I put your name in the subtitle in hopes you wouldn't miss this. The audio of the service, including all of the music, is available at
npr.org. Not the best quality recording, of course, but the music is so good that it'd be a shame to miss it entirely.
It'd be great if the family would arrange to have this service printed to CD and released. People might think it's crass to do something like that, but Ray Charles was all about great music, and the music in this service is just terrific!