I contend that our natural instinct is the survival instinct but that our natural instinct can be adjusted by influences in our lives so that it does become more or less instinctive to do the unselfish thing for the benefit of someone else.
I would agree that there were tensions between survival instinct, social approval instinct and social loyalty instinct etc. I wouldn't say that only survival instinct is natural, by which I assume mean 'hardwired'.
This can be shaped through learning and the influences. So if we believe we survive death might help us over-ride the survival instinct in some cases.
There does seem to be a great many people who do harm to their own and a great many people do good for those who are not of their own.
Of course - mixed strategies (cooperating with the community, and exploiting the community) are perfectly possible within an evolutionary framework. I have already explained why people do good things for others - if they consider 'all humans' as one group, they'd happily do it. This is a very modern view though - certainly not an evolved position.
It seems to me that if you are going to make the argument that it is about maintaining your blood line then the only ones that would be considered 'one of your own' would be those in your own gene pool.
And how do your genes successfully detect that someone is related to you? It's not like animals generally talk to each other, right? They rely on other clues, as do we on some level. Proximity is a good clue. The way other family members treat them is another good observable clue.
Of course, this convenient shortcut means that sometimes we treat bastard brothers as if they were full brothers, step fathers as if they were real fathers, adopted children as if they were our own and even think of our work colleagues as brothers (as in the army)...
Isn't that about being indoctrinated to overcome your natural instinct?
Yes. But you can't do that by actually overcoming your natural instincts which is impossible. You redirect them. There is some evidence that
male coalitionary violence is a big part of being human.
Once again yes and no. I agree the paternal instinct can be strong but it also seems to end when the offspring mature and go off on their own. I know when we took our pup back to visit its mother there appeared to be zero recognition. This seems to be normal for all animals other than humans. If they lose the parental instinct for their own offspring then I'm inclined to think that there is more going on than just parental instinct in the case of the crow, although maybe less so for the gorilla.
What were expecting me to do: give you a full psychological account of what it is like to be that bird? If the bird thinks the kitten is a perma-child then all of what you said wouldn't apply for example. If the bird grows bored when the cat grows up that'd be something. There is also a 'play' instinct that is expressed in adults across species and that may also be coming into play.
Of course this is all just my opinion but it appears to me that animals, even wild ones, are capable of a degree of altruism that goes beyond their natural instinct.
It appears to me, that since there are so many examples of it happening - it
is their natural instinct.
Edited by Modulous, : No reason given.