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Author Topic:   Are The Historical Respective Roles Of The Genders Relevant Today?
Hyroglyphx
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Message 18 of 116 (557527)
04-26-2010 12:54 PM
Reply to: Message 5 by Flyer75
04-26-2010 8:55 AM


Unintended consequences of the suffrage movement
Call me a traditionalist, or an old fart, whatever you prefer...idiot will work too. I agree to an extent with Buzz on this. I think statistics show the decline in the family structure has changed quite a bit (divorce, out of wedlock births, ect) with the woman's liberation "movement" if you will. I'd obviously prefer the mom to stay home and have an influence on the young ones then send them off to a day care to be watched by someone that just doesn't care quite as much.
I think that along with the huge benefits of the sufferage movement have also introduced some unintended consequences. For instance, that most Americans cannot do without dual incomes can directly be attributed to women working.
That being said, I wouldn't trade this pitfall in for an antiquated society that shackles their women to the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant.

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 20 of 116 (557531)
04-26-2010 1:16 PM
Reply to: Message 12 by Buzsaw
04-26-2010 11:24 AM


Re: Where we started
More freedom has been lost by mandating equality than anything else. Last century hundreds of millions were murdered, impoverished and oppressed by governments and dummies who tried to make all men equal. It's now happening in the US of A. Diversity and freedom go hand in hand.
I agree that "all men created equal" is somewhat of a facade, or at the very least, poorly worded. It is true that not all people are the same. We have different mental faculties, different abilities, different skills, etc. I think the general opinion is that all people should have the same opportunities. I have the same opportunity to play professional basketball. But like it or not, Lebron James and I were not created equally in terms of basketball. He has a genetic advantage over me, "fairness" be damned.
2) Educational opportunities should be open to all, but not necessarily provided for all by someone else's buck.
This doesn't have anything to do with the suffrage movement or the topic. Be careful not to slip down the slippery slope.
3) As I said before, men are more adapted to the leadership role and this has been the case for nearly six milleniums of human history.
Men and women generally think differently and they obviously have different physical attributes. But should that necessarily preclude women in all cases on the sole basis of gender? I don't think so, as incalculable women have faired better than men in many areas dominated by masculinity.
The Biblical way is best.
If stoning women to death is your version of the "best" then by all means, go live with the Taliban. They won't argue that point.
If the man loves his wife as he ought, he will want the best for her.
What if what is best for her is allowing her the ability to freely choose her own destiny and not have her husband micromanage every aspect of her life?
The problem arises with cultures such as Islam which oppresses women and men everywhere who do not practice Biblical principles such as love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness faith, meekness and self control.
My goodness, Buz, you do know where Islam got its principles with women, don't you? Islam is an extension of the bible. Halakha and Shari'a are parallels of one another.
If you want to find a women who chooses to live a more traditional role, they are out there. More power to you in finding one. At least then it is a choice on both sides. The issue is that you seem to want to persuade all women to ascribe to your value system. But maybe they don't want that. Shouldn't it be their choice?

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 25 of 116 (557566)
04-26-2010 8:42 PM
Reply to: Message 22 by subbie
04-26-2010 3:18 PM


Re: Where we started
Jefferson simply meant that everyone should be governed by the same set of laws; that the law should apply to all people in the same way. He never meant that all people have equal abilities or that we should treat them as if they did.
You're absolutely right. I won't even entertain it.

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 30 of 116 (557574)
04-26-2010 9:38 PM
Reply to: Message 26 by Buzsaw
04-26-2010 9:05 PM


Re: Where we started
So by that token it would be delusianal for draft laws, job descriptions, regardless of brute strength needed, front line combat, rest room laws, dress codes and a host of other gender relative matters to assume that all should be goverened by the same set of laws. The majority of the founders obviously figured voting rights weren't for everyone. No?
He's simply stating the historical fact of what Jefferson meant by equality. But you make a good point. There is at the opposite end of this extreme, a lobby who wants to androgenise the world and pretend there aren't differences between men and women. It is equally silly in my opinion. There are some jobs that preclude people on the basis of their gender.
The question is whether should apply in all cases. That would be a bad move, forcing people to conform to a one-size-fits-all mentality.
Apparently you feel that all women should be barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen on the basis that they are generally the meeker sex.
For nearly 6 milleniums most cultures understood that families function better with one having the leadership role rather than two presiding ones with equal authority.
How it has worked since time immemorial is the Taliban's version. Like it or not, that is the biblical version, where society looks at men as something to be desired and women being silent, servile, and shitting out kids at an alarming rate.
Slavery has also existed from the beginning. On the basis that it is "traditional," should we reinstitute it?
One area I see in modern culture is the discipline of children. It is the manly commanding lower voice, the physical strength and the relatively larger sized male that is most capable of handling the ultimate discipline of the children.
This is completely ignorant. So you think that kids respect daddy because he intimidates them? That's fear, not respect.
Since Isaiah comes from a time when stoning to death unruly kids was the norm, I'll just go ahead and abstain from his parenting skills if you don't mind.

