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RAZD
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Message 22 of 40 (464625)
04-27-2008 5:17 PM
Reply to: Message 5 by ICANT
04-24-2008 4:09 PM


side note
Personally I think they twist the Bible to say what they want it to say or either change it to say what they want it to say.
How do we know that this is not what all believers do? How do we know that she is not right and you are the one that does the twisting? This could form a basis for an interesting thread.
seekingthetruth in Message 4: All you can do is love her and encourage her to find the truth.
Phat in Message 3: I would support her desire to understand Jehovah, but I would encourage her to be unafraid to question whatever it is she is being taught. ... Only through questioning will anyone ever grow.
killinghurts in Message 1: ... I would blame myself for not being able to enlighten her in the purity of lateral, logical and sane thinking.
It all comes down to how you find truth, how you test it for being true.
Enjoy.
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RAZD
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Message 24 of 40 (464632)
04-27-2008 6:01 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by killinghurts
04-23-2008 11:43 PM


Secondly I love my wife and if something happens where she requires a blood transfusion,...
If this is the only concern you have, then you need to discuss it with her. There are options - one of which is self-transfusions, where blood is taken out and then put back when needed (this is a good thing to do when you know you will need an operation if you have any concerns about tainted blood).
I recently went through an extreme version of this. See Cancer Survivors. I had an "autogenic transplant" (see message 24), where they took blood out of my arm for most of a day and then separated out "precursor cells" (bone marrow stem cells that had not differentiated into white blood cells yet), then they used heavy chemo treatment over four days (96 hours non-stop) to kill (hopefully) all my then existing white blood cells, whether good or bad (cancerous), and then gave me a transfusion of those same precursor cells they had taken from me to build a new white blood system.
They put them back in the same vein they took them out of. Try the logic of that on your wife.
Enjoy.

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RAZD
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Message 25 of 40 (464633)
04-27-2008 6:07 PM
Reply to: Message 23 by Percy
04-27-2008 5:27 PM


... I do recommend that you not follow your wife's wishes if you should ever find yourself in the unfortunate position of making medical decisions for her.
... Now things get sticky.
hoo boy. Do you want your wife to follow your wishes or to decide according to her judgment?
Sticky indeed. One should put such wishes in a document that is witnessed and signed if you have any question of choices being made.

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