Oh trust me, I see your point of view. And it is the same one shared, I'm assuming, by those who ok'd the dropping of those two bombs.
But it means, when you say that everyone becomes a soldier, that you hold no regard for human rights or care about the civilian casualties. I get that you decided to label them something else, but that in and of itself is the point where you disregard them as civilians and disregard their individual human rights. Surely you see that, right?
Nope. You are trying to paint every conflict and every people with the same brush.
The situation in Imperial Japan was a very specific one. They were fighting for a God-King. They were resisting to the last man on each and every island we had to take.
Given their behavior, there's no reason to suddenly assume they were *** about what it would be like trying to take mainland Japan.
We dropped two bombs instead of thousands.
Had we had to go door to door, like the Japanese were TELLING US we would have to do, it would have been a far more brutal affair.
The goal of war is to break the spirit of your opponent so they will surrender.
Japan was losing the war - BIG TIME - and yet their spirit was unbroken. They were flying planes into ships. They didn't care at all if they lived or died, so long as they killed us in the process.
It's fun to sit and whine about how unfair it was for us to drop those bombs, but if you were on a boat chugging across the Pacific, ready to be the first wave of men onto Okinawa, knowing full well that you were likely to die simply because the enemy was too prideful to admit defeat, I suspect you would be singing a different tune.