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Hyroglyphx
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Message 90 of 759 (573232)
08-10-2010 1:41 PM
Reply to: Message 88 by onifre
08-10-2010 1:23 PM


But why should religious people be protected to discriminate on the grounds of sexual orientation, yet no other person(s) or business would be protected in the same manner?
Ask yourself the same question in reverse. If religion isn't allowed to dictate why homosexuals can or can't marry, why would/should the opposite be true?
It's not right for religionists to say that homosexuals shouldn't marry in secular society (it's not their place), and by the same token it's not right for the state to dictate that a religion goes against its own beliefs.
Edited by Hyroglyphx, : No reason given.

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 93 of 759 (573250)
08-10-2010 2:49 PM
Reply to: Message 91 by Taz
08-10-2010 1:48 PM


I don't care what you think about the issue now. Just do me a favor and stop watching/reading those ads and spit them back out at us.
I honestly have no idea what ads you are referring to. There was no propaganda being fed to me, I came up with that inference all on my own.

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 95 of 759 (573253)
08-10-2010 3:09 PM
Reply to: Message 92 by Taz
08-10-2010 1:56 PM


Doctors must treat the patient in the emergency room, correct? Does this mean that people must, therefore, go to the emergency room? Restaurants must accept every potential customer as long as the customer is reasonable, correct? Does this mean that I have to go into the restaurant?
Secular society and religious institutions are two entirely separate entities, which makes it irrelevant.
Marriage is a business. If they want to participate in the business, they have to follow the rule of business. The exception doesn't make any sense to me.
It's not a business for pastors, but it is for the State. Furthermore, why would anyone want a bigot to preside over their wedding anyhow?
Nobody is saying the religion should go against its own beliefs. If they don't like marrying gay people, then don't participate in the business.
You cannot remove the historical context or the religious implications. This is still a very new revelation. It would actually be easier for the pastors to make this argument against homosexual marriage. Secondly, they are operating under the pretense of serving god's laws, first and foremost, not man-made laws.
If you're a doctor and don't like treating transexuals, then go find another profession. If you're a restaurant owner but you don't like to serve black people, go find something else to do. If you're a catholic pe... priest and you don't like to marry gay people, then go do your catholic priest thing and let others do the marrying part.
Don't you see what's happening? You are simply reversing the roles. You are saying that unless they conform to your beliefs, you will accept nothing else. You are expecting them to change their beliefs. Isn't that what many of them expected of gays -- assimilate or deal with it?
Why should they get a free ticket to discriminate when we don't allow other businesses to discriminate?
Because it's their Constitutional right. Forcing them to go against their religious beliefs within the sanctity and confines of their own sanctuary, is abridging their freedoms for the sake of anothers, which is hypocritical.
They don't get to dictate the affairs of secular society, and we shouldn't dictate their affairs.

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 97 of 759 (573258)
08-10-2010 3:26 PM
Reply to: Message 96 by hooah212002
08-10-2010 3:18 PM


But they are the only group who is actively opposing homosexual marriage. They are trying to dictate secular affairs.
Yeah, but that's through protest, which is another thing afforded to them by Constitution.
The critical difference would be forcing them through legal means to do something against their religious beliefs.

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 109 of 759 (573423)
08-11-2010 11:25 AM
Reply to: Message 108 by kjsimons
08-11-2010 10:32 AM


Now all civil servants should not discriminate, but if a church doesn't want to marry someone for religious reasons, however bigoted, then that's their right. It's one of the reasons I'm not a religious person is that most religions seem to be more about hating other groups of people than truely helping all people.
That pretty much summarizes my understanding of it as well.

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 112 of 759 (573454)
08-11-2010 1:01 PM
Reply to: Message 110 by hooah212002
08-11-2010 11:36 AM


Only protests, though? There are plenty of religious politicians, judges, people in positions of sway, etc. who are fighting this as well through various legal means. Said individuals also have the financial support of churches.
Lobbying and supporting people financially who agree with your ideologies are not illegal, neither is protesting.
And as Jar has stated, it goes both ways. Not everyone who is religious is against gay marriage. It seems you're willing to overlook all the protesting, lobbying, and financial support for things that you personally favor.

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 116 of 759 (573471)
08-11-2010 2:07 PM
Reply to: Message 113 by hooah212002
08-11-2010 1:30 PM


Who said anything about the legality of it?
What else were you alluding to, if not the legality of it?
I've made no statements about what I favor, now have I? So how would you know?
[quote] --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
They don't get to dictate the affairs of secular society, and we shouldn't dictate their affairs.[/qs] --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
quote:
hooah212002 writes:
But they are the only group who is actively opposing homosexual marriage. They are trying to dictate secular affairs.
Let's look at it in context. The poster I responded to wanted to know:
quote:
Why should they get a free ticket to discriminate when we don't allow other businesses to discriminate?
The question is one of legality. You challenged that point, and I responded that protesting is not illegal.
There really is no reverse situation since there is no proposition to deny anyone religious freedoms (unless you include the christian opposition to the Mosque at ground zero....which of course would do nothing to my point).
Forcing pastors to do things against their religion under their own sanctuary would be violating their civil rights. So, my point still stands, not that it matters since pastors since the law recognizes that pastors do not have to perform marriages that go against their religion.
Apparently some people think 2 wrongs equal a right.

