1) It's sinful to have sex outside of marriage.
(2) Marriage is between a man and a woman.
(3) Therefore, gay sex is sinful.
Rather a strange logic. Gay marriage is rejected by Christians because the Bible reserves marriage for a man and a woman and because homosexual acts are sin. They are just as much sin whether married or not because there is no legitimate gay marriage in God's eyes, and in fact a marriage under the circumstances just compounds the sin because it violates God's ordinance of marriage.
(4) And because gay sex is sinful, gay people are required to live lonely lives all their lives.
I've known of many homosexual couples who have lived together their whole lives without thinking they had to be officially married. If the concern is loneliness marriage is not the solution to it.
It does seem to me that it would be extremely hard to be gay AND a Christian, though, if the Bible is read as it should be read, as condemning homosexual acts. Homosexuality is something that just happens to some people, I've never thought it was a choice as some think it is, but at the same time it is sin. It's a hard position to be in, but the solution of insisting it's not sin doesn't stop God from judging it as sin, you're just putting on a blindfold so you can't see it, and marriage only compounds the sin rather than solving the problem. Christians do have to give up sin, however. This includes some divorced (heterosexual) people I know of who understand scripture to say they cannot remarry, and I tend to agree with that reading of scripture. That's a hard one too.
Wow, what a perfect way to go around hating gay people without admitting to hating gay people. You love them, but you want to deny them the most basic human needs, the need for physical contact and the need to love. In my book, that's hate no matter how you want to put it.
Nobody is stopping them from living together, marriage is hardly necessary and if you're concerned about sin then marriage simply adds to the sin. It's an existential situation, it has nothing to do with how people feel about homosexuality. If the person is serious about Christ, however, then Christ has to become the love object that takes the place of all other love objects. There are certainly many single Christians who are not gay and are living for Christ alone.
Edited by Faith, : No reason given.