I am not committed to enforcing my ideals in any way which prevents people from having a choice.
Me neither.
Abortion is morally wrong, but I don't think we should totally outlaw it.
All-in-all, I think you should let the women decide what she wants to do about her pregnancey. It kinda sucks for the men (if they want to keep it and she doesn't), but such is life.
There's enough reasons to keep it legal, especially when I (we) cannot provide convincing evidence that it is, in fact, morally wrong.
Its kinda sad but there's worse shit going on...
Also,
ultimately, the life of the unborn child
does depend on the choices the mother makes.