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 150 of 759 (577137)
08-27-2010 9:57 AM
Reply to: Message 143 by lfen
08-27-2010 1:09 AM


Re: I lost respect for latino and black communities
I agree with you. You are native American? I support your efforts to drive all the European thieves and murders back to England and the other the Imperialist countries that have made such a polluted shambles of this once pristine continent and committed genocide against the rightful inhabitants. I'm sick of all the evil white Europeans desecrating the earth. Let them despoil Europe and fight among themselves but leave the rest of the world alone.
Taz writes:
I've had enough of this political correctness bullshit. I say we kick all those immigrants out and let us natural borns deal with our own problems. They escaped from authoritarian regimes to come here just so they could persecute others? What kind of bullshit logic is that?
I agree with you. You are native American? I support your efforts to drive all the European thieves and murders back to England and the other the Imperialist countries that have made such a polluted shambles of this once pristine continent and committed genocide against the rightful inhabitants. I'm sick of all the evil white Europeans desecrating the earth. Let them despoil Europe and fight among themselves but leave the rest of the world alone.
So you want to combat racism and bigotry by adding more racism and bigotry?

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 151 of 759 (577139)
08-27-2010 10:02 AM
Reply to: Message 144 by Taz
08-27-2010 1:18 AM


Re: I lost respect for latino and black communities
[qs]Go ahead and defend those persecuted-turned-persecutor minorities all you want. I realize in a couple days my ratings will probably go down to 1. That's what happens in a world of political correctness when no matter how much bullshit you see you always have to talk nice to them. Hell, they could be voting by the masses to turn this country into their catholic theocratic haven and it would still be politically incorrect to call it bullshit.:
I don't understand, Taz. You want to kick immigrants out of the country? Forget about political correctness, my concern is that this line of thinking is fascist.
Why would you do anything that extreme? Or are you trolling (a parody thread)?

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 153 of 759 (577142)
08-27-2010 10:07 AM
Reply to: Message 147 by Taz
08-27-2010 9:18 AM


Re: I lost respect for latino and black communities
This came from a polish man protesting against the judge's decision on the unconstitutionality of prop 8.
But that's one man's opinion. He doesn't speak for the entire Polish-American population. Besides, he's entitled to his opinions.

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 154 of 759 (577145)
08-27-2010 10:14 AM
Reply to: Message 130 by Taz
08-26-2010 9:20 AM


Re: I lost respect for latino and black communities
Predominantly black and latino counties in California are fighting to keep prop 8.
At least white people have an excuse to be bigots. They've been bigots since god smiled on white people ages ago. But all these communities who have been subjected to ongoing prejudices have absolutely no excuse to turn around and discriminate others.
Actually, I'm going to start openly support changing the constitution to fight anchor babies. If they want to play this game, I'll play with them. Let's crack down on illegals. Let's require everyone carry around their papers so that we can pull over all the ones who look like they might be illegal.
Woke up this morning and what did I hear? Predominantly black and latino counties in California are fighting to keep prop 8.
At least white people have an excuse to be bigots. They've been bigots since god smiled on white people ages ago. But all these communities who have been subjected to ongoing prejudices have absolutely no excuse to turn around and discriminate others.
Actually, I'm going to start openly support changing the constitution to fight anchor babies. If they want to play this game, I'll play with them. Let's crack down on illegals. Let's require everyone carry around their papers so that we can pull over all the ones who look like they might be illegal.
Taz, there is no "community of black and latino's that come together on all issues. You can find blacks and latino's who support Prop 8 too. Just because some people have been subjected to one form of discrimination doesn't mean they themselves are above it.
What is infinitely worse is that your way of combating hypocrisy, is by you yourself being hypocritical. You're being irrational.

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 177 of 759 (577974)
08-31-2010 9:18 AM
Reply to: Message 161 by Taz
08-27-2010 7:05 PM


Re: It's not about race, it's about religious ties...
I've already pointed this out before. I didn't say latino and black people. I said latino and black communities. Not referring to their race. I'm referring to their communities.
Yeah, their communities that you have identified through race... Holy crap, you're a walking contradiction.
Are you going to deny the stats that 70-80% of them are anti gay?
Those same stats could be given to almost all societies, including Caucasian-Americans. Homosexual acceptance is still in its infancy. You can't just erase thousands of years of social mores in a day or even a decade.
So, let's be politically correct and ignore the obvious prejudice coming from both these communities?
I don't know, should we ignore yours?

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 178 of 759 (577976)
08-31-2010 9:23 AM
Reply to: Message 136 by Taz
08-26-2010 7:25 PM


Re: I lost respect for latino and black communities
I'd be lying if I say I find it surprising, since I've known for a long time that those browns and blacks have double standards. On the one hand, they demand equality, but on the other they demand to be able to discriminate against others. They need to learn respect for other people, because they just lost me as their ally.
Taz, not all black and latino's are anti-gay. Why don't you reserve your criticism for the actual individual, as opposed to unilaterally removing your support of black and latino communities.

"Reason obeys itself; and ignorance submits to whatever is dictated to it" -- Thomas Paine

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Hyroglyphx
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Message 179 of 759 (577981)
08-31-2010 9:36 AM
Reply to: Message 168 by Taz
08-28-2010 12:13 AM


Re: I lost respect for latino and black communities
You conveniently left out the 70-80% figure from the latino and black communities. What happened to the old nem jug? You're all... politically correct nowadays.
I could care less about what is politically correct. Political correctness is tyranny in disguise. I'm merely pointing out the hypocrisy in your logic.
But it's like you have tiers of tears for the oppressed. Homosexuals are at the top of that list for you. All I'm saying is try looking at it from an individual point of view.
I understand what you're saying, and to a degree agree with you. You're saying that it is bullshit to cry about equality all the while trying to deny that same equality to others. That's a valid point. The only problem is that you've gone from analyzing it from an individual point of view to a collective view.

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