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Message 234 of 304 (848738)
02-14-2019 2:52 PM
Reply to: Message 228 by Stile
08-02-2007 9:47 AM


Goodness
Stile writes:
How to rationalize goodness existing in the world as an atheist:
Goodness exists in the world because some people want it to (including myself.)
There. That didn't seem so hard.
But, like Tangle said, it's off-topic here.
If you'd like to press it, you can take it here:
This is a long and old thread that I haven't participated in. I'm not going to go back and review all that has already been said so this is a reboot.
I'm sure you do want that which is good. But what makes it good? The fact that you want it? Why do you want it?
We've had these discussions before. It's good for your gene pool. It is an evolved feeling.
If we are simply here as a result of an endless progression of mindless processes; a collection of mindless particles that have mindlessly come together to form intelligent creatures then there is no ultimate good or evil. It is simply what we think at the time. Hitler thought that it would be good if we could eradicate Jews. The 9/11 terrorists thought that it would be good to do what they did. Who are you to say they were wrong.
If there is an ultimate good then that ultimate good is something that exists outside of our perceived existence.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 236 of 304 (848743)
02-14-2019 3:27 PM
Reply to: Message 235 by ringo
02-14-2019 3:09 PM


Re: Goodness
ringo writes:
What makes an "ultimate good" good?
As a Christian theist it is my "belief", that it represents a fundamental nature of God and His desires for it to be a fundamental part of our nature.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 241 of 304 (848750)
02-14-2019 3:43 PM
Reply to: Message 237 by ringo
02-14-2019 3:32 PM


Re: Goodness
ringo writes:
That's circular. Good is good because it's what God wants - and God must be good because what He wants is good.
Yes, it is circular but that says nothing about whether or not God exists and that our sense of goodness comes from Him. It is also circular for Stile to say that something is good because what Stile wants is good..

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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GDR
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Message 243 of 304 (848752)
02-14-2019 3:48 PM
Reply to: Message 239 by Theodoric
02-14-2019 3:37 PM


Re: Goodness
Theodoric writes:
One problem with your argument is that you are equivocating the word good. The goodness of which Stile is referring is not the same use of the word(though they are spelled the same) as the good you are using about Hitler.
It is about the belief of what is good that is common to both. Hitler though that it would be a better world if we could get rid of the Jews. Stile think that it would be a better world if we all lived by the Golden Rule. (I am putting words into Stile's mouth here.) We all have our beliefs about who was right. I'm confident that everyone on this forum would agree with Stile's belief.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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GDR
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Message 245 of 304 (848754)
02-14-2019 3:53 PM
Reply to: Message 242 by Theodoric
02-14-2019 3:44 PM


Re: Goodness
Theodoric writes:
You are also making a strawman argument. What you are arguing against here has nothing to do with what Stile actually stated. By equivocating you argued against something that isn't even part of the discussion.
Why? Stile has stated that his position on what constitutes goodness conforms to some presumably universal standard. Stile has in his mind decided what he believes is good and obviously believes he is correct in his thinking. What makes him more right than Hitler?
AbE Sorry I just realized this had moved to the other thread.
Edited by GDR, : No reason given.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 246 of 304 (848755)
02-14-2019 3:57 PM
Reply to: Message 244 by ringo
02-14-2019 3:50 PM


Re: Goodness
ringo writes:
But good isn't just what Stile wants. In a social species, good is a matter of consensus. And consensus involves compromize - i.e. good is inherently relative.
In the last several years there have been numerous societies where there was a consensus that it would be good to commit genocide, which would involve compromise and would be inherently relative.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 255 of 304 (848764)
02-14-2019 4:16 PM
Reply to: Message 248 by Theodoric
02-14-2019 4:02 PM


Re: Goodness
Theodoric writes:
We don't give a flying fuck what certain societies have done. If you cannot understand the concept of goodness than you have more problems than I thought. I suppose you have trouble defining evil too.
I'm not sure why you felt it necessary to get personal. Maybe it is because of the weakness of your argument.
Good: Having a heart that not only finds joy in the self but in the joy of others and is prepared to sacrifice things of the self such as time, material resources etc to improve the lives of others.
Evil: Having a heart that is prepared to sacrifice the well being of others to benefit the self.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 258 of 304 (848767)
02-14-2019 4:52 PM
Reply to: Message 251 by Tanypteryx
02-14-2019 4:09 PM