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 32 of 116 (557576)
04-26-2010 9:56 PM
Reply to: Message 29 by DevilsAdvocate
04-26-2010 9:33 PM


Re: Where we started
What the hell is a bathroom law?
I think he's talking about how it is illegal (or at least taboo) for the opposite sex to use the same bathroom.
The only platform that they have not been able to serve on are submarines and that is only because of the logistical nightmare and exorberant costs of redesigning subs to accomodate them.
There are two all-female subs now, but yes, it is a logistical nightmare. The Navy also precludes women from joining the SEAL program too (SWCC also, I think) but not EOD. I wouldn't be completely averse to it, but I think they have very real reasons why they preclude them.
The issue is that these are the exceptions to the rule. Buz apparently unilaterally wants women "back in their rightful place" without regard to anything other than antiquated tradition and his book of magic spells as his guide.
quote:
The whole modern world has divided itself into Conservatives and Progressives. The business of Progressives is to go on making mistakes. The business of Conservatives is to prevent mistakes from being corrected. -- G.K. Chesterton
I really don't see how the rest of you can rationally talk to this mother fucker.
Forgive him for he knows not what he says.

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 56 of 116 (557827)
04-28-2010 7:01 AM
Reply to: Message 41 by Buzsaw
04-27-2010 9:59 AM


Re: Devil A. Man's Strawman Implication
I've never, ever, in 55 years, laid anything but a loving hand on my wife and I don't mean disciplinary loving hand. Physical punishment was solely reserved for the children.
That sounded weird.
I'm not averse to three swats on the butt for an egregious offense, but I have found that taking prized possessions away works more effectively to curb the ill behavior.
I am curious as to what kind of corporal punishment you employed when your sons were younger. How old were they went it first began and how old when it ceased?

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 70 of 116 (557995)
04-29-2010 8:43 AM
Reply to: Message 69 by purpledawn
04-29-2010 8:17 AM


Re: Biblical Values
Solomon can only describe the character of a noble wife in the terms of his time. The point was that she was wise, self-sufficient and enterprising. That is what we should bring forward from the Bible, not that she only dealt with family needs.
Precisely, and perhaps there is no greater biblical illustration than Solomon's descriptions. Even then one could highlight the notable disparity between Solomon's version of what a good wife is and juxtapose it by his failings as a husband (all his concubines).
These terms like "biblical principles" just don't make any sense because of their contradictory nature. Buzsaw is misinformed on what "biblical principles" mean. In reality he is simply conflating American values he grew up with and saw as "wholesome" and is injecting a biblical spin on it.

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 82 of 116 (558205)
04-30-2010 10:05 AM
Reply to: Message 73 by Buzsaw
04-29-2010 8:17 PM


Re: Becoming Blessed, Wise & Mature
Coyote, you and your friends consistently convolute my position, which that the Biblical role of the woman is to tend the house and children as the man is in the workplace, be it a fisherman, merchant in the markets, farmer, etc.
First of all, Buz, PD provided scripture that refutes just that. Please provide scripture that supports your position. Secondly, even supposing this was the case, do you mean to say that thousands of years of tradition should be upheld at all times on the sole basis that it's traditional?
You and your friends, in your meanspirited manner, refuse to acknowledge that nearly all cultures practiced slavery and that Biblical principles relative to the slavery has been that slaves should be well treated and cared for, whereas other religions were often ruthless.
Slavery is irrelevent to the topic, but if we were to go by your traditional stance, we should still practice slavery because it's a "biblical principle." You aren't even addressing that. Instead you introduce the non-sequitur that "sure they had slaves, but they treated them really well." But it's still slavery. So do you therefore support it because it's "traditional?"
As you people well know, nobody's advocating slavery.
But why not? That's the question.
You just see it as a personal cheap shot.
It's not a cheap shot. It is designed to get you to identify the problem with upholding traditions for the sake of their being traditional. It's circular. You need to identify actual reasons why you support something and not support it de facto just because ancient and outdated people's practiced it.

