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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist responds to me:
quote: Apparently not or you wouldn't be making arguments that the decision specifically contradicts.
quote: Except you haven't. Every single argument you have put forward I have rewritten simply by taking out the words referring to the sex/sexual orientation of the people involved and replacing them with words referring to the race of the people involved. If it's a piece of crap argument when applied to race, why does it suddenly gain legitimacy when applied to sexual orientation?
quote: Let's not play dumb. Yes, it did. White people can only marry other white people. How is that not defining marriage as between the same race? You did read the in RE and Loving v. Virginia cases, did you not? They went into that exact argument and found it to be disingenuous. There's no point in me posting it here for you to read because you admit that you don't actually read the posts that are directed toward you. Thus, you will have to do it for yourself and I will continually ask you if you have read them until YOU can quote the relevant portions here. I am not here to do your homework for you. I have already quoted the relevant passages and given you all the reference material you need to go look it up for yourself. I can't make you read my post and since you admit you won't, why on earth should I do the extra work?
quote: And current law says that gays cannot marry other gays (let's not play dumb and have you respond with talk of a gay man and a lesbian), which is a restriction based on sexual orientation, ergo it's unconstitutional. Or are you saying that Romer v. Evans and Lawrence v. Texas were wrongly decided?
quote: (*blink!*) You did not just say that, did you? You claim to have read the opinion and yet you still persist with the idea that restricting marriage to only between a man and a woman has nothing to do with the sexual orientation of the participants? Prove to us you read the decision. What, specifically, did the in RE case say with regard to how to handle cases based upon race, sex, and sexual orientation? That is, during argument, plaintiffs tried to make a point (among others) that the laws against equal marriage were a form of discrimination based on sex, not sexual orientation. What, precisely, did the California Supreme Court ruling say in response to that point? They mention a great number of cases specifically referring to the difference between "sex discrimination" and discrimination based upon "sexual orientation," the references going back 30 years.
quote: So you're saying that Lawrence v. Texas was wrongly decided? The law overturned in Lawrence v. Texas only criminalized non-penis/vagina sex when the participants were of the same sex. The Supreme Court overturned this law not as an example of discrimination based upon sex but rather as an example of discrimination based upon sexual orientation. Are you saying Lawrence v. Texas was wrongly decided?
quote: Prove it. Quote me the relevant passage in the in RE case where they discuss how the law discriminated not on the basis of sex but rather on the basis of sexual orientation. I'll even give you a hint: It's in the second half of the decision.
quote: And thus you show that you didn't read the decision at all. That is precisely what they did not conclude. There is a direct statement in the decision by the Court regarding the claim made by the lower court that what was being sought by the Plaintiffs was a right to "same-sex" marriage. That was rejected. The Court directly stated that what was being found was not a right to "same-sex" marriage but rather a right to "marriage," just like what was already found in the Loving and Perez cases, and thus it cannot be abridged based upon the sexual orientation of the participants.
quote: Huh? How did that enter into it? How does same-sex marriage lead to polygamy and incest while mixed-sex marriage does not? Be specific. Perhaps you can do what Nemesis Juggernaut can't: Explain why it is the thought of having sex with someone of your own sex immediately makes you think of raping your infant son and his dog.
quote: All the courts who have ever looked at the question have disagreed with you. Are you saying Romer v. Evans and Lawrence v. Texas were wrongly decided? Are you saying Loving v. Virginia was wrongly decided? There is no right to "interracial marriage" or "same-sex marriage." There is only a right to "marriage." Fundamental rights, such as marriage, cannot be denied on the basis of sexual orientation. So how could it possibly be constitutional to restrict marriage on the basis of sexual orientation, which is what DOMA was specifically designed to do? You did read the Congressional debate on DOMA, didn't you? You were given the names of specific people to look up. You've done your homework, haven't you?
