You want to know who people think you are? What you do and say defines who you are.
Most people think what they've done and said is fine, and telling them different almost never works. They have to find their own way. Come back in six months, read through some of your recent threads, and see if you see them in a different light, including the post I'm replying to where under the guise of soul searching you pretty much took shots at almost everyone here.
--Percy