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DevilsAdvocate
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Message 302 of 384 (516033)
07-22-2009 6:39 PM
Reply to: Message 299 by Peg
07-22-2009 7:05 AM


Re: Double standards?
Peg writes:
selling children as sex slaves - No. Thats your own interpretation which is incorrect.
Deutoronomy 19:29 "Do not profane your daughter by making her a prostitute, in order that the land may not commit prostitution and the land actually be filled with loose morals"
That's actually Leviticus 19:20 not Deuteronomy, but anyways what the hell does this have to do with slavery?
Prostitutes were usually not slaves in antiquity. They were usually considered a lower rung of society than the average citizen but higher than slaves. Case in point Rahab was a prostitute but had a house and grain on her roof (pretty good standard of living compared to slaves). Many prostitutes of this time were women who came from lowly origins i.e. ex-slaves, foreigners, divorcees, widows and others who were shunned by there society and took to prostitution to provide a means of living.
What we do know from the passages I have listed so far is that the Hebrew god (or whoever spoke for him), condoned the practice of slavery and even selling their own daughters as chattel slaves for sex/proceation and providing domestic services i.e. taking care of the children, cooking, drawing water, entertaining guests, etc.
Exodus 21:7-11 NLT writes:
If a man sells his daughter as a slave, she is not to go free as menservants do. If she does not please the master who has selected her for himself, he must let her be redeemed. He has no right to sell her to foreigners, because he has broken faith with her, etc.
So therefore did not God allow that a man could sell his daughter as a slave to another man in Exodus 21? And could that man do whatever he wish with that girl i.e. force sex (rape)? Have sex, etc? And did she have the right to leave her master? IS THAT NOT SEX SLAVERY? YES OR NO?
Peg writes:
You called the cannanite children innocent in Msg 209 and perhaps they were
Um, so infants and young children are not innocent? They should pay for the 'crimes' of their parents? So I guess if you mollest your next door neighbors child we should murder your child as an equitable reparation? Correct?
Peg writes:
This doesnt mean that God wanted the innocent children to die,
Are you fucking stupid? HE ORDERED THE KILLING OF INNOCENT CHILDREN!?! Do you care whether he enjoyed it or not? Do you care whether someone who murders your child in cold blood enjoys it or not? REALLY!?! Does it really matter?
Exodus 12:29-30 writes:
And at midnight the LORD killed all the firstborn sons in the land of Egypt, from the firstborn son of Pharaoh, who sat on the throne, to the firstborn son of the captive in the dungeon. Even the firstborn of their livestock were killed. Pharaoh and his officials and all the people of Egypt woke up during the night, and loud wailing was heard throughout the land of Egypt. There was not a single house where someone had not died.
Jeremiah 51 writes:
You are my battle-ax and sword," says the LORD. "With you I will shatter nations and destroy many kingdoms. With you I will shatter armies, destroying the horse and rider, the chariot and charioteer. With you I will shatter men and women, old people and children, young men and maidens. With you I will shatter shepherds and flocks, farmers and oxen, captains and rulers.
Ezekiel 9:6-7 writes:
Then the Lord called to the man clothed in linen who had the writing kit at his side and said to him, Go throughout the city of Jerusalem and put a mark on the foreheads of those who grieve and lament over all the detestable things that are done in it.
As I listened, he said to the others, Follow him through the city and kill, without showing pity or compassion. Slaughter old men, young men and maidens, women and children, but do not touch anyone who has the mark. Begin at my sanctuary. So they began with the elders who were in front of the temple.
Then he said to them, Defile the temple and fill the courts with the slain. Go! So they went out and began killing throughout the city.
Peg writes:
You keep calling it rape but how can it be when the women became a wife and was given the same legal status as free isrealite women
The women has no choice in the matter. Either to marry or have sex with the very men who brutally killed her family!
Peg writes:
Perhaps you are not taking into consideration the status of women in general in ancient times. Women were given away in marriage all the time.
Does that make it right? We are talking about the legitimacy of a system of morality. If it is wrong now it is wrong 2000 years ago and vice versa. Your attempt to rationalize away this is ludicrous.
Peg writes:
Deut 21: writes:
and if you have seen among the captives a woman beautiful in form, and you have got attached to her and taken her for your wife, 1you must then bring her into the midst of your house....and dwell in your house and weep for her father and her mother a whole lunar month; and after that you should have relations with her...and she must become your wife. And it must occur that if you have found no delight in her, you must then send her away, agreeably to her own soul; but you must by no means sell her for money. You must not deal tyrannically with her after you have humiliated her.
In the case of the following scripture the woman was permitted time to grieve for her family before the man was permitted to marry her and have sexual relations with her. If she agreed to leave him because they really didnt like each other, then he had to permit her to leave freely.
Bullshit. She had no choice, it was up to the man not the slave woman. He had the right to send her away if she wasn't a good sex slave, that was it. You are implying things that are not in this passage. Try again.
Peg writes:
the humiliting spoken of her is with regard to sexual relations because Gods view was that if a man took a womans virginity, he had to honor it, (hence why rapists had to marry their victim) but if, like in this case, the two did not like each other ( i say two because she had a say in what happened to her also as is seen by the words "agreeably to her own soul") then the man had to do the right thing by her because he had taken her virginity. This has nothing to do with rape at all.
How can you say these two statements in nearly the same sentance:
Peg writes:
hence why rapists had to marry their victim....This has nothing to do with rape at all.
WTF?!? This is beyond cognitive dissonance, it is outright dillusional schizophrenia.
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Message 304 of 384 (516040)
07-22-2009 9:13 PM
Reply to: Message 303 by Phat
07-22-2009 6:55 PM