quote: So Article IV, Section 1 of the Constitution means nothing? If Nevada wanted to, they could simply declare all marriages performed anywhere by anyone to be null and void from the moment you step across the border and thus, a person who is "married" and thus subject to the legal restrictions of marriage with regard to financial responsibility (joint property and obligations to debt, for example) simply needs to go to Vegas, drain the accounts, and there's nothing anybody could do about it? The marriage license that was issued by Texas isn't any good? Nevada is allowed to simply ignore the public acts, records, and judicial proceedings of other states? That's your argument?
quote: So Loving v. Virginia was wrongly decided? The Supreme Court should not have intervened in the laws of the state of Virginia and forced them to recognize the legitimacy of the marriage license that was issued by the District of Columbia? "That DC chose to define it a different way doesn't mean that everyone has to define it that way," right? Virginia had every right to restrict marriage on the basis of the race of the participants and if DC wanted to go against the grain (over 70% of the population felt that interracial marriage was wrong at the time), then that's their problem. Why should Virginia be forced to live with DC's decision? That's your argument?
quote: So "separate but equal" is constitutional? That's your argument? Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist responds to deerbreh:
quote:quote: Let's not play dumb. Every time you talk about "loopholes" and "ramifications," you are saying you don't like it. When you said, "I have a general distrust of liberalizing our society and its laws. I prefer order," you were saying you didn't like it. When you said, "It seems all these things nudge our country more and more to the left, and I don't like it," you were saying you didn't like it. When you immediately jumped to your fantasies of having sex with all of your children when the subject under discussion is marriage, you were saying you didn't like it. On that note, perhaps you can do what Nemesis Juggernaut can't: Please explain why same-sex marriage leads to polygamy, incest, bestiality, prostitution, drugs, etc. while mixed-sex marriage does not.
quote:quote: Ahem. Message 400:
Catholic Scientist writes: I still maintain that DOMA is not unconstitutional. You were saying?
quote: (*chuckle*) Here we go again with the conservative whine that refusal to accept intolerance is somehow an example of intolerance. You are not being tagged as a bigot because you disagree, Catholic Scientist. If you don't agree with same-sex marriage, that's perfectly fine. Don't marry someone of the same sex. Nobody is forcing you to, are they? No, the reason you keep getting tagged as a bigot is that you want to withhold from others that which you demand for yourself. That's the definition of bigotry. Nobody here who is disagreeing with you is trying to force you to do anything you don't want to do. Go ahead and remain as you are. You just don't get to make others be as you are.
quote: "Taking away? Nobody has taken anything away, what are you talking about? Interracial couples didn't have a right to marry to begin with." So you're saying Loving v. Virginia was wrongly decided? Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: So? Which of them depend upon the participants of the marriage being of mixed sex?
quote: Huh? How did we get here? Why does the thought of having sex with someone of the same sex suddenly make you have fantasies about having sex with all of your sons? Perhaps you can do what Nemesis Juggernaut can't: Explain why same-sex marraige leads to polygamy and incest while mixed-sex marriage does not.
quote: Huh? What is it you think gay people are going to do that straight people don't already do?
quote: Huh? How did we get back to polygamy? Why is it the thought of having sex with someone of the same sex suddenly makes you have fantasies of sleeping with everyone? Perhaps you can do what Nemesis Juggernaut can't: Explain why same-sex marriage leads to polygamy while mixed-sex marriage does not. After all, by your argument, there should be absolutely no polygamy anywhere because there is no same-sex marriage. We should never see any heterosexual couple anywhere ever being involved in a poly-relationship. There shouldn't be any laws regarding bigamy because straight people never do that. Wait...you mean there is polygamy already? There are laws against it? Then what happened to your argument? Are you saying that same-sex marriage is so powerful that it can bend time and space and cause straight people in the past to do things they wouldn't have done?
quote: And straight people don't already do this? You seem to be saying that gay people are more likely to be criminals or scoundrels than straight people. And you wonder why you keep getting tagged as a bigot.
