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coffee_addict
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Message 10 of 100 (127148)
07-23-2004 9:11 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by Jasonb
07-23-2004 3:34 PM


I don't know about the people that you talked to, but here is my story.
I have no idea if I was born gay or not. I had always dated girls just like I was supposed to. In high school, I hung in the popular kids group, and one of the criteria was a lot of gay bashings. In fact, I ended a very good friendship with someone just because he was gay .
What was going on was that I had a total lack of ambition with the girls I dated... or any girl at all. I never wanted to touch them. I never could bring myself to kiss any girl at all. However, I just didn't pay attention to it and tried to ignore it.
I entered college with the the-only-good-gay-is-a-dead-gay attitude. I began to date girls in college, but I still couldn't bring myself to be physically attracted to them. Later in the semester, I befriended a gay guy (a very logical one, too) and he somehow miraculously unhypnotized me.
I can definitely tell you that it was never a choice that I made. I tried to deny it for almost 7 years. In fact, the thought of being with a girl has always make me want to puke. I think I'm one of those that is heavily on the gay side of the spectrum.
Here is how you can see for yourself how gay I am. Spend some money to get a female prostitute and have her do whatever she needs to get me to have an erection. If she can make me erect, I will give you everything I have.
I am physically attracted to some guys. I am physically attracted to no girls. I am mentally attracted to some guys. I am mentally attracted to some girls.

The Laminator

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coffee_addict
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Message 23 of 100 (127208)
07-23-2004 11:51 PM
Reply to: Message 12 by SRO2
07-23-2004 9:34 PM


Re: I was gay.
Since I spent the better part of my life trying to be straight, I still act straight by habit. I've never met anyone that could tell that I was gay, because I act really straight. In fact, some people I know still refuse to believe that I am gay because, they say, I don't act like it at all.
However, I always enjoy looking at good looking guys. For some reason, I still look at good looking girls without even knowing it. Even though I don't enjoy looking at good looking girls at all, by habit I still look at them everytime my mind isn't fully there.

The Laminator

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coffee_addict
Member (Idle past 505 days)
Posts: 3645
From: Indianapolis, IN
Joined: 03-29-2004


Message 29 of 100 (127814)
07-26-2004 2:03 PM
Reply to: Message 28 by Jasonb
07-26-2004 1:41 PM


Actually, I wasn't offended at all. You did not come off as... an anti-gay son of a peach.

The Laminator
For goodness's sake, please vote Democrat this November!

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