Fundamental flaw: Race and sexual orientation are two entirely different things. For you to imply, by way of your assertion, that a black man's plight in our culture is equal to that of a gay man then you are a bigot of the highest order.
Not entirely different. I did not choose to be white, no one I know chose to be black. In the same vein, I did not choose to be heterosexual, no one I know chose to be gay.
The sooner we realize that homosexuality is no more of a choice than hair color or skin color, the quicker we will get past this nonsense.