quote: How? How does same-sex marriage lead to polygamy and incest? Be specific. If mixed-sex marriage doesn't, why does same-sex marriage?
quote: Remember when you were saying you weren't using DOMA as an argument? What happened to that claim? How does same-sex marriage do what you claim mixed-sex marriage does not? Just what is it you think gay people do that straight people don't?
quote: Same-sex marriage is unconstitutional? Or are you trying to say that Article IV, Section 1 is meaningless?
quote: "I don't really care if interracial couples have marriage, per se. But that's not what the word marriage has meant." If it's a piece of crap argument when applied to race, why does it suddenly gain legitimacy when applied to sexual orientation?
quote: Beyond the declaration that marriage applies to same-sex couples as well as mixed-sex couples, what changes need to be made? The 1000+ laws were written with the understanding that marriage was between people of the same race. When the SCOTUS ruled in Loving v. Virginia that marriage was not to be restricted on the basis of race, which of those 1000+ laws had to be re-written? What laws regarding marriage were dependent upon the participants being of the same race?
quote: Incorrect. What gets you tagged as "a fucking bigot" is your wish to restrict for others what you demand for yourself. That is the definition of bigotry. Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist responds to rueh:
quote:quote: That's not an answer. You need to explain how the laws are dependent upon the couple being of mixed-sex. What rights does a husband have that are dependent upon him being married to a woman? For example, the "rollover of gain on sale of principal residence" requires that the married couple be of mixed sex why?
quote: This is an argument against marriage, not same-sex marriage.
quote: Right. You would have no problem with everybody thinking you're gay, no problem with being saddled with his debt, etc. Exactly what would you do when you finally found someone you really did want to marry? You're going to have to explain your marriage to another man and the subsequent divorce to her. I fully expect you to be coming to California any minute now to help out a buddy. There are no residency requirements for marriage here. But at any rate, you haven't given any argument against same-sex marriage. "Marriages of convenience" happen all the time already. If that is truly your worry, given the fact that there are so many more straight people than gay people, then you should be campaigning against marriage in toto. The fact that you only seem to be arguing against same-sex marriage indicates that this isn't really your concern. If you don't believe your own argument, why on earth do you expect anybody else to?
quote: Then why did you bring it up?
quote: You do realize that you just contradicted yourself, yes? If it isn't a reason for disallowing gay marriage, then how can it be a "concern"? And you wonder why you keep getting tagged as a bigot. Just what is it you think gay people do that straight people don't already do? Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: Half a large number is still a large number.
quote: That's precisely the point: There wasn't any risk. The women were saying no because they actually had to worry about the realities of getting married above and beyond the single act of sponsoring one's spouse for citizenship. The men, who knew that there was never any way it could actually happen, were only looking at that one thing.
quote: So you admit that your "concern" is nothing but a strawman that you don't even believe yourself. Why on earth did you bring it up?
quote: So....what? You don't even believe your own example so this is evidence that there is something to worry about? It's your claim, it's your burden of proof. What exactly are these "loop-holes" and "ramifications" and "concerns"? You seem to be saying that gay people are more likely to be criminals and scoundrels than straight people. Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: Incorrect. It's the old, "It's your claim, therefore it's your burden of proof" response. You're the one saying that there are going to be "loop-holes" and "ramifications" and "concerns," therefore it is your responsibility to show what they are. So far, the only one you have managed to come up with is one that you don't even believe in.
quote: Why? Nothing changed when we allowed people of different races to get married. Why would something change if we allowed gay couples to get married? Exactly what of the various rights and responsibilities that come with marriage are dependent upon the other person being of the other sex? Your claim. Your burden of proof.
quote: But you're the one making the claim. If you are not in a position to defend it, then what makes you think you are in a position to assert it?
