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iftikhar
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Message 1 of 14 (73739)
12-17-2003 10:40 AM


Hello Guys!
this is the first time i am joining u genius peeps.actually i have just noticed something.i have never believed in Love, but i have been recently in it.i want to put a hypothesis about this as:
"There is an extra-ordinary sense which when evokes puts you in love,& it has following characteristics
*un-controllable
*un-curable
*un-predictable"
i want your comments about this.
this is absolutely some thing un-believeable
But this is Science!
bye
reply soon
iftikhar

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Rei
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Message 2 of 14 (73787)
12-17-2003 2:03 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by iftikhar
12-17-2003 10:40 AM


And an equally strong depression/sadness you experience if you are left or it is unrequieted. So be careful!
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"Illuminant light,
illuminate me."
[This message has been edited by Rei, 12-17-2003]

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Andya Primanda
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Message 3 of 14 (73992)
12-18-2003 1:58 AM
Reply to: Message 1 by iftikhar
12-17-2003 10:40 AM


Welcome and peace to you iftikhar.
Say, if this is actually a hypothesis, then you should be able to refute it. You say that this 'sense' is 1) uncontrollable; 2) uncurable; 3) unpredictable. So I guess the test would be to 1) control it; 2) cure it; 3) predict it. If you can do all three then congrats, you have just refuted the hypothesis!

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crashfrog
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Message 4 of 14 (74050)
12-18-2003 8:29 AM
Reply to: Message 1 by iftikhar
12-17-2003 10:40 AM


*un-controllable
*un-curable
*un-predictable"
I don't know about the first two, but the one thing I know about love is that it is entirely predictable.
Take anyone you know that seems to fall in love a lot. If you're noticed them do this then you've surely already noticed a pattern of who they fall in love with. It's generally the same kind of person, and it's usually a person similar to adults who had a major formative influence on their childhood (good or bad.) Also they tend to be people from groups we either consider ourselves a part of or wish we were a part of.
We generally only fall in love with people who already make us confortable. The people who makes us comfortable are generally the people most like the adults that we knew growing up (parents, etc.) Ergo, etc.
There's little more predictable than love. Sure, it might not seem so when you're in it - the time and place is up to chance, really - but the subjects of our loves are predicted by simple psychology.

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iftikhar
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Message 5 of 14 (74078)
12-18-2003 10:25 AM


Right!
Hello there!
U all are right my Friends!& Thanks for the response.
But the trouble is what can i do now! & what should I do!
This is first time in my life that i am worried about some girl.
She is my class-fellow.
Any one of you in love or was in love????
I need your incisive suggestions/advices.
God Bless You
bye
iftikhar

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Abshalom
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Message 6 of 14 (74123)
12-18-2003 2:01 PM
Reply to: Message 5 by iftikhar
12-18-2003 10:25 AM


Tell'r
Why don't you
Tell'r, yeah, tell'r
That you love her
Tell'r, yeah, tell'r
That you need her
Tell'r, yeah Tell'r
Tell're right now!
(Lyrics from a 60's song ... Rondelles or somebody like that)

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Rei
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From: Iowa City, IA
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Message 7 of 14 (74128)
12-18-2003 2:13 PM
Reply to: Message 5 by iftikhar
12-18-2003 10:25 AM


Re: Right!
Well, for one remember that love is, chemically, quite similar to obsessive compulsive disorder, so watch yourself that you don't end up bothering her. Apart from that, the key is just to learn to sense whether there is a probability that she likes you too. If you think there is any chance, ask. Actually... ask no matter what, otherwise, your mind will keep torturing you about it Feel free to spend an hour or so thinking up how you want to say it, because it'll probably take you that long Otherwise, you can play the slow process of steadily dropping each other more and more hints, until one of you gets the courage to ask; that may take as much as weeks, depending on how timid you and she are.
Eventually, one person just ends up with the courage to ask It's better to get it out of the way sooner rather than later.
khuda hafiz
(Ed: I'm assuming that you already know her; if you don't, I agree with the below message - get to know her first)
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"Illuminant light,
illuminate me."
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Message 8 of 14 (74131)
12-18-2003 2:18 PM
Reply to: Message 5 by iftikhar
12-18-2003 10:25 AM


Re: Right!
But the trouble is what can i do now! & what should I do!
This is first time in my life that i am worried about some girl.
She is my class-fellow.
iftikhar, my friend, this is a very difficult question for us to answer for you. There are many details that are important to know if a good answer is to be given.
With the little information that I have, I will tell you to make this girl your friend first. If you become very good friends with her, then it would be appropriate to begin to talk of deeper love. This is only my opinion, of course.
In some cases, a girl can become very surprised by a man who tells her that he loves her but he obviously doesn't know her well. There is a chance that she will think that you don't understand love if you do it this way. However, this isn't always the case.
I have been in love with a girl before -- although we are no longer together. Right now I am courting another girl, however I would not say that we are "in love" quite yet. I prefer to develop a very familiar relationship with the girl so that I can have time to be certain that I truly love her.

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Message 9 of 14 (74138)
12-18-2003 3:08 PM


Not quite the thread for this discussion.
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Message 10 of 14 (74139)
12-18-2003 3:08 PM


Thread moved here from the Is It Science? forum.

  
iftikhar
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Message 11 of 14 (74639)
12-22-2003 3:25 AM


Request!
The Request is from the Moderator! that take this thread back to the previous one coz otherwise i 'll be missing intellectual comments.
haven't u been in love. its science! come on!!
& My friends!
i will soon telling u the brief story of mine.
see u
bye
iftikhar

  
Agent Uranium [GPC]
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Message 12 of 14 (74970)
12-24-2003 7:48 AM


Hello Iftikhar. A lot of my family lives in Pakistan. Take note of what people here say - a lot of them speak a lot of sense when it comes to love-related interactions!
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quote:
All the boys think she's a spy

  
burntdaisy622
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Message 13 of 14 (84701)
02-09-2004 11:26 AM
Reply to: Message 1 by iftikhar
12-17-2003 10:40 AM


Question:
Now a couple of months later..... are you still in love?
Were your questions answered?

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iftikhar
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Message 14 of 14 (84725)
02-09-2004 12:35 PM


reply
I am still in love.i got few answers as well.
but dear friend the story is she is no more my class fellow.she has got job after graduation.
i assure u i am still in love.
if u peeps have ideas now to sort this out, i will be thankful.
n do pray for me dears!
thanks
Cheers
bye

  
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