Are you saying all these deaths are ok ?
I don't know... Western society, by its actions, says that they are ok.
Your contributions in Haiti are admirable, but fall pathetically short of what you would do for your immediate loved ones should they find themselves in that situation. You will only do so much to inconvenience yourself. As do we all, so I am not accusing you nor condemning/belittling your actions in anyway.
What you really need to ask yourself is why are you against abortion? It is simply because you are following orders. You feel that it comes from "you shall not kill", and therefore you must follow that instruction. It is not from any concern over the unborn "child"...
Let us say that the foetus is a human with a soul. If it is aborted, then from a basic evangelical Christian theology, the human child either has its name written in the book of life, or it does not. If it doesn't and is consigned to hell (fiery pit, whatever, etc), then you are worshipping a monster and the rest of us can laugh about it. If it does, then it has already achieved the goal of its human life anyway, and will only ever experience the bliss of heaven (new earth, whatever, etc). If it is born, then on simplistic probablity, the chances are it will not receive Jesus as its saviour, will die still in sin, and will end up in hell (fiery pit, whatever, etc.)
So from what exactly are you saving this unborn "child"? Why is it such a tragedy that it is not born? Is there anything beyond your attempts to follow your own interpretation of "you shall not kill"?