You will note that in
Message 3 I set the rule that
both of you are required to invite an additional poster.
This is to clarify that, no one else is to post unless both you and RAZD accept her/him.
It is not clear that it furthers the discussion to exchange any personal information. It is the ideas, concepts, facts and reasoning that one brings that counts.
It is up to RAZD how much he wants to say.