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Hyroglyphx
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Message 51 of 63 (475695)
07-17-2008 2:08 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by subbie
07-12-2008 7:44 PM


It's about whether displays of affection between homosexuals make you uncomfortable at all.
I think any exorbitant amount of public affection tends to make people a little uncomfortable.

“I know where I am and who I am. I'm on the brink of disillusionment, on the eve of bitter sweet. I'm perpetually one step away from either collapse or rebirth. I am exactly where I need to be. Either way I go towards rebirth, for a total collapse often brings a rebirth." -Andrew Jaramillo

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 55 of 63 (476177)
07-21-2008 5:53 PM
Reply to: Message 15 by Son Goku
07-13-2008 8:42 AM


Re: Affection, Passion, and Lust.
Not to go to off-topic, but is it actually unusual for people to kiss in public in America? Surely people kissing in parks or on the street is totally standard.
Sure, couples will kiss in public, but the difference we are talking about is having two people with their tongues down each others throat. I mean, I've never been where you live, but I would be surprised if it was not considered slightly taboo to be sucking face two feet away from the next passenger on the train.
It's just... rude... or if not rude, tacky.
Well, I've just spent thirty minutes trying to find footage of a hidden camera show that shows how everyone surrounding the couple feels awkward, but I'm having no luck. If any one else could track something down, that'd be cool.

“I know where I am and who I am. I'm on the brink of disillusionment, on the eve of bitter sweet. I'm perpetually one step away from either collapse or rebirth. I am exactly where I need to be. Either way I go towards rebirth, for a total collapse often brings a rebirth." -Andrew Jaramillo

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 58 of 63 (476301)
07-22-2008 5:30 PM
Reply to: Message 57 by Son Goku
07-22-2008 5:17 PM


Re: Affection, Passion, and Lust.
Well sucking faces on a train would not be accepted, but that's a bit of an extreme example. What I should say is that where I live "french kissing" for a medium period of time on the street is accepted.
Well, yes, I suppose it is as well in the states. I suppose it really depends upon where you are at. If a couple is in a park and they are fawning and doting on one another, or french kissing, no one takes much notice. But if you were in an elevator and just start making out, I think it would tend to either annoy or embarrass some of the passengers.
This reminds me of how there isn't any topless sunbathing in the United States. It's another thing that doesn't cause a bat of an eyelid in a lot of European countries but is considered vulgar (illegal?) in the U.S.
Well, I'm from Miami Beach originally, and it is not taboo there. Not one bats an eyelash there either. There are also specific nude beaches in the San Diego area as well, but it isn't like Miami where it is common. However, comparatively to most everywhere else in the States, yes, it is not only uncommon, but illegal in most cases.
Well, come to think of it, there is of course the Spring Break locations (South Padre island, TX - Daytona Beach, FL - Lake Havasu, AZ - etcetera) where local law enforcement will turn a blind eye to the sheer carnality, if only for a week or so.
I guess in the final analysis, public displays of affection are either tolerated or looked down upon depending on the location and the level of passion being exhibited.
Edited by Nemesis Juggernaut, : edit to add

“I know where I am and who I am. I'm on the brink of disillusionment, on the eve of bitter sweet. I'm perpetually one step away from either collapse or rebirth. I am exactly where I need to be. Either way I go towards rebirth, for a total collapse often brings a rebirth." -Andrew Jaramillo

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 60 of 63 (476403)
07-23-2008 1:59 PM
Reply to: Message 59 by Son Goku
07-23-2008 4:01 AM


Re: Affection, Passion, and Lust.
how similar Miami beach is to the European situation? Are the topless women mothers and grandmothers with the children, like in Europe, or only young women in their 20s and 30s? That would give me an indication of how accepted it actually is.
That would depend on their self-image. I would say that, in general, only fit and attractive women would dare go traipsing around in nothing.

“I know where I am and who I am. I'm on the brink of disillusionment, on the eve of bitter sweet. I'm perpetually one step away from either collapse or rebirth. I am exactly where I need to be. Either way I go towards rebirth, for a total collapse often brings a rebirth." -Andrew Jaramillo

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