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 95 of 116 (558495)
05-01-2010 6:20 PM
Reply to: Message 93 by Buzsaw
05-01-2010 5:44 PM


Re: Becoming Blessed, Wise & Mature
My wife and I are very different. There have been times when if the wedding vow were not honored, we would likely have separated or divorced. We both stuck it out in times of depression or disputes.
I think too many people throw away a marriage too easily now or days. I won't dispute that. However, some people have no business being together and they are prolonging not only their own misery, but are also imparting that misery to their children, by staying together for the misguided sake of staying together.
Some people make mistakes getting married to one another because of youthful indiscretions. Sometimes when you are young you just cannot reasonably conceive the scope and magnitude of many things, including marriage.
A lot of people in the past got married to alleviate feelings of sexual guilt, so that their lust for one another was over-riding more sensible thinking. Is that better in your eyes?
My wife did not come into this relationship with me blindfolded, so to speak. We discussed this thing about the male leadership role and she agreed to it. God has blessed us greatly on the long haul because we both honored his precepts.
Look, it is no ones business what you and your wife do and what you agree to privately. I think the only issue is if you had things your way, you would get in everyone's business and outlaw divorce. For me it is a matter of personal freedom.
I have just explained to you that a partnership 50/50 thing would have likely resulted in continual bickering, unrest, separation and/or divorce with me and my wife. I've observed it time and again in others who are not committed to the Biblical principles.
If there is no compromise then it sounds like it is essentially "your way or the highway."
Traditionally, in scriptural cultures and most others, the parents had a significant role in choosing compatible mates for their children. Unfortunately, that is no longer the case in most Western cultures. It wasn't in my case, nor in any of my five bothers and sisters. It wasn't with my own two boys.
Unfortunately? Why is that unfortunate?

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 97 of 116 (558498)
05-01-2010 6:28 PM
Reply to: Message 94 by hooah212002
05-01-2010 6:19 PM


Re: Becoming Blessed, Wise & Mature
I'm sorry you are such a sensitive pussy Buz. I was being serious. Thank you for proving to me that you pick and choose which of your biblical rules to live by. It's all or nothing old man. Now I know for sure you are just full of shit.
Holy crap, man... Were you sodomized by a priest with a crucifix as a child or something? I can understand being rightfully upset by the sheer hypocrisy often associated with Christians, but you seem excessively pissed.

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 102 of 116 (558569)
05-02-2010 11:30 AM
Reply to: Message 100 by Buzsaw
05-01-2010 9:08 PM


Re: Yet Another Strawman
Hyro, where ever did I say or even imply that divorcement should be outlawed? This is another blatant strawman.
I meant to phrase it as a question, not as a statement. I apologize for that. I am asking if you had it your way, would you outlaw things like divorce for the sake of preserving the institution of marriage?
There was a time when you were a sensible good spirited counterpart, but it appears some of the meanspiritedness of some of the others has rubbed off on you.
I'm sorry you feel that way, it's certainly not my intention to be mean for the sake of being mean. It would be helpful if you have any specifics because I don't feel any different. But I will give you the benefit of doubt because perhaps I can't see the water I swim in.

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 113 of 116 (558780)
05-04-2010 11:30 AM
Reply to: Message 110 by IchiBan
05-04-2010 12:59 AM


Re: Becoming Blessed, Wise & Mature
The Bible talks about slavery because that is a part of mans history but it does not approve of it.
Yes, it does. Paul goes in to great detail about how to treat slaves and how to act if you were a slave. The issue is that people's version of slavery back then is not always the same as how one views it today.
Moses led his people out of slavery.
Which is irrelevant since they were the one's in bondage. The bible has numerous instances of hebrew double standards. For instance, Jews were allowed to charge interest against foreigners but not against other Jews.
It is a non sequitur for this thread, and all it is is a tool for pretenders like coyote want to use to leverage you against the Bible.
If you can't critically analyze the bible then you have no right to view its supposed infallibility. Consider a good thing, otherwise how else would you be able to defend it?
I wonder if they know whos work they are doing.
Perhaps Satan, the ultimate non-sequitur. Whenever you can't prove a point, just state your detractor is working for the devil.
Like I said it is a non sequitur for this topic, but the coyotes here seem to always get a pass on that sort of behavior. And that is what makes this place look like an evolutionist echo chamber to me.
There have been plenty of creationists who have shown up at EvC, get destroyed in debate, and run away with their tail between their legs. If it seems a little unbalanced in here, know that it's not for lack of effort on part of the creationists.
You could also argue the specifics instead of resorting to ad hominem against Coyote too. That's always a plus.

"Political correctness is tyranny with manners." -- Charlton Heston

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