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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: As an aside... Breasts are "mommy parts" in many cultures, and are not considered sex organs at all in those cultures. Unless you are going to consider all of the skin of a person a "sex organ" (which I actually do), it isn't really accurate to call breasts a sex organ. Their original and main purpose is to nourish young and we are taught (or not) through our culture to respond sexually to them. There is an interesting hypothesis floating around that explains why human female breasts are so much larger than most other mammals. It seems that when we used to locomote mostly on four legs, the female buttocks and actual genitals were the main sexual attractant to the male, but when humans became bipedal, all of that was far less prominent. As a result, breasts became a surrogate buttocks. This message has been edited by schrafinator, 11-03-2005 04:29 PM
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
So, do you think that people's healthcare should be determined mainly by profit-motive?
That's what HMO's and insurance companies' motivations are right now. Why not make them non-profit but still not run by the central government?
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: Probably not, in the same way that 40 years ago, "marital rape" didn't exist as a concept. Women aren't considered the property of their husbands or male relatives any more, and hopefully we are moving in the direction that children are not the property of their parents.
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
Gene, you do know that infants die every year from complications from circumcision, and others are rendered disfigured because their penis is cut off or otherwise badly damaged by botched operations, don't you?
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: LOL!!
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: Right. If we aren't giving children all the information they need to make a level-headed, informed decision about their own bodies, then we are actively promoting irresponsibility in them.
quote: Are you actually saying that you do not think that sex is natural and normal?
quote: What makes you think that teaching children the truth about sex, and that respecting others and being responsible is very important, will lead to casual relationships? It would seem that teaching people to repect others and to be responsible in sexual relationships would lead to more meaningful sexual interactions rather than casual ones. It would seem to be promoting them as important and wonderful events worth paying attention to and "doing the right way" rather than a dirty, forbidden thing to be stolen as a way to rebel.
quote: Again, why do you think that teaching respect and responsibility would lead to this?
quote: I agree. They also need to be told that sex is not dirty or forbidden, and they need to be told all of the facts regarding sexual disease and reproduction so that we can promote responsibilty instead of ignorance.
quote: Humans are not designed to be monogomous for life. That some of us choose to be is something different.
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: It is more likely that I will have a greater respect and regard for a person whom I have developed some kind of personal relationship with, and will see and interact with on a regular basis, compared to a nameless person that I have no emotional relationship with and will never see again. I have nothing invested in a stranger.
quote: Deep emotional intimacy adds meaning to sex for most people. Casual sex lacks this.
quote: Yes, this can and does happen, of course. It is interesting that you refer to emotional connection and commitment in such a negative way by using the word "entanglement".
quote: But it is clear that sexual acts actively promote emotional bonding (like in the Bonobos) between people and they do have a great impact on people's lives. This message has been edited by schrafinator, 12-30-2005 09:23 AM
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
It is more likely that I will have a greater respect and regard for a person whom I have developed some kind of personal relationship with, and will see and interact with on a regular basis, compared to a nameless person that I have no emotional relationship with and will never see again. quote: We are not talking about given individuals. We are talking about human social interactions and tendencies as a whole. In general it is much more likely that a given human will tend to have a greater respect and concern for a person they have an emotional connection to and will interact with regularly than a nameless stranger. This is clearly human nature.
quote: Probably.
quote: How can you have much regard for someone if you don't know them very well, or at all? How can you be responsible regarding your own sexual health if you don't know your partner well enough to have any idea if you can trust that they will also be responsible?
quote: Part of having all the information to make an informed descision about having sex with another person must include getting to know one's potential partner well enough to be able to reasonably conclude that they are going to be respectful and responsible. I don't really count "swinging communities" because these groups, as you have described them, seem to screen people in a way, and groups are able to enforce behavior better than a single person. In fact, I don't think I would count these groups as casual at all because everyone agrees ahead of time to adhere to certain standards, and the purpose of getting together is to have sex. It's planned.
Deep emotional intimacy adds meaning to sex for most people. Casual sex lacks this. quote: What you asked for was what casual sex lacked. Casual sex does not, by definition, contribute to deep emotional connection between people. It can't, otherwise it wouldn't be casual anymore. I do not dispute that other things in life can contribute to deep emotional connection, or that casual sex cannot bee meaningful nor fulfilling. But casual sex lacks deep emotional commitment between the participants, and that is what many people often say is a benefit of sex, and a reason to engage in it, at least some of the time.
It is interesting that you refer to emotional connection and commitment in such a negative way by using the word "entanglement". quote: Because it implies that you find emotional involvement inconvenient or undesireable.
But it is clear that sexual acts actively promote emotional bonding (like in the Bonobos) between people and they do have a great impact on people's lives. quote: So, since sex can and does promote emotional bonding and can and does have a large impact on many people's lives, we should let kids know that there is an emotional aspect to sex.
quote: When did I say we should be teaching that? Since when are a "long-term emotional bond with a single person" and "purely casual sex with lots of different partners with zero emotional committment" the only two possibilities?
quote: Haha, no. This message has been edited by schrafinator, 12-30-2005 03:31 PM
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: ...and you wonder why I ALWAYS regret responding to your posts. What a waste of time. I know what one of my new year's resolutions is.
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: God, get fricking over yourself, please!
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: Hey, Brenna, what did you have for lunch on April 15th when you were six years old? What were you wearing that day?
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
When you start making comments such as "Time to trade in your cracker jack diploma.", it is clear that all you want to do is ridicule.
Not. Worth. My. Time.
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nator Member (Idle past 2197 days) Posts: 12961 From: Ann Arbor Joined: |
quote: No. Back in that other thread, I asked about when you were six years old.
quote: Why are you using such tentative language? "Prolly" (sic) I thought it was simply impossible that you could ever forget a single thing? Don't you remember every single thing that has ever happened in your life with perfect accuracy after all? And if not, then why not admit that you overstated your ability in the other thread instead of just...how did you write it? Here, let me cut n paste it from message #253 of this thread:
because you always regret responding to people who question or challenge you. it's what you do. Pot, meet the kettle. This message has been edited by schrafinator, 01-01-2006 06:51 AM
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