quote: And what makes you think it hasn't been done already? Both the GAO at the federal level and the State Assembly here in California have looked over the issue and they couldn't find anything. In fact, they found it to be a net gain. When are you going to do your homework? Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: Hmm...you are going to insist that there's a problem but you aren't going to actually provide any evidence for such. Even though people have looked at precisely what you're "concerned" about, you're not going to take the time to do your homework and find out. Then why are you even participating? At any rate, how would the healthcare system be burdened if John and Jim get married instead of Joan and Jim? By your logic we should prevent people from getting a job since you can get health insurance when you get a job and that's a burden. By the way: If we expanded marriage, the healthcare system would experience an easing as it would reduce the amount of uninsured people who can only get their healthcare through emergency services. That's more of an argument for the need of universal healthcare that is independent of things like marital or employment status, but it shows the lie of your "concern." Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: So if straight people already do it, why are you trying to stop gay people from doing it? And you wonder why you keep getting tagged as a bigot. You want to withhold from others that which you demand for yourself. You seem to be saying that gay people are more likely to be criminals and scoundrels than straight people. Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: Thus showing that you didn't actually read the decision. The Perez decision made the exact same finding. The in RE case made direct reference to the Perez case, you recall. You did actually read the in RE decision, yes? If the finding in Perez didn't lead to polygamy and/or incest, why would the exact same finding in in RE do it? If it's a crap argument when applied to race, why does it suddenly gain legitimacy when applied to sexual orientation?
quote: If Perez, which found the exact same thing, wasn't a justification, why would in RE be? If it's a crap argument when applied to race, why does it suddenly gain legitimacy when applied to sexual orientation? Why is it that you suddenly start having fantasies of having sex with your sons every time you think about having sex with someone of your own sex? The reason why you keep getting tagged as a "fucking phobic bigot" is because you want to deny others that which you demand for yourself. Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: So when we say "white," we really mean "black"? That's your argument?
quote: (*blink!*) You did not just say that, did you? So when the law, which is notorious for being exceedingly exact in the use of language1, used the word "person," they didn't really mean a singular person. They really meant multiple people. The idea of saying, "person or persons," was just too much effort, so they decided to use only the singular and assumed that everybody would understand that "person" could actually be interpreted to mean "people." 1There's a reason that the phrase is "Do not fold, spindle, or mutilate." Each of those terms means different things.
quote: Except it doesn't say that at all. You did actually read the decision, did you not? It directly contradicts you:
California Supreme Court writes: [I][B]We emphasize that our conclusion that the constitutional right to marry properly must be interpreted to apply to gay individuals and gay couples does not mean that this constitutional right similarly must be understood to extend to polygamous or incestuous relationships.[/I][/b] Past judicial decisions explain why our nation’s culture has considered the latter types of relationships inimical to the mutually supportive and healthy family relationships promoted by the constitutional right to marry. (See, e.g., Reynolds v. United States (1878) 98 U.S. 145, 165-166; Davis v. Beason (1890) 133 U.S. 333, 341; People v. Scott (2007) 157 Cal.App.4th 189, 192-194; State v. Freeman (Ohio Ct.App. 2003) 801 N.E.2d 906, 909; Smith v. State (Tenn.Crim.App. 1999) 6 S.W.3d 512, 518-520.) Although the historic disparagement of and discrimination against gay individuals and gay couples clearly is no longer constitutionally permissible, the state continues to have a strong and adequate justification for refusing to officially sanction polygamous or incestuous relationships because of their potentially detrimental effect on a sound family environment. (Accord, e.g., Potter v. Murray City (C.D. Utah 1984) 585 F.Supp. 1126, 1137-1140, affd. (10th Cir. 1985) 760 F.2d 1065, 1068-1071, cert. den. (1985) 474 U.S. 849; People v. Scott, supra, 157 Cal.App.4th 189, 193-194.) Thus, our conclusion that it is improper to interpret the state constitutional right to marry as inapplicable to gay individuals or couples does not affect the constitutional validity of the existing legal prohibitions against polygamy and the marriage of close relatives. [emphasis added] You did actually read the decision, did you not? Again, if Perez, which said the exact same thing, didn't lead to polygamy, why would in RE? If it's a crap argument when applied to race, why does it suddenly gain legitimacy when applied to sexual orientation?