Re: Goodness
Tanypteryx writes:
What makes it good to me is the warm feeling I get and the knowledge that I am not harming others.
I assume that some people get warm fuzzies torturing people. Also I think the idea isn't that you're not just "not harming" others but that you are actually helping others.
Tan------- writes:
We are here because of a long progression of chemical processes. Obviously chemicals do not have minds.
Agreed. So why is there such a concept as goodness?
Tan----- writes:
I don't know what you mean by "ultimate" good and evil. We do decide whether something causes harm or not.
Some people seem to find it pleasurable to do harm and find some kind of joy in it. Just look at the problem of bullying in our schools today. We can all agree that it is "bad" but on the other hand it seems to make the perpetrators feel good so why is it bad. I would contend that there is an "ultimate" sense of what is good and that, as I said, would by definition have to come from something outside of our human existence. It is a belief but we all have our beliefs that can't be proven.
Tan---- writes:
Humans are the only ones who can say they were wrong because they obviously intentionally caused harm. As an atheist I can see they caused harm and that they are insane fanatics and I can and do say so. What surprises me is that question that.
I don't question it. What I do question is the idea that if we are only the result of mindless chemical processes then what is good,?As pointed out by someone on this thread, the result of what individuals in societies come to a consensus on defines goodness for that culture. Different societies come to different conclusions.
Tan---- writes:
We also can easily recognize good behavior such as that by the first responders at the twin towers on 9/11 because they sacrificed their lives to help others.
I agree. However the terrorists thought that they were doing good and sacrificed their lives for it.
Tan--- writes:
You seem to be implying that no one would make sacrifices for others if it wasn't for religion. Atheists don't need some "ultimate good" as a reason to do good things, we do good because it feels right and because we hope others would do the same for us.
It isn't about religion and I would agree that atheists can and do as much, or more good, than so called religious people, including Christians. My contention is that we can only recognize what is good and what is evil because there is a universal understanding of what is good. In simple terms it boils down to the Golden Rule.
However, if there is nothing but chemical processes then the "Golden Rule" is only golden in societies that decide that it is.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 259 of 304 (848768)
02-14-2019 4:55 PM
Reply to: Message 252 by Stile
02-14-2019 4:09 PM


Re: Goodness
Stile writes:
I would agree that would be circular.
But I'm not saying that.
I'm saying that something is good when you help someone in the way they want to be helped.
But why? That is a conclusion that you have come to because that is what you have decided is good. It is still circular.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 260 of 304 (848771)
02-14-2019 5:19 PM
Reply to: Message 249 by Stile
02-14-2019 4:08 PM