Re: Double standards?
Phat writes:
The point of my contrived story, written by our scribe teleported back in time, was that each culture had a view of God and wrote as if God was directly influencing them. In actuality, however...each culture is responsible for the killings, beheadings, rapes, and bombings that they do. We can no more blame God in the story than we can blame Santa Claus (who is not in this particular story )
I actually totally agree with this. This actually proves my point in that the problem I have is not with the theoretical Hebrew god of the OT (mainly because I don't believe he exists) but rather with the religious fanatics of today who try to rationalize and justify the attrocities that occur in said diety's name. Our current codes of morality that many of us on this board agree upon though still not perfect or universal are infinitely more humane and equitable than the moral codes of antiquity including those of the Biblical Hebrews.
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Message 305 of 384 (516043)
07-22-2009 9:51 PM
Reply to: Message 300 by Peg
07-22-2009 7:20 AM


Re: Double standards?
Peg writes:
The fact is that slavery under Gods regulations is fair and merciful when applied.
Not any more fair and merciful than slavery practiced in ancient Babylonia, Greece and Rome as I illustrated earlier.
He can only give mankind his standards, he cant force us to apply them.
Bullshit, he forced many other behaviors in the Bible. For example he 'hardened' the hearts of several Biblical characters. So why didn't he just outlaw slavery all together as he did idolatry and other things he did not like? How hard would it have been to add "Thou shalt not keep other human beings as property" or the like to the Ten Commandments? Instead he says the following:
Leviticus 25: 44-45 writes:
However, you may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance.
Exodus 21:20-21 writes:
When a man strikes his male or female slave with a rod so hard that the slave dies under his hand, he shall be punished. If, however, the slave survives for a day or two, he is not to be punished, since the slave is his own property.
Ephesians 6:5 writes:
Slaves, obey your earthly masters with deep respect and fear. Serve them sincerely as you would serve Christ.

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Message 336 of 384 (516483)
07-25-2009 12:48 PM
Reply to: Message 307 by Peg
07-23-2009 5:28 AM


