. Too many just say say a prayer after me that means you are asking but you can do this and still not accept God's offer.

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Message 98 of 308 (450551)
01-22-2008 2:38 PM
Reply to: Message 79 by ringo
01-21-2008 11:23 PM


Re-Firebug
Hi Ringo,
Ringo writes:
It's dishonorable to make excuses for the firebug.
Have it your way.
Just don't expect my boss to pay your claim when you are not willing to pay the premium.
Have fun,

"John 5:39 (KJS) Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me."

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ICANT
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Message 99 of 308 (450553)
01-22-2008 2:41 PM
Reply to: Message 83 by Phat
01-22-2008 12:04 PM


Re: All God Needs To Do...
Hi Phat,
Phat writes:
So what happens to the Goats? Who damns them?
Do you have any idea who the goats that are refered to in Matt. chapter 25?
Have fun,

"John 5:39 (KJS) Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me."

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Message 100 of 308 (450554)
01-22-2008 2:42 PM
Reply to: Message 97 by ICANT
01-22-2008 2:33 PM


Re: A Side Comment
jar says it is God's fault, I say it is the first man's fault.
If God is omniscient and did nothing to stop this, then he bears responsibility. It's like allowing a child to put his hand on a hot stove - if you could have prevented it but allow it anyway, its your fault, not the child's.
I think so when I consider the price Jesus paid to secure my pardon.
The "price" he paid was trivialized by rising from the dead. Since he knew that he was going to come back to life three days later, and then ascend to live in Heaven and be worshiped for thousands of years, his death was not a sacrifice, it was an inconvenience.
In any case, any Christian argument that involves the threat of the lake of fire (or the reward of heaven) is inherently dishonorable, as it appeals to a person's fear of eternal punishment as opposed to any rational thought.

When you know you're going to wake up in three days, dying is not a sacrifice. It's a painful inconvenience.

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jar
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Message 101 of 308 (450555)
01-22-2008 2:44 PM
Reply to: Message 96 by ICANT
01-22-2008 2:11 PM


Re: Why do you make god stupid and evil?
You can be born no more times spiritually than you can physically.
jar writes:
Bullshit. That is simply the old canard. Being Born Again is something you try to do each moment of the day. There is no Silver Bullet, no Magic Get Outta Hell Free Card.
Maybe you right jar and everything is God's fault.
Actually it is your God's fault, but then you created Her.
If you got to have somebody to blame as you are not man enough to be responsible for your own actions. Or am I reading you wrong?
You have not been reading at all it seems.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Message 102 of 308 (450556)
01-22-2008 2:45 PM
Reply to: Message 99 by ICANT
01-22-2008 2:41 PM


Re: All God Needs To Do...
Do you have any idea who the goats that are refered to in Matt. chapter 25?
Yes, followers of Jesus.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Message 103 of 308 (450559)
01-22-2008 2:55 PM
Reply to: Message 89 by Stile
01-22-2008 1:12 PM


Re: Can't ask for honour
Hi Stile,
I saw this and wanted to comment.
Stile writes:
The only way a gift is given freely (and in an honourable way) is if it didn't have to be asked for.
That is why I like to use full pardon. In this life if you want a pardon you have to apply for it. There is a review process. Then it may be granted. But this is a free gift because you are not paying for it unless you hire a lawyer to interceed for you.
If you ask God for a pardon you don't have to hire a lawyer one is supplied in the form of Jesus Christ. There is a review process but since the judge and the lawyer both know the answers the decision has already been made. Now the review would be if you mean business and have really put your trust in Christ for salvation.
You can not buy this pardon. You can not earn this pardon. You can only accept it or reject it. Your decision
Is the process fair? I am presuaded to believe if you ever accept the pardon that shortly thereafter you will agree that it is fair and just.
Have fun,

"John 5:39 (KJS) Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me."

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Message 104 of 308 (450560)
01-22-2008 2:59 PM
Reply to: Message 102 by jar
01-22-2008 2:45 PM


Re: All God Needs To Do...
Hi jar,
jar writes:
Yes, followers of Jesus.
Since you believe the Bible is a bunch of stories by a bunch of ignorant people and most of it is myth anyway how do you know this is not just another embellished story to scare people into doing good cause if they don't they go with the goats into the lake of fire?
Have fun now,

"John 5:39 (KJS) Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me."

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Stile
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Message 105 of 308 (450562)
01-22-2008 3:15 PM
Reply to: Message 94 by ICANT
01-22-2008 1:58 PM


Honour is about why, not what
ICANT writes:
I am commanded to love my wife. Does that make it less than honorable if I do.
What you do doesn't have anything to do with honour. Honour is only concerned with why you do things. Loving your wife is a good thing. If you love your wife because you are commanded to, it is a good thing, but it is not honourable. If you love your wife and you are not looking for anything in return, it is a good thing, and it is also honourable.
What makes it less that honorable if I choose to do these things because Jesus gave a command to do them?
If you do those things simply because you are commanded by Jesus, then there is no honour.
If you do those things looking for nothing in return, and they simply happen to coincide with some commandments Jesus also made, then it is honourable.
From what you told me in Message 63:
ICANT in Message 63 writes:
But to tell you the truth I do not think of doing those things because they might be good or honorable.
Jesus gave me 2 commandments that I am supposed to try to govern my life by after I accepted God's invitation to come live in His Estate.
...it seems like you are following these commandments because you want to remain in His Estate.
If so, this is not honourable. It may certainly well be a good thing. But there is no honour in it. It is a trade or deal. Of course, I may be misinterpreting your statement from Msg 63. Did you mean to say something else?
Try not to confuse "good" with "honour". Honour deals with why we do good things. Not just that those things are good.
ICANT in message 103 writes:
That is why I like to use full pardon. In this life if you want a pardon you have to apply for it. There is a review process. Then it may be granted. But this is a free gift because you are not paying for it unless you hire a lawyer to interceed for you.
My problem isn't with there being any price. It's in the asking... here it's in the application. Even submitting the application is dishonourable. If God deems me worthy of being pardoned, then I will be. Applying for such a great gift cheapens it, demeans it to the point of becoming the fulfillment of a request rather than a gift.
You can not buy this pardon. You can not earn this pardon. You can only accept it or reject it. Your decision
I do not want to buy it, I know I can't afford it.
I do not want to earn it, I know I'm not worthy of it.
I would certainly accept it if it was granted to me.
But I cannot apply for it, the application shows dishonour to God, it turns me into a nagging inconvenience, and it's demeaning to the power of the gift.
Is the process fair? I am presuaded to believe if you ever accept the pardon that shortly thereafter you will agree that it is fair and just.
I don't need to be pursuaded into believing. I can see right now that the process is fair (you ask for something, and you get it in return). It's also good (no one is hurt and everyone's better off after the situation). But it's not honourable.

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