I don't know about the people that you talked to, but here is my story.
I have no idea if I was born gay or not. I had always dated girls just like I was supposed to. In high school, I hung in the popular kids group, and one of the criteria was a lot of gay bashings. In fact, I ended a very good friendship with someone just because he was gay
.
What was going on was that I had a total lack of ambition with the girls I dated... or any girl at all. I never wanted to touch them. I never could bring myself to kiss any girl at all. However, I just didn't pay attention to it and tried to ignore it.
I entered college with the the-only-good-gay-is-a-dead-gay attitude. I began to date girls in college, but I still couldn't bring myself to be physically attracted to them. Later in the semester, I befriended a gay guy (a very logical one, too) and he somehow miraculously unhypnotized me.
I can definitely tell you that it was never a choice that I made. I tried to deny it for almost 7 years. In fact, the thought of being with a girl has always make me want to puke. I think I'm one of those that is heavily on the gay side of the spectrum.
Here is how you can see for yourself how gay I am. Spend some money to get a female prostitute and have her do whatever she needs to get me to have an erection. If she can make me erect, I will give you everything I have.
I am physically attracted to
some guys. I am physically attracted to
no girls. I am mentally attracted to some guys. I am mentally attracted to some girls.
The Laminator