Re: Double standards?
Peg writes:
You are claiming those verses to be commands to rape girls.
The word "rape" is originally derived from the Latin word'rapio' meaning 'to abduct or seize by force' (and from also where we get the words 'raptor', rapture', 'rapacious' and 'rapine') and later 14th century Anglo-French word, to 'seize, carry off by force, abduct'. It was not applied in a sexual context until the late 15th century after most of the early English translations of the Bible had already been written and therefore it is not a word that you will find in the KJV which began its creation in 1604. However, many of today's modern English versions such as the NIV use it occasionally to describe the events that transpired in the passages I had given earlier.
Most literal translations try to equate a near 1 to 1, English word for Hebrew/Greek/Aramaic or Latin (in later translations) word when possible. However, a translator is not always going to replace a whole sentence describing the carrying away of virgin women prisoners to there camps to be 'betrothed' and have sexual relations with them (i.e. take away there virginity/rape) with just the single word 'rape'.
Besides it has only been within the past 100 years or so that modern society has placed an extremely negative connotation and made the topic of the sexual raping of women (that is having sex with them without there consent) a politically and socially sensitive subject with clear condemnation for the act. Not to say that this did not occur before in some parts of our diverse cultures before this, but it was not legislated against and was condoned (allowed) in many cultures.
Here is the definition of rape in Merriam-Webster's:
Merriam-Webster writes:
1 : an act or instance of robbing or despoiling or carrying away a person by force
2 : unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against the will usually of a female or with a person who is beneath a certain age or incapable of valid consent compare sexual assault, statutory rape
Therefore based on the etymology and current usage of the word 'rape' I described above, both definitions 1 and 2 apply in these passages:
Numbers 31 writes:
And Jehovah speaketh unto Moses, saying,
Moses is speaking on the behalf of the god of the Hebrews. Therefore this is a COMMANDMENT from GOD.
Numbers 31 cont. writes:
Execute the vengeance of the sons of Israel against the Midianites -- afterwards thou art gathered unto thy people.'... And they war against Midian, as Jehovah hath commanded Moses, and slay every male;
God commands ethnocide as a form of retribution and revenge.
Numbers 31 cont. writes:
And the sons of Israel take captive the women of Midian, and their infants; and all their cattle, and all their substance, and all their wealth they have plundered...
Israelites disobey the Hebrew god and take prisioners (including baby males).
Numbers 31 cont. writes:
And Moses saith unto them, `Have ye kept alive every female?
Moses gets angry.
Numbers 31 cont. writes:
`And now, slay ye every male among the infants, yea, every woman known of man by the lying of a male ye have slain;
God/Moses orders infanticide (killing innocent babies and children just because they are male)
Numbers 31 cont. writes:
and all the infants among the women, who have not known the lying of a male, ye have kept alive for yourselves...
They only keep the virgin women and girls (young and old).
Numbers 31 cont. writes:
and of human beings -- of the women who have not known the lying of a male -- all the persons [are] two and thirty thousand.
ditto. Why virgins? Use your imagination. What did the Israelite soldiers do once they brought these virgins back to their camps?
Do you still disagree that the definition of rape does not apply in these circumstances? Whether the culture of the time condoned such actions at the time is really irrelevant since God commanded such actions to occur. Or are you going to continue to convince yourself that he did not command these acts to occur?
It is also interesting to note that the Jewish law, the Mishnah (literally means ‘copy’ or ‘repetition’ and refers to the oral laws and practices complementing the Torah and part of the Talmud ‘Oral Torah’), states the following about the practice of marriage in the OT:
Rabbi Joseph bar Hiyyah c. 333 writes:
Come and take note: A girl three years and one day old is betrothed by intercourse. And if a Levir has had intercourse with her, he has acquired her. And one can be liable on her account because of the law prohibiting intercourse with a married woman. And she imparts uncleanness to him who has intercourse with her when she is menstruating, to convey uncleanness to the lower as to the upper layer [of what lies beneath]. If she was married to a priest, she may eat food in the status of priestly rations. If one of those who are unfit for marriage with her had intercourse with her, he has rendered her unfit to marry into the priesthood. If any of those who are forbidden in the Torah to have intercourse with her had intercourse with her, he is put to death on her account, but she is free of responsibility [M.Nid. 5:4]. [Sanhedrin 7/55B]
My point here is that the Mosaic Law is no more equitable or free than any of the other rules and regulations of antiquity. The Hebrew Talmud and Torah are no better or worse than the rest. All the forms of regulating human behavior at this time; Hebrew, Greek, Roman, Persian, Babylonian, Chinese, etc form the basis from which we have evolved our present day forms of moral standards. It is a form of revisionist history to say otherwise. Go read the Code of Hammurabi and other legal codes of that day and then tell me the Torah is so much better.
Peg writes:
I'm showing that the mosiac laws outlawed all such wrong conduct. Rape was against the mosiac law, so how is it you claim that it commands rape???
Where? You showed that the Mosaic law forbade prostitution (selling your body for money and sustenance) not rape and sex slavery. Those are not the same things. Where does the Mosaic law state that slaves (much less free women) have a choice in whether or not they can choose to have sex with there masters?
Rape was against the mosiac law, so how is it you claim that it commands rape???
Show me where it says this.
Rape and prostitution is not the same thing. Prostitution is consensual (though the two parties enter into it for different reasons), rape is not.
Peg writes:
Me writes:
So therefore did not God allow that a man could sell his daughter as a slave to another man in Exodus 21? And could that man do whatever he wish with that girl i.e. force sex (rape)? Have sex, etc? And did she have the right to leave her master? IS THAT NOT SEX SLAVERY? YES OR NO?
NO> you are not reading it correctly and you are not considering the culture of the people. It was perfectly normal to sell yourself or a family member into slavery in those days. Many did it as a way to pay debts and look after their families.
What does considering the culture have to do with it (BTW the amount of material I have provided in this debate debunks your outlandish claim that I do not consider the cultural framework of Hebrew society at that period of time)? It is either right or wrong in context of today’s moral standards. The problem I have is not the historicity of the account but your condoning and justifying of these practices on the part of your god.
Peg writes:
In the case of a girl being sold, the buyer could not do anything to her...Isrealites were bound by the mosiac law which forbid immoral sex.
BS, where does it say in the Bible that slave masters could not have sex with their slaves?
So to read this verse and say that the man could 'do what ever he wanted including rape' is completely inaccurate.
Rape in this situation would be inevitable as the women had no choice in the matter, unless you disagree with the modern definition of the word ‘rape’.
Peg writes:
If the man liked the girl, he could make her his wife.
Do you really think that these young girls (girls in this time period and even now in some parts of the world could be married at very young ages sometimes as young as 11 and 12 once they would start menstruating) were sold off for non-sexual reasons? Are you this nave?
