Jesus the rabbi ?

Was Jesus' wedding in the New Testament? I believe so. Remember the "water into wine" story? Why was his mother there? Why would she, being a guest as we assume was Jesus, command Jesus to make wine? Why then is he refered to as "bridegroom"?

1On the third day a wedding took place at Cana in Galilee. Jesus' mother was there, 2and Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding. 3When the wine was gone, Jesus' mother said to him, "They have no more wine."4"Dear woman, why do you involve me?" Jesus replied, "My time has not yet come."5His mother said to the servants, "Do whatever he tells you."6Nearby stood six stone water jars, the kind used by the Jews for ceremonial washing, each holding from twenty to thirty gallons.7Jesus said to the servants, "Fill the jars with water"; so they filled them to the brim.8Then he told them, "Now draw some out and take it to the master of the banquet."9They did so, and the master of the banquet tasted the water that had been turned into wine. He did not realize where it had come from, though the servants who had drawn the water knew. Then he called the bridegroom aside 10and said, "Everyone brings out the choice wine first and then the cheaper wine after the guests have had too much to drink; but you have saved the best till now."
11This, the first of his miraculous signs, Jesus performed in Cana of Galilee. He thus revealed his glory, and his disciples put their faith in him.

Jhn 2:1 And the third day there was a marriage in Cana of Galilee; and the mother of Jesus was there:Jhn 2:2 And both Jesus was called*, and his disciples, to the marriage.Jhn 2:3 And when they wanted wine, the mother of Jesus saith unto him, They have no wine.Jhn 2:4 Jesus saith unto her, Woman, what have I to do with thee? mine hour is not yet come.Jhn 2:5 His mother saith unto the servants, Whatsoever he saith unto you, do [it].Jhn 2:6 And there were set there six waterpots of stone, after the manner of the purifying of the Jews, containing two or three firkins apiece.Jhn 2:7 Jesus saith unto them, Fill the waterpots with water. And they filled them up to the brim.Jhn 2:8 And he saith unto them, Draw out now, and bear unto the governor of the feast. And they bare [it].Jhn 2:9 When the ruler of the feast had tasted the water that was made wine, and KNEW NOT WHENCE IT WAS: ( but the servants which drew the water knew; ) the governor of the feast called the bridegroom,Jhn 2:10 And saith unto him, Every man at the beginning doth set forth good wine; and when men have well drunk, then that which is worse: [but] thou hast kept the good wine until now.

Why would Jesus be Responsible to "make wine" if it is not his wedding? Showing charity? C'mon. Opne your mind a little. it was his wedding. He was married that day! Where was the wedding anyway? When you answer that, ask yourself where Lazarus was "believed" to have risen from the grave. Then ask yourself if Lazarus was not Mary Magdalene's brother. IF that is not far along enough, then ask yourself why Mary Magdalene is treated so well by Jesus? Why are his disciples jealous of "their" relationship? Go back and read all the passages that deal with Mary Magdalene, then use some logic and sense.