Hi Straggler,
Consistent with CD, agreed.
Do you not agree that there are degrees of CD? that it is more of a spectrum than a black and white issue?
Curiously, I find it difficult to consider any difference of opinion not causing some degree of CD, no matter how small the difference is. The reason we debate is because of conflict between opinions. The greater the difference in opinions, the more involved the debate gets trying to resolve it.
Your example with Dr Adequate actually involves two situations, (1) getting the money and whether to return it or not, and then (2) if not returned, then how to dispose of it, both of these are resolved by subsequent behavior. First, in response to the new information, you decide to
not return it to the bank; second, you raise your belief in you being a good person (which is in conflict with your decision not to return the money to the bank) by giving it to a charity instead of keeping it.
A two step process that leaves you feeling like you have "done the proper thing."
So yes,
full resolution requires both parts of your actions. imho.
Enjoy.
Edited by RAZD, : subtitle