Also explain the following passage and tell me how this does not constitute God condoning rape? God even commands that the rapist marry the victim. Disgusting. There are no words to describe this. And if you justify it you are complicit in allowing rape to occur:
Deuteronomy 22:28-29 writes:
If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never be allowed to divorce her.
Peg writes:
. That is not rape, it does not constitute rape and it was perfectly acceptable in such societies.
Who cares whether it was acceptable back then. The problem isn’t about them doing it back then (it’s in the past and we can’t do anything to change past events), it is about YOU justifying the practice and saying it is acceptable. Evidently it is acceptable by you (and your god) to sell your children into slavery for sexual and non-sexual reasons along with having rape victims marry there rapists, infanticide, ethnocide and other atrocities commanded and condoned by god. It is YOU (and people with similar mindsets) that I have a problem with, not the non-existent Hebrew deity of the OT.
Peg writes:
Women accepted it and even welcomed it.
They accepted it because they had no choice! They grew up in that culture and had no idea what the alternative was. Does that make it right? Does it make it right for parents to physically abuse there children because they ‘don’t know any better’?
Logic and rationality are lost on you Peg.
I have visited over 20 countries (including several countries of the Middle East), traveled to Central America to work with Christian medical missionaries in the rural remote Merendone mountain region near San Pedro Sula in Honduras and handing out medical supplies and other basic sustenance of living to the inprovished near Mazatln, Mexico, as well as minoring in history and humanities (completed college-level Greek/Roman Humanities, Old Testament Bible, Cultural Anthropology, Sociology, Psychology and World Religion courses). Don’t lecture me on what other cultures do and do not believe. I have been there and seen it first hand.
Peg writes:
Its still done today in middle eastern cultures. Indian & Chinese cultures still arrange marriages for their daughters. It doesnt constitute rape.
And that makes it right? Most modern societies have agreed upon universal rights for all human beings. Look up the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (drafted and adopted by 48 countries, 8 countries of the Soviet Blok abstained from voting, of the United Nations in 1948) along with the freedoms and rights outlined in the Unites States Declaration of Independence, Constitution and Bill of Right.
Peg writes:
so you ignored the part that read...
"and if she agrees" and "you must not deal tyrannically with her" and "you must allow her to leave freely" and "you must not sell her to a stranger"
I guess you are using the New World Translation of the JW and where does the Bible say and if she agrees when referring to slave women, please give exact references?
Here is the litteral Hebrew-English translation of Deuteronomy 21:13-14:
Litteral Hebrew to English translation writes:
andyou-see inthecaptive woman-of lovely-of shape andyou-are-attached inher andyou-take toyou towoman andyou-cbringher to midst-of household-ofyou andshe-mshave head-ofher andshe-does nails-ofher andshe-ctakes-off garment-of captivity-ofher fromonher andshe-dwells inhouse-ofyou andshe-laments father-ofher and mother-ofher month-of days andafter so you-shall-come toher andyou-possessher andshe-becomes toyou towoman andhe-becomes if not you-delight inher andyou-mdismissher tosoul-ofher andto-sell not you-shall-sellher inthesilver not you-shall-smake-a-chattel inher inasmuch-as which you-mhumiliatedher
Deuteronomy 21:13-14 writes:
And seest among the captives a beautiful woman, and hast a desire unto her, that thou wouldest have her to thy wife; Then thou shalt bring her home to thine house; and she shall shave her head, and pare her nails; And she shall put the raiment of her captivity from off her, and shall remain in thine house, and bewail her father and her mother a full month: and after that thou shalt go in unto her, and be her husband, and she shall be thy wife.And it shall be, if thou have no delight in her, then thou shalt let her go whither she will; but thou shalt not sell her at all for money, thou shalt not make merchandise of her, because thou hast humbled her.
Again where does it say the woman has any choice in the matter? From the passages I have read it is all up to the man not the woman as was part of the middle eastern custom (and still is in many parts of the ME and other places in the world where sexual equality has yet to become a reality).
Peg writes:
so now you are the judge of all ancient cultures, and modern cultures, who believe arranged marriages are a good thing.
these types of marriages seemed to have worked quite well for billions of people for a very long time.
No, I am an advocate of equal rights for all human beings and therefore disagree with the concept of arranged marriages as being equitable to either party.
So you are ok with arranged marriages where the girls/woman (and sometimes the young boys) had no say in who they married? Do you not believe in universal human rights?
Peg writes:
sorry, my mistake, i was thinking of a mosaic law that demanded a man who took a girls virginity must marry her, however ,this law was not with regard to rape.
But the one I described specifically states this situation as rape:
Deuteronomy 22:28-29 writes:
a man find a damsel [that is] a virgin, which is
not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; Then the man that lay
with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty [shekels] of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he
may not put her away all his days.
Peg writes:
Deuteronomy 22:25 "If, however, it is in the field that the man found the girl who was engaged, and the man grabbed hold of her and lay down with her, the man who lay down with her must also die by himself, 26 and to the girl you must do nothing. The girl has no sin deserving of death, because just as when a man rises up against his fellowman and indeed murders him, even a soul, so it is with this case
This has more to do with Gods wrath at the man perpetuating an act against a women who was engaged to marry than it had to do with his anger at the sexual act itself. In other words, it was the breaking of the marriage bond itself which was being condemned. Read the verse in context with the one previous in which if the woman does not scream out when being raped in the city she is to be punished to death as well.
Peg writes:
Do you know what the hebrew word for 'rape' is and have you checked to see if that word is used in the passages about the soldiers taking the virgins to their home???
There is no one-for-one translation of the English word ‘rape’ to a notional Hebrew word meaning ‘rape’ (hence why you will not find the word ‘rape’ in the KJV of the Bible) as the act of rape was not condemned but rather condoned depending on the circumstance (with the exception of the situation described above about breaking the promise of engagement). Read my earlier etymological discussion of the word and it should make sense.
The closest word for this act is the Hebrew word: ushkb (litteral) or Shakab (phonetically) meaning ‘to lie (of sexual relations)’, ‘copulation’, etc. There are no negative connotations with this word though, as there are with the English word ‘rape’.
However, we can infer what was allowed through the spirit of the Mosaic law and the acceptable customs of that period.
Women at that time (and in some parts of the world still to this day) were considered not much more than chattel (property) and at most second-class citizens. That is why the majority of these laws of antiquity are written to free males (and most often to property holding males). This why these laws rarely took into account the feelings and desires of those of the female sex and men were held to a higher standard than women.
However, this does not excuse this culture (or any culture) from what is accepted by modern society as equitable and fair treatment. We cannot change the past but we can change the future as long we recognize the wrongs that have been previously committed and correct our present and future behavior.
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Message 338 of 384 (516614)
07-26-2009 12:42 PM
Reply to: Message 337 by Peg
07-26-2009 8:21 AM


