You brought up that you or I have never seen an irreducibly complex organism created, but also i have never seen anything macro-evolve either
People are answering your questions, but your point is not accurate logically. Those who support irreducible compexity use it as proof that irreducably complex organs could not have evolved. They are saying that these IC organs MUST have been produced in a single step. Therefore, it is appropriate to ask if this single step has ever been seen.
Those who teach "macro-evolution" (I don't agree with the term, either, but I'm granting it for argument's sake) do not say that it disproves irreducibly complexity. Macro-evolution is not offered as a disproof of IC. Instead, it is a conclusion drawn from watching micro-evolution and from over a century of learning the mechanisms of micro-evolution. It follows, from the mechanisms we now understand and the micro-evolution we can see, that micro-evolution inevitably leads to macro-evolution.
So, the request to show macro-evolution is not a legitimate request from ICers, and it's not offered to shoot down IC. The request to show IC as having happened is a legitimate request from science, because it is being presented as something that shoots down evolution.
Gosh, that sounded much less clear than I thought it was going to sound. I hope someone understands what I said and that it really makes sense.