Re: Goodness
Stile writes:
What is good?
Good is increasing the positive inner-feelings of another being.
I would phrase this now as "Good is helping others in the way they want to be helped."
And the reason I want it is still the same as before as well:
Why do people do good?
This is why I do good:
1. I interact with others.
2. Interacting with others will cause me to affect them.
3. This can leave a Good, Bad, or Meh effect.
4. I am capable of empathy.
5. If I had a choice, I would like Good things to happen to me.
6. Since I do have a choice on how I affect others, I will attempt to leave Good effects rather then Bad or Meh effects.
7. When I interact with others, I'm going to do my best to cause Good effects.
I think that all of us would basically agree with that although we might word it differently. However, what your definition is still just the conclusion that you have come to and is to a large degree the consensus of the culture which we share. Other individuals and cultures have come to other conclusions based primarily on self interest.
Stile writes:
That may also be true. But it's not why I do good things. I do good things because of the reasoning above.
Like eating pizza.
I need to eat to survive. But I could eat vegetables and other healthy things and it would help me survive much better.
I choose to eat pizza because I like the taste - it just also happens to be true that it helps (somewhat) me to survive.
I choose to do good things for the reasons stated above. Any other side-effects from me doing good things are irrelevant to why I choose to do them.
Sure, but again you are basing goodness on the conclusions that you have come to and your conclusions may be very different than the conclusions of others. My contention again is that there is an ultimate standard of good and evil. As humans disagree about that standard then if that standard actually does exist, as I obviously believe it does, it has to come from something beyond ourselves.
GDR writes:
If we are simply here as a result of an endless progression of mindless processes; a collection of mindless particles that have mindlessly come together to form intelligent creatures then there is no ultimate good or evil.
Stile writes:
Why not?
As soon as the intelligence exists (regardless of how,) why can't we use it to define ultimate good or evil?
OK, but what would make it ultimate. It is still just the conclusions that individuals and societies have come to, and those conclusions often vary and fluctuate.
Stile writes:
I'm a man with a definition of good and bad.
Would you like to see if it applies?
Hitler killed many people against their will -> bad.
9/11 terrorists killed many people against their will -> bad.
Huh - seems to pass this test. Want to try another?
You and I agree that what they did was "bad". However in their mind presumably it was good.
Stile writes:
Now - an old lady wants help to cross the street.
1. You can believe in the "ultimate good" and help the lady cross the street.
2. You can help the lady cross the street because you would rather help the lady instead of doing nothing or (say) throwing rocks at the lady.
If you can explain why #1 is better than #2... I'm all ears.
Otherwise... can we please drop the use of the term "ultimate?"
I'm not saying that there is any difference between 1 and 2. In both cases there is a desire to do the "good" thing. I use the term ultimate as the simplest way I know to convey the idea that goodness exists whether or not humans exist.
I will repeat that I agree that many atheists do more good than many Christians. However, that isn't my point.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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GDR
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Message 261 of 304 (848773)
02-14-2019 5:23 PM
Reply to: Message 253 by Stile
02-14-2019 4:12 PM


Re: Goodness
Stile writes:
Sort of.
I like to call it the Platinum Rule, actually.
Golden Rule
-Treat others as you want to be treated
Platinum Rule
-Treat others as they want to be treated
In spirit, they're really the same thing.
But, in practice... there's less wiggle-room for taking advantage of others with the Platinum Rule.
I suppose but as I said earlier we might know that what a person wants isn't right for them. As a 5 year old I might want to to go swimming in the ocean but as a parent I know that it is dangerous and not allow it, so I think I'll stick with the "Golden Rule".

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 263 of 304 (848775)
02-14-2019 6:11 PM
Reply to: Message 254 by Stile
02-14-2019 4:14 PM


Re: Goodness
GDR writes:
Why? Stile has stated that his position on what constitutes goodness conforms to some presumably universal standard. Stile has in his mind decided what he believes is good and obviously believes he is correct in his thinking. What makes him more right than Hitler?
Stile writes:
Absolutely nothing.
But, really, I'd guess that a lot more people agree (and function) with my morality that they do with Hitler's.
As well, I predict a much "nicer" world if everyone followed my morality than if they followed Hitlers. Especially for the Jews.
You (and everyone else) is allowed to decide which they prefer for themselves.
Sure, but that assumes that the only good is what we decide is good, and as I said that is a moving target. Goodness then just boils down to our own conclusions and then that is the only basis on which we can call something good. If it is only our opinion then there can be no absolute good or evil.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 265 of 304 (848777)
02-14-2019 6:14 PM
Reply to: Message 262 by Theodoric
02-14-2019 5:33 PM


Re: Goodness
Theodoric writes:
The caveat to do no and allow no harm is implied. Surprised that that would need to be pointed out. I always find it odd how the radical Christian mind works.
Doing no harm is only a part of it but obviously included. Hmmmm... so now I'm a radical.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 279 of 304 (848815)
02-15-2019 7:05 PM
Reply to: Message 277 by Stile
02-15-2019 11:58 AM