Re: Double standards?
Peg writes:
Me writes:
The word "rape" is originally derived from the Latin word'rapio' meaning 'to abduct or seize by force' (and from also where we get the words 'raptor', rapture', 'rapacious' and 'rapine') and later 14th century Anglo-French word, to 'seize, carry off by force, abduct'. It was not applied in a sexual context until the late 15th century after most of the early English translations of the Bible had already been written
So, rape originally meant to carry off by force, and to abduct.
Yes, but I am using the modern definition of the word rape (that is for one to force sexual intercourse on an unwilling participant) to illustrate my point.
Rape writes:
The hebrew scriptures were written much earlier then the latin translations, so back then the meaning of 'rape' was not as it later became known.
There was no Hebrew word for our modern definition of rape.
Peg writes:
Me writes:
Most literal translations try to equate a near 1 to 1, English word for Hebrew/Greek/Aramaic or Latin (in later translations) word when possible. However, a translator is not always going to replace a whole sentence describing the carrying away of virgin women prisoners to there camps to be 'betrothed' and have sexual relations with them (i.e. take away there virginity/rape) with just the single word 'rape'.
then those translators are not painting an accurate picture are they because you've already shown that 'abducting' and 'carry off by force' (not sexual activities) is rape.
Huh, in the historical context of the word 'rape' they are correct and in the modern definition of the word 'rape' it can be implied based on the context of the passage. That is these virgin women and girls were forcibly 'married' and required to perform there sexual 'duties'. Rape, that is forced sexual intercourse' was inevitable.
Peg writes:
It would be more accurate to describe the custom of making a captive woman a wife, rather then simply that captive women are to be raped.
What is the difference? Either way they had no choice, either to become wives or to be forced to have sex with there oppressors.
Yes, they were carried off, but no, they were not sexually raped.
I have no clue how you can not equate these two. Having personally experienced the results of rape (no not me but someone close to me) and being a Sexual Assault Victim Advocate I find your justification of these acts appalling. It is beyond naive.
Again I wish you would answer my question of what would you do if a man kidnapped your daughter, forced her to marry him, and forced her to have sex with him. Is this rape?
Peg writes:
if 'rape' means 'carry off by force and abduction' then that is exactly what the bible account shows the soldiers to be doing.
You yourself said they were forced to marry these soldiers. What happens after they are 'married'. Do you really think these women and girls were willing participants in the massacre of there society, husbands, fathers, sons, and then willingly had sex with there oppressors? Use your brain Peg.
Myself writes:
Where? You showed that the Mosaic law forbade prostitution (selling your body for money and sustenance) not rape and sex slavery. Those are not the same things. Where does the Mosaic law state that slaves (much less free women) have a choice in whether or not they can choose to have sex with there masters?
we werent talking about slaves, we were talking about captive women being raped by soldiers.[/qs]
Really, what is the difference? In the culture of the day (and nearly up to the 21st century) women were considered at most second class citizens.
Deuteronomy 21:10-14 writes:
When you go out to war against your enemies and the LORD, your God, delivers them into your hand, so that you take captives, if you see a comely woman among the captives and become so enamored of her that you wish to have her as wife, you may take her home to your house. But before she may live there, she must shave her head and pare her nails and lay aside her captive's garb. After she has mourned her father and mother for a full month, you may have relations with her, and you shall be her husband and she shall be your wife. However, if later on you lose your liking for her, you shall give her her freedom, if she wishes it; but you shall not sell her or enslave her, since she was married to you under compulsion.
How can one grant someone freedom if they are already free?
You really can't keep this straight in your own head can you.
Peg writes:
I already showed you the mosaic law about rape. It was a crime as serious as murder and a man who raped a woman was to be put to death.
Except when the engaged women is raped in the city and nobody here her cry out as described in the previous verse.
Notice nothing is said about non-engaged women being raped.
Do you read anything I write?
Peg writes:
Soldiers were not permitted to have sex during battle campaigns. The mosaic law stated this at Deuteronomy 23:9-14
This mentions nothing of the sort:
Deuteronomy 23:9-14 writes:
When you are encamped against your enemies, keep away from everything impure. If one of your men is unclean because of a nocturnal emission, he is to go outside the camp and stay there. But as evening approaches he is to wash himself, and at sunset he may return to the camp.
Designate a place outside the camp where you can go to relieve yourself. As part of your equipment have something to dig with, and when you relieve yourself, dig a hole and cover up your excrement. For the Lord your God moves about in your camp to protect you and to deliver your enemies to you. Your camp must be holy, so that he will not see among you anything indecent and turn away from you.
Where does it mention having sex aka raping with captive women? Evidently it is ok to take captive women as slaves so I do not see where you can draw from this that raping and pillaging is against god's law. Besides this is talking about the encampments not the battle field.
Peg writes:
if a man wanted to have sex with his slave girl, he had to make her a concubine, which was a secondary wife.
And that makes it right? As long as you 'marry' her?
Marriage in middle eastern affairs were relatively simple affairs with a wedding feast with the families involved and commenced by copulation on the night of the wedding hence where we get the term "sealing the act". There were no exchanging of rings, etc. And I would imagine marriages with slaves were really commenced with virtually no type of ceremony. Again did the women really have a choice? And if not, does that no constitute rape?
Peg writes:
This fell into the area of polygomy and it gave certain rights to the slave girl that her children would recieve their share of the inheritance. So again, slave girls were protect by law and given rights. Men could not just take them for sex, Isrealite men had to abide by the laws pertaining to sexual activities, one being 'You must not commit adutery/fornication'
Again the slave women had no choice in the matter.
PEg writes:
no i'm not an advocate of arranged marriages.
Wow, by your justification for these traditions you could have fooled me. There is a difference between understanding the culture and condoning it.
Peg writes:
but im also not going to deny the rights of other people to choose.
Do people have a right to beat there children with an iron rod? Or enslave other people?
Isn't that what human rights are about...the right to person choice and personal preference?
Except when it deprives the rights and freedoms of other people.
Peg writes:
Some cultures want that choice and who are we to tell them they cant have it? Why is our way any better?
So I guess we should not have abolished slavery, oppose apartheid and other forms of racial discrimination, discourage torture, oppose Sharia law's diabolical forms of discirimination against women, etc.
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Message 340 of 384 (516736)
07-27-2009 8:46 AM
Reply to: Message 339 by Peg
07-27-2009 5:28 AM