quote: What does polygamy have to do with anything? Is there a reason you immediately have fantasies of having sex with your children when you think of having sex with someone of the same sex? Why does same-sex marriage lead you to this while mixed-sex marriage does not? Be specific. Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: Huh? Do you seriously not understand the difference between the definite and the indefinite article in English? "The" is the definite article. When it is used, it is indicating singularity and uniqueness. "A" is the indefinite arcitle. When it is used, it is indicating generality. If I were to say, "You're the person I want," that would indicate that there is no other. If I were to say, "You're a person I want," that would indicate that there may be others.
quote: (*blink!*) You did not just say that, did you? Just how else is the word "the" supposed to be interpreted? Hey, when I said, "the word," I could have meant a whole bunch of words, right? When I said, "the word 'the,'" I could really have meant, "any phrase you could care to name," right? Let's not play dumb.
quote: Incorrect. You did read the decision, did you not? They directly address this concern of yours and specifically and clearly state that this decision has no bearing on polygamy and incest. You did read the decision, did you not?
quote: Except that they didn't, they specifically denied polygamy, and there was no misspeaking. When they said "the person," they really meant it. You did read the decision, did you not?
quote: Except the decision specifically contradicts this claim. You did read the decision, did you not? Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Rrhain Member Posts: 6351 From: San Diego, CA, USA Joined: |
Catholic Scientist writes:
quote: That isn't an answer. In the 1000+ rights and responsibilities that come along with marriage, which of them are specifically tied to the fact that you are married to someone of the opposite sex? Which would change if your spouse were someone of the same sex? Be specific. For example, the "rollover of gain on sale of principal residence" requires that the married couple be of mixed sex why? Rrhain Thank you for your submission to Science. Your paper was reviewed by a jury of seventh graders so that they could look for balance and to allow them to make up their own minds. We are sorry to say that they found your paper "bogus," specifically describing the section on the laboratory work "boring." We regret that we will be unable to publish your work at this time.
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Artemis Entreri  Suspended Member (Idle past 4250 days) Posts: 1194 From: Northern Virginia Joined: |
I wish they would just let us vote on this issue, instead of using the courts to make policy. Or at least define marriage, unfourtunately that is not how socialism works.
It was pretty funny that you called somebody a bigot because their beliefs are different than yours, when that is what biggotry is. Edited by Artemis Entreri, : typos
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lyx2no Member (Idle past 4737 days) Posts: 1277 From: A vast, undifferentiated plane. Joined: |
It is a bit simple to believe that every last bit of a man's life is open to your vote, don't you think? Are there not some decisions that are better made as generalizations so that each can find their own path through the world? If your avatar is at all representative, you must realize that you're one of the first on the chopping block. Sure, you think it's a good look, but do you want to put your screw convention look to a popular vote?
Kindly Everyone deserves a neatly dug grave. It is the timing that's in dispute. ‘—
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subbie Member (Idle past 1276 days) Posts: 3509 Joined: |
quote: It's also not how our Constitution works. Certain types of classification and infringement of certain rights is unconstitutional, no matter how many people vote for it. I'm not particularly surprised that someone from Virginia would like to see popular vote trump the Constitution, given Virginia's history of discriminatory treatment of the right to marriage.
quote: Yup. I'm prejudiced against bigots. Of course, the difference is that I will defend your right to your opinion (but not your right to impose that opinion on others), even at the same time that you would try to deny gays their rights. How's that for ironic? Those who would sacrifice an essential liberty for a temporary security will lose both, and deserve neither. -- Benjamin Franklin We see monsters where science shows us windmills. -- Phat
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