Re: Goodness
Stile writes:
I've been thinking about this, and I have another attempt to frame my answer from another angle - perhaps it will add some clarity.
Also, if you haven't noticed, this is one of my favourite topics so I'll take any excuse to ramble along about it
For review, this is from my opening post:
Why do people do good?
This is why I do good:
1. I interact with others.
2. Interacting with others will cause me to affect them.
3. This can leave a Good, Bad, or Meh effect.
4. I am capable of empathy.
5. If I had a choice, I would like Good things to happen to me.
6. Since I do have a choice on how I affect others, I will attempt to leave Good effects rather then Bad or Meh effects.
7. When I interact with others, I'm going to do my best to cause Good effects.
Now... I still think this is a valid position.
However - perhaps it does not explain all the assumptions it rests upon, so this is an attempt to clarify those assumptions in order to provide more context:
One of the basic definitions for "morality" is "a particular system of values and principles of conduct."
Or, more simply put - morality is the governing guidelines we use when interacting with other people.
Now, when you interact with other people you can care about their reaction, or not.
My definition of "good" revolves around caring about the reaction of those you interact with and attempting to make that reaction positive (as defined by the person being affected - not by anyone else.)
As I touched on in one of my previous replies to you - we all have different priorities we can follow for doing things. Whether that priority is "caring for others" or "self pride" or anything else.
What I'm getting at is, another way to word my description is:
Why is it right to do good to others?
-If you agree that "caring about other people" is a priority when dealing with other people - then my definitions are "the best" to accurately and usefully describe morality - and it is then right to do good to others based upon my 7 points above
-If you do not "care about other people" - then obviously it won't be "right" for you to use my definitions. As well - I won't respect your opinion as a person and you are the reason our society has police and puts people in jail.
Therefore, the foundation for "why we should be good to others" stands on holding "caring about other people" as a priority.
Of course, I agree this is not independent or absolute.
Others can have their own reasons for why they interact with other people the way they do.
However, I think "caring about other people" is exactly what is generally meant by "being a moral person" as used in day-to-day speak.
As well, I think that my definitions and reasoning on what is good, and how to do good all reflect "caring about other people" in the best way possible.
(Or, if you don't think they do - I'm open to suggestions.)
I am unable to fathom an idea on how "dealing with other people" can not hold "caring about other people" as the highest priority and still be called "good" by any form in how the word is generally used.
But, again, I am open to suggestions.
Obviously we use different words but we are on the same page as far as everything in that post.
Where we differ is in the question why is all of that true. Why do we not live by the the law of the survival of the fittest?
In my view it isn't what we do that is the root of goodness. For me it is all a heart issue. If we have hearts that get those warm fuzzies when we are able to bring joy to others, and particularly when we do it at some cost to ourselves, that is fundamental goodness. The actions that result from that are the symptoms or result of a good heart.
Did goodness evolve from mindless processes, chemical or otherwise, or did it evolve through processes and laws that are the result of an external intelligence? It appears we differ on the answer to that.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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Message 280 of 304 (848816)
02-15-2019 7:19 PM
Reply to: Message 274 by Tangle
02-15-2019 10:23 AM


Tangle writes:
Just on a basic point, it can't be correct to say
Because there's good in the world, God exists
Which seems to be GDR's argument.
I am simply saying that as there seems to be a fairly universal understanding of goodness, primarily as seen in the Golden Rule, which is indicative of the idea that there is something that exists outside of of human experience and understanding.
Tangle writes:
there is also evil in the world, so then what?
Then it becomes our job to do something about it. Jesus' message is that ultimately love wins.
Tangle writes:
The ancients pushed that one onto a different supernatural entity(s) so as not to taint the benevolent god and more latterly onto man himself. But of course that can't work because the Abrahamic god rightly takes credit for both good and evil. To do otherwise would be to admit that he's not all powerful.
If we are to have the freedom to choose good we have to have the freedom to reject it.
Tangle writes:
It's all a very simplistic storytelling trick to fool the uneducated masses but it doesn't hold any water these days.
Written with your often evident hubris. As you well now there are many highly educated people who have accomplished great things in their respective fields that are Christian.
Tangle writes:
And in any case we now know where 'good' comes from, it's routed in the emotion of empathy - a brain function like many others.
We know that eh. Even if that is true, it can be either by chance or design.

He has told you, O man, what is good ; And what does the LORD require of you But to do justice, to love kindness, And to walk humbly with your God.
Micah 6:8

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