Re: Double standards?
Peg writes:
was the bible writer thinking in terms of the modern definition when he wrote the accounts about the soldiers?
That was my whole point Peg! Do you not read my posts at all? What part of
myself writes:
It was not applied in a sexual context until the late 15th century after most of the early English translations of the Bible had already been written and therefore it is not a word that you will find in the KJV which began its creation in 1604.
do you not understand?
Peg writes:
none of these words are used in the account about the soldiers.
The only word used is ’i meaning 'wife'
We can go down this rabbit hole as far as you like Peg. So do you condone the kidnapping of women to make wives than? Do you think it is right to do this?
Peg writes:
I cant agree with you that the command in the mosaic law was to rape the women...thats what other nations did, the isrealites were not allowed to do it
I never said the Mosaic Law commanded the rape of women. I said that God commmanded and condoned multiple attrocities to occur, some of them being the rape, pillage, enslavement, ethnocide and infanticide. Rape is just the tip of the iceburg and probably the weakest one of these to literally prove (though anyone with enough common sense can deduce that it did occur based on these passages).
So I guess killing innocent children, slavery, ethnicide is ok with God than? Is that what you are saying?
Or are you going to deny than any of these things occurred. Why not just pluasibly deny anything bad every happened in the Bible and live in complete ignorance.
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Message 342 of 384 (517294)
07-30-2009 9:41 PM
Reply to: Message 341 by Taz
07-30-2009 7:52 PM


