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Author Topic:   Presbyterian Church approves of same-sex marriages
NoNukes
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Message 18 of 123 (753267)
03-18-2015 4:00 PM
Reply to: Message 5 by Phat
03-18-2015 11:10 AM


Re: Club Rules
Any two people...of whatever gender combination...have a legal right to get married, but there must be a spiritual purpose to the communion.
I take this to mean that you cannot imagine or accept a spiritual purpose for a union between two Christian men, be that union marriage, friendship, or simply agreeing to walk the same way along a road.
I think it pretty evident that what you say here is merely an excuse for your disapproval. I have no idea what the real objection is.

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 26 of 123 (753358)
03-19-2015 12:15 PM
Reply to: Message 19 by Phat
03-19-2015 8:02 AM


Re: Club Rules
My point is that there is no purpose for marriage between two Christian men. Let it be legal, I've no problem with legalization---we are, after all a pluralistic society.
As has been mentioned, the distinction between a marriage with two Christian men and between a Christian man and a Christian woman is that in the first marriage, no one can get pregnant.
You have yet to provide any other Christian or non Christian purpose for a man/woman union that does not exist for man/man. So unless child bearing is your point, you would not seem to have one.

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 37 of 123 (753539)
03-20-2015 1:19 PM
Reply to: Message 32 by Phat
03-20-2015 12:56 PM


Re: Phats Opinion
The only issue I have here is selfishness.
Do you not understand the serious logical problems that people have pointed out with your 'only issue'.
Two men who commit to each other are no more limiting in their love than a man and a woman who commit to each other. Neither couple is committing to limit their love nobody else but their spouses.
A man who marries a man does not eliminate having a relationship with all other men. He is instead excluding having a intimate, spousal relationship with all other men and of course all other women. In what way is that more selfish that what happens in every other married relationship?
Why limit your love to just one man?(apart from Jesus, of course)
Second question. Did Jesus tell people to limit their love to only him? What kind of BS are you pushing with this comment?

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 42 of 123 (753556)
03-20-2015 2:51 PM
Reply to: Message 38 by Phat
03-20-2015 1:24 PM


Re: Phats Opinion
A man who loves Jesus first...with his whole heart, soul, mind and strength has no need of another man to idolize, fantasize over and worship.(nor to need sex)
Do you have a problem with loving God with your whole heart, soul, mind, and strength?
And what was the second great commandment, Phat? Wasn't it to love your neighbor?
And is a marriage a worship of a man or woman? You still are not making much sense.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 43 of 123 (753558)
03-20-2015 2:55 PM
Reply to: Message 39 by New Cat's Eye
03-20-2015 1:28 PM


Re: Phats Opinion
Phat writes:
A man who loves Jesus first...with his whole heart, soul, mind and strength has no need of another man to idolize, fantasize over and worship.(nor to need sex)
Cat sci writes:
By that logic, women shouldn't marry men either.
That's right. According to Phat being distracted to men other than Jesus is selfish. Only women can marry, but they should marry women.

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 66 of 123 (753721)
03-21-2015 7:30 PM
Reply to: Message 54 by Phat
03-21-2015 10:37 AM


Re: Phats Opinion
Actually...after thinking about it...no. I have no problem with it.
Wow! Someone changed their mind on the internet! Nice work Phat and jar!

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 78 of 123 (753770)
03-22-2015 5:35 AM
Reply to: Message 70 by Jon
03-21-2015 8:50 PM


Re: A Distinction with a Difference
Yes; but the children they have are all wanted.
Whether or not the children are wanted is something that sometimes changes over the children's lifetime. Yes, they were wanted at conception, but at birth? Five years later? When the children become awful teenagers? Or serial killers?
I think Cat Sci has a point. The idea that the children of homosexual parents are always wanted was just a sound bite.

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 82 of 123 (753835)
03-22-2015 5:54 PM
Reply to: Message 80 by xongsmith
03-22-2015 1:13 PM


Re: A Distinction with a Difference
Same-sex marriages, with the exception of rape, either have to arrange a surrogate mother or a donor male or go through the bureaucratic complications of adoption.
"Donor male" covers a lot of possibilities including being unfaithful and thus having an unwanted pregnancy.
Besides that, I stand by my comment that not all wanted children remain wanted. Yeah I'll agree that sex between same sex couples does not result in pregnancy if that is your point.
Surely you heard in about the couple who had engaged a surrogate mother and then refused to take one of the two offspring because that child had Down's syndrome? That could just as easily happened to a homosexual couple as a heterosexual one.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.
Edited by NoNukes, : No reason given.

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
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Message 116 of 123 (754453)
03-26-2015 7:28 PM
Reply to: Message 115 by ringo
03-26-2015 1:25 PM


Re: A Distinction with a Difference
You don't have to want children to have children but you usually have to want children to have somebody else's.
Let's apply this statement to a couple (you pick the sexes) who decides to have their children via a surrogate mother. Use the appropriate definition of 'have' children.
What you will find is that your chosen definition of 'have' is not compatible with the statement that same sex children always 'have' wanted children.

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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NoNukes
Inactive Member


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Message 119 of 123 (754519)
03-27-2015 3:48 PM
Reply to: Message 117 by ringo
03-27-2015 11:37 AM


Re: A Distinction with a Difference
Tell that to Cat Sci.
I don't think Cat Sci needs any correction.

Je Suis Charlie
Under a government which imprisons any unjustly, the true place for a just man is also in prison. Thoreau: Civil Disobedience (1846)
If there is no struggle, there is no progress. Those who profess to favor freedom, and deprecate agitation, are men who want crops without plowing up the ground, they want rain without thunder and lightning. Frederick Douglass

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