Re: Double standards?
Taz,
I totally agree. What is even more appaling is that Peg is a mother of three.
You would think if anyone would be advocating female rights it would be a mother. I am not sure if Peg has a daughter or all sons but either way I would think that Peg of all people would see how despicable and sick these acts were. Her condonence and justification of this behavior is almost unforgivable and I have lost ALL respect I once had of her.
Peg,
My aim is not to personally attack you, rather I am trying to make you think about what you are saying and hope to bring out some of your humanity.
I just have a really hard time grasping why you are going so far out of your way to advocate a lifestyle of enslavement, forced marriage, rape, pillaging, murder of innocent children and other attrocities.
Not to say the Isrealites in any way were any worse than any other people of that day and age. At that time attrocities such as slavery, ethnicide, infanticide, rape, murder, pillaging, etc especially against opposing societies was common practice and can be found in the annals of the Babylonians, Egyptians, Greeks, etc. The Isrealites were in no way any better than the rest of these civilizations as attested to by there own history in the OT. However just because it was a common occurance and acceptable at that time, does not mean we should say it is acceptable because it happened 2000 years ago. If it is wrong today, it was wrong 2000 years ago.
During my training as a Sexual Assault Victims Intervention Advocate (SAVI) I attended a week long workshop (and continue to attend SAVI training and workshops) in which rape and abuse victims (both male and female, young and old) gave riviting, emotional accounts of the attrocities and injustices done against them by there perpetrators. It was very moving and emotional and it really showed that anyone, ANYONE can become a victim. It was quite unnerving to view many of the horrendous pictures and read several accounts of the sexual victimization done against both adults, children and even babies. I learned alot about humanity, both the good and the bad, from this training.
I have also personally experienced the devastating affects of rape w/ a person very, very dear to me. It shook not only their world but mine and my family's as well. It is hard to judge the all the devestating effects this one act caused or how many lives it nearly destroyed. I also befriended a person several years ago in my church who I thought was a normal, decent human being, father of three including two girls, youth pastor, Navy retiree but who ended up being evil incarnate, a child molester and wife beater. That too shook my world and I became very bitter against anyone who either conducted such action, allowed it to occur, or just turned the other way.
This training and other experiences awoke in me a sense of vitriol and disdain against any type of sexual predator present or past.
RAPE, CHILD MOLESTATION, SLAVERY, ETHNICIDE, INFANTICIDE, HUMAN TRAFFICING, ETC ARE WRONG! WHETHER THEY HAPPENED TODAY OR 3000 YEARS AGO!
I really cannot understand how a mother and wife can advocate the forced marriage and rape of other women and children. To me this is totally incomprehensible and staggering.
I hope this sinks in.
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Message 344 of 384 (517299)
07-30-2009 10:41 PM
Reply to: Message 343 by Peg
07-30-2009 10:30 PM


Re: Double standards?
Peg,
What would you do if a man kidnapped your daughter, forced her to 'marry' him and have sex with him?
Would you sit idly by and do nothing?
Because that is EXACTLY what occurred in the Bible! Except the Isrealites also killed the parents and all the male children and babies as commanded by God!
So are you ok with God ordering the slaughter of children and babies?

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Dr. Carl Sagan

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Message 345 of 384 (517300)
07-30-2009 10:46 PM
Reply to: Message 343 by Peg
07-30-2009 10:30 PM


Re: Double standards?
Peg writes:
I've also shown you that the hebrew words for 'rape' are not used in the passages about the soldiers.
Who cares whether they used the word rape or not. The end result is the same. They murdered all the males including children and babies. Murdered all the non-virgin women. And kidnapped the virgin women and girls to take as wives.
Are you that stupid to think that these women and girls wanted to become wives of the very people that slaughtered there families and took everything they had away from them.
Do you honestly think they were willing in wanting to have sex with the very people that victimized them?

For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
Dr. Carl Sagan

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Message 346 of 384 (517301)
07-30-2009 10:49 PM
Reply to: Message 343 by Peg
07-30-2009 10:30 PM


Re: Double standards?
Peg writes:
I am in no way advocating anything...im trying to correct your wrong accusation that the God of the bible is somehow evil because the soldiers made the captive women their wives.
So commanding the murder of children and babies is not evil?
So commanding kidnapping and human traficking is not evil?
So commanding and regulating the enslavement of people is not evil?
So what is evil then?

For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
Dr. Carl Sagan

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Message 369 of 384 (518312)
08-05-2009 7:07 AM
Reply to: Message 361 by Peg
08-03-2009 8:51 PM


Re: Less logical than I thought
Peg writes:
If an opposing army invaded my country today, I would stay out of their way. If my country chose to fight them, i think I would flee to neutral territory.
It is people like you who would allow, condone and advocate the attrocities and genocide such as the Hitler's Holocaust, the Khmer Rouge, Darfur, Rwanda, Japanes concentration camps and death marches during WWII, Mao's and Stalin's ethnicidal rampages and other attrocities to occur unchecked.
So if you were in Europe you would do nothing to try to put up a resistance against Hitler and his goon squad? You would probably corroborate with him and bend over as Vichy France did, right? While tens of millions of men, women and children were needlessly TORTURED AND MURDERED!!
You are a morally bankrupt and dispicable person. I pity you and your family. I really feel sorry for your children. It is sad they will grow up knowing there parents are such cowards that they would choose to run and hide while the rest of there countryman would die to protect there freedoms that they indulge in.
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Message 370 of 384 (518314)
08-05-2009 7:22 AM
Reply to: Message 364 by Peg
08-04-2009 12:01 AM


Re: Cowardice by any Name
Peg writes:
to the contrary, the bible tells us NOT to fight our enemies.
What!?!
You have been arguing with me for the last 10 pages about the justification the Israelites had for battling their 'enemies', the Canaanites in the Bible. Now you are telling me that the Bible says they should not have fought them?
This is beyond cognitive dissonance. You are bat-shit, crazy!!!
Also how does the following verses fit into your Biblical philosophy:
Luke 22:36-38 writes:
Then said he unto them, But now, he that hath a purse, let him take it, and likewise his scrip: and he that hath no sword, let him sell his garment, and buy one.
For I say unto you, that this that is written must yet be accomplished in me, And he was reckoned among the transgressors: for the things concerning me have an end.
And they said, Lord, behold, here are two swords. And he said unto them, It is enough.
What were they going to use there swords for? Catching fish?
Matthew 10:34-35 writes:
Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.
For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
Should I mention all the violence commanded by God in the OT? Or have we gone over that enough.
The Bible is anything but